Poor Ishu!!!!

Originally posted by: HareKrsna108

I felt so sorry for ishana when she heard into Lakhils conversations😭

poor thing😭

Don't get me wrong, i love Lakhil but...ishaana😭

Originally posted by: Parm.

Yes, I felt bad for her. She's lost her love of 7 years out of no fault of her own but...she should know better than to eavesdrop...it's not like anything major was said (and even with the shirt thing, you can hear that Laajo wasn't watching...) I think what bugged her the most and what set her off was the fact that both of them were laughing together (the rest upset her too but I think this was the key as she was waiting for Nikhil and he didn't show up like he promised he would do each and every year @ the specific date and time).

Plus...if she truly does want to move on and she told him there was no "them" anymore than she shouldn't have called him...what would that have accomplished????


But again, yes do feel bad for her, trying to commit suicide though is no solution...

Originally posted by: HareKrsna108

Hello Parmji, nice to meet you😃and her is my response below😳

Hi Back😊😊!

I agree she shouldn't have rang him!

Yup, she's giving him mixed signals, something the poor confused soul doesn't need in the first place😆😉

Sorry i hope my post didn't make it seem like i was justifying suicide, because i wasn't and never will! In fact i know suicide puts one in a worser position then before, so i am not happy with her decision and do not support anyone who takes such a decision.

Nope never assumed that and I know you just felt bad for her, as I do as well😊

But what i can understand is the immense trouble and sadness she must have felt to have come to this decision. Like she has been building a relationship with this guy for 7 years, imagine the amount of dreams and wishes she must have built upon it. Like she would never have been able to accept anything else and she would have shared everything with Nikhil and suddenly there is this other person in the middle and Nikhil is no longer hers. And i guess during the 7 year relationship she must have developed some form of possessiveness within her heart towards him, so when this third person steps in, she obviously feels so heart broken. She feels replaced, forgotten and the reality of it was such a big shock to her! But i am sure, like you all hope that it is just a small phase, surely with time she will get over it, but by looking at her current state, i feel really sorry. Equally i would feel sorry for Lajjo if Nikhil had favour Ishana over her (Lajjo), but by marriage he is obliged to Lajjo and to Ishana the 7 years of relationship suddenly becomes nothing. So i feel very sad for her! Sorry this is just my opinion and i hope not to offend you!

^^well said!
That's just it...I can truly feel for her and understand what she's going thru and I would feel bad for anyone in her situation. And no offense taken!😊

Also i am sure she didn't purposely sta to hear into the conversation, she was probably too shocked of the reality of it to put it down! Sorry if i said something bad!

I also agree with you here in that she didn't do it on purpose. But look what happened because she did. I'm sure she would not have reached her current state (attempted suicide) had she not listened in on the convo...I realize though too that had I been in her shoes it might have been hard to hang up😉😛

I accept that it was rude on her behalf to listen into the situation, but by what she was going through and the shock she was facing, i think she was just too shocked and emotional to think about what was correct and what was not. She expected Nikhil to be thinking about her and prehaps be sad about it, so when he seemed happy(laughing) with Laajo almost like he forget her, that did it for her especially since it was such a big promise done by him. I guess this is just a case of her emotions getting over her mind so it will be hard for her now, so that is why felt so sorry for her! Poor ishu! You can see how negative she was feeling about it and i just felt really sad for her when she said : "he has forgotten his ishana" and "sab khatam mogaya"😭

Exactly my point and exactly why I think hearing the two of them laughing together may have been what triggered her reaction...

Sorry again, didn't mean to offend, just think that at that point in time i really felt sorry for Ishana😃

No offense taken at all and I apologize for the same 😃
and I too felt bad for her...😭


Looking forward to reading more of you posts and point of view on this show and I'll apologize in advance if I offend you unintentionally in any of them😆

Parm

Originally posted by: .Nafisa.

Good discussion, on one hand she has told Nikhil, leave me alone but on the other hand she expects him to keep his promise to meet her on this specific date and time to make her laugh, she is confused, she should move on as he is married now, but it's not her fault that she is unable to move on because Nikhil keeps telling her of his love so he is holding onto their relationship, that is why I'm feeling sorry for her, that she has to see or hear his bond with Laajo getting stronger and her bond with him weakening all because Nikhil has not ended their relationship properly, if he let her go and she is still clinging to him then it's possible to hate Ishana, but because he hasn't let her go and is still promising things to her I do feel sorry for her, her mum is telling her, Kunal is telling her, but she will understand eventually that hanging around for Nikhil is not doing her any good.

Originally posted by: hana89

I agree with you nafisa...its all nikhil's fault...he is confused. ...himself. ...