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Posted: 14 years ago
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@Dreamygal nicely expressed.

"See I have this problem, we had seen RV and Avdesh become enemies and clashing so fiercely that their enimity should have lasted generations but in the blink of an eye, the whole enimity has been turned upside down. From december till early February, Avita were on the run from the law due to RV and now they are the best of friends. Avdesh all friendly and affable towards the man who had jailed and tortured his wife, the love of his life🤔......so my problem is, I find the episodes hard to watch because I kept expecting RV and Avdesh to draw their guns on one another due to all the unfinished business between them..... Except, the enimity now exist between Arpita and RV while our very own dear boy, Avdesh, remains oblivious😕. How can he put is aside so quickly? if Cvs later show us that he has always been suspicious, again I will not accept that for we have no lead on to that as well.
That really does grate, he is the hero and yet he has been emasculated in many ways. I understand the suspense is greater, if RV toys with Arpis for she is the weaker of the AviTa jodi and is easily manipulated. But why is Avdesh trusting him and welcoming him into the family? surely not because his sister has gone to that home? so what? many a brother has married a sister off and really not given a toss to her family, so why turn everything upside down here? Not even a shred of wariness or keeping a close watch on him (except by bhootni👏)!!"


I have the same problem. I agree with you that for the CV's it was convenient to stretch RV's character and actions & that Avi the hero has been weakened in all this. They should at least have shown him being a little wary after all that RV did to Arpi in the past!!!!🤔

In the recent episodes at times Avdesh looks almost like a prop ...with all the drama happening between RV and Arpita Avi sees nothing............filhaal usko Bhains Buddhi kehane mein Bhainson ka bhi apmaan hoga!!!!! The Bhainses would have more intuition and brains than Avi is shown to have.

Dekhte hain aagey kya hota hai!


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Posted: 14 years ago
#12
as i said all i know abt othello is that its play by shakespear and i dont even want to ask google uncle what happend there and all r saying even omkara is based on tht
and i hvnt seen that
thts why brain is empty regards to these two connections

bhootni cud surprise a lot and im liking her character more lately..

@swamini and msmarple..
this point i try to defend saying avdesh hasnt really grown up and doesnt understand complex situation in relationship
for him he has experienced love first time and now this wud be a differnt take on the love he has for arpita

so thats why mayb cvs have made him total dumb to realise things

and let me tell u in reality also some ppl dont understand what other is going through .. so i dont put blame on avdesh so much..


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Posted: 14 years ago
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hey ferdous 🤗
welcome back my V❤️miss u a lot
me too like cb di i culdnt think at all & totally hang...
i have some thing to say but now i cudnt sit front of pc more cos of my back pain...
wud back to u



Edited by chista - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Welcome bak Dreamy .......... missed ur writing n analysis 🤗

Seriously Cv's hv made d leads Lallu........ Avi being so stupid n dumb ........not digestable ........come on he's d main lead .........Cv's need 2 show some strength n atleast li'll brains in him n Arpi ...........but except bhauji n Rv n even Simple (hope she helps AVITA in future) no one has brains (all brains gone 4 walk or sleeping)......... only Bhauji's character has been constant 👏👏............ lets see wat d Cv's hv planned..
Edited by ice _girl - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: chatterbox

as i said all i know abt othello is that its play by shakespear and i dont even want to ask google uncle what happend there and all r saying even omkara is based on tht
and i hvnt seen that
thts why brain is empty regards to these two connections

bhootni cud surprise a lot and im liking her character more lately..

@swamini and msmarple..
this point i try to defend saying avdesh hasnt really grown up and doesnt understand complex situation in relationship
for him he has experienced love first time and now this wud be a differnt take on the love he has for arpita

so thats why mayb cvs have made him total dumb to realise things

and let me tell u in reality also some ppl dont understand what other is going through .. so i dont put blame on avdesh so much..


CB its simple & straight if once wife is trying to kill herself won't any husband find out the truth
Dumb ke saat Avi Blind bhi Kya did he see her jumpoing off
Or the CV's think the viewers are Fools😡
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: chatterbox

as i said all i know abt othello is that its play by shakespear and i dont even want to ask google uncle what happend there and all r saying even omkara is based on tht
and i hvnt seen that
thts why brain is empty regards to these two connections

bhootni cud surprise a lot and im liking her character more lately..

@swamini and msmarple..
this point i try to defend saying avdesh hasnt really grown up and doesnt understand complex situation in relationship
for him he has experienced love first time and now this wud be a differnt take on the love he has for arpita

so thats why mayb cvs have made him total dumb to realise things

and let me tell u in reality also some ppl dont understand what other is going through .. so i dont put blame on avdesh so much..


Di,
this is not about love. It is about Avdesh being wary...in fact as Bhaiyyaji he would not trust an enemy so easily. So why is he doing this here? it is like he has forgotten all that has happened...even if I can swallow that he forgives RV for jailing and torturing Arpi, how can he forget one of his friend/bro died due to RV?.......
With regards to his love, that only applies to Arpi and so I agree with you said but it can no way be stretched to RV. All I can think of is that we are being shown that he trusts Arpi so much, that he even thinks good of RV BY ASSOCIATION because she had pushed for the rishta, and also she has always been so wise when showing him the right path. This has now gone an extra step, in that Avdesh is sitting there all complacent, because Arpi is NEVER WRONG.
So CVs have two aim here. They want to shake up AviTA love, open Avdesh's eyes that even the person you love and trust, can be wrong and have clay feet and that though you may want to do well and lead a good life, there is always someone there ready to push off the right path. Most importantly, I think this will make Avdesh realise that he needs to find COMMON ground for both his sides -Bhiyyaji and Avdesh. That each side has qualities that he can use to lead the best life, not throw one off for the another - which is what he is doing now.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: msmarple

@Dreamygal nicely expressed.

"See I have this problem, we had seen RV and Avdesh become enemies and clashing so fiercely that their enimity should have lasted generations but in the blink of an eye, the whole enimity has been turned upside down. From december till early February, Avita were on the run from the law due to RV and now they are the best of friends. Avdesh all friendly and affable towards the man who had jailed and tortured his wife, the love of his life🤔......so my problem is, I find the episodes hard to watch because I kept expecting RV and Avdesh to draw their guns on one another due to all the unfinished business between them..... Except, the enimity now exist between Arpita and RV while our very own dear boy, Avdesh, remains oblivious😕. How can he put is aside so quickly? if Cvs later show us that he has always been suspicious, again I will not accept that for we have no lead on to that as well.
That really does grate, he is the hero and yet he has been emasculated in many ways. I understand the suspense is greater, if RV toys with Arpis for she is the weaker of the AviTa jodi and is easily manipulated. But why is Avdesh trusting him and welcoming him into the family? surely not because his sister has gone to that home? so what? many a brother has married a sister off and really not given a toss to her family, so why turn everything upside down here? Not even a shred of wariness or keeping a close watch on him (except by bhootni👏)!!"


I have the same problem. I agree with you that for the CV's it was convenient to stretch RV's character and actions & that Avi the hero has been weakened in all this. They should at least have shown him being a little wary after all that RV did to Arpi in the past!!!!🤔

In the recent episodes at times Avdesh looks almost like a prop ...with all the drama happening between RV and Arpita Avi sees nothing............filhaal usko Bhains Buddhi kehane mein Bhainson ka bhi apmaan hoga!!!!! The Bhainses would have more intuition and brains than Avi is shown to have.

Dekhte hain aagey kya hota hai!


@ red - I have been seeing this for a while now. See my response to CB di, it is like the CVs cannot show him being nice and gentl but still savvy enough to know when people are playing games. He has gone from being a tough guy, trusting no one to being Avdesh, who trusts people on face without looking beyond or thinking about their character....So a middle ground needs to be found.
But I find it totally out of character for him to be so chummy with RV without a hint of suspicion, not necessarily about what Arpi is going through, because of his character.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

Di,
this is not about love. It is about Avdesh being wary...in fact as Bhaiyyaji he would not trust an enemy so easily. So why is he doing this here? it is like he has forgotten all that has happened...even if I can swallow that he forgives RV for jailing and torturing Arpi, how can he forget one of his friend/bro died due to RV?.......
With regards to his love, that only applies to Arpi and so I agree with you said but it can no way be stretched to RV. All I can think of is that we are being shown that he trusts Arpi so much, that he even thinks good of RV BY ASSOCIATION because she had pushed for the rishta, and also she has always been so wise when showing him the right path. This has now gone an extra step, in that Avdesh is sitting there all complacent, because Arpi is NEVER WRONG.
So CVs have two aim here. They want to shake up AviTA love, open Avdesh's eyes that even the person you love and trust, can be wrong and have clay feet and that though you may want to do well and lead a good life, there is always someone there ready to push off the right path. Most importantly, I think this will make Avdesh realise that he needs to find COMMON ground for both his sides -Bhiyyaji and Avdesh. That each side has qualities that he can use to lead the best life, not throw one off for the another - which is what he is doing now.

yes i liked the BHAIYAJI's character who was always alert ......I find Avdesh too much in Awe of ARPITA
Edited by swamini5 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
#19
you know ,i dont care what are CV planning for us & what wud they have in their store for us...

i want to say about avis prsonality that we have seen til now. according to me avdesh/bhaiaji never decide & think in his life alone. as bhaiaji, always bahuji thought & decided instead of bhaiaji ...

and as avdesh arpita thinks & decides instead of avdesh...

he didnt a independent person. i dont like say this but i want to avdesh/bhaiaji will doubt arpita & bahuji for a short time this makes it he thought a little & wud be come a mature man! of course in brain not body...😕


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Posted: 14 years ago
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hey di , wat an analysis of situation/track/cv's thinking👏
relay,RV is that kind of character who can't face a strong opponent, so he always ready to use women socially when she is strength of that man whom he can't overpower,
thats y he always try to use arpi weather by torturing her in cell in front of him or at his back in disguise of relative.whom he can't insult 😡

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