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Dreamygal301

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Posted: 14 years ago

#61

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weak?...as in break apart or become so fearful and not the strong woman Avdesh deserves?

...love makes us vulnerable and pray to fears, even the intangible ones...

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deamy,
u r absolutly right,
but arpi dosent realize her situation yet. she wants a calm life & i think she is very realist.she sense danger for avi coz she knows he isnt God & invulnerable but bahuji is very selfish & she live in 14 years ago & thinks she has to fight against enemys of TK khandan forever. i think her courage
& her audacity blinds her eyes. she trust to avi as a god & she thinks he is a superman.

Chista, 👏👏

you are so right. Bhauji thinks Avdesh is a superman, invincible....that is why I mentioned earlier that maybe she will end up taking a bullet for him (though she won't die)...because in that instant her instinct to save him takes over....yesterday, Arpi was scared stiff and that woman was cool as ice because of her belief he will be ok.....but what if he isn't ok in front of her eyes?

And you are also right, she spent fighting and struggling and to this day she thinks they still need to fight - that is something that struck me from day one, I thought maybe she is seeing enemies everywhere...

hi dreamy,sia, cb & every one😊
i m comeback.
dreamy,
i dont want to say about my personal life but avdesh rememberd me my ex husband . he didnt a gunda 😉 but he was a Political activist & i fall in love with him coz of her activity. he fight for the his aims always & he didn want to live as a normal man.he didnt want to be accept that he is a vulnerable man & finally he went to the jail for 10 years. maybe, u dont believe me,he ruinned my life & my love.
people like them (avdesh & my ex hobby) never tought to his wife or his love.never!
frankly, i think arpis life like to my life. u know, maybe this is only a serial for others but for me is a real!

Chista, thanks for sharing a painful part of your life with us.🤗🤗

There are men like Avdesh in real life, whether a gunda or not, who are so immersed in something else that love often does not impact on their life...nor do they understand it.

Good thing about GKD is that it is a fiction, therefore the love element will be of a fairy tale...where it is reciprocated and hopefully we will also have HEA (happily ever after, di!😆)......I guess real life is even more lacking when we see this but it does fill the hole in us.

Keep your mind free and clear, chista...the man for you is just waiting to step in your life when you are ready...🤗

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Posted: 14 years ago

#62

oh man dreamy ur abbreviations

looks like i m the only one who needs glossary on the abbreviations

and chista dreamy is right look ahead someone surely wud be ur way who wud be right for u

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Dreamygal301

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Posted: 14 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: MonyP
Hey Dreamy🤗
superb analysis once again.👏

My heart goes to Arpi yaar. Couldn't see her in that stat. She needs to get stronger but her behavior is natural. When you know some one you love is in danger and you have no control over the situation, how can a person like Arpi remain calm?

I have a feeling that Arpi will get hurt and her life will be in danger too. That will make Avi realize what Arpi has been going through? I want him to have a dream just like Arpi while she is fighting for life in the hospital. I want to see him panicking just like Arpi. He should know that its natural to get scared when life of your loved one is at stake and that doesn't make you a weak person. He understand arpi loves him so much but hasn't done anything for her so far. Hopefully Arpi's near death experience will open his eyes and will stop thinking about revenge for a while. Since bhiyaji is also in a process of learning different emotions, this situation might teach him a lesson or two.

At the end this is just a show and CV's are mai-baap so anything can posible.

Hi Mony,🤗

Thank you. Love what you said about Avi learning..... and he is, very slowly. If Arpi were to get injured, he will know without a doubt what life will be like without her and that may spur him to do something about this untenable position they are in.....but it could also work against, he could get scared and fear losing her and so will be determined to keep her safe and from harm's way....

As for Arpi, yes it is natural to be scared but I cannot help thinking that since she saw the reality of life and his temper (motu, the informer) her fears run even deeper as she had seen the brutality of it. Her gentle heart cannot deal with this, and when she feels fear it is treble the normal amount because her mind is playing back the scenes she has already seen - this is all natural as well. I also think for her own peace of mind and health, she needs to be a bit stronger as well. Of course as I also keep saying she is still young, everything is still new and she is stumbling in the dark with no one to share or tell her fears to even for someone to be with her during this fearful times (whenever he goes out to fight)..that would have made all the difference to her...

And you are so right, CVs hold the reins and trps are their gods....😳

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chista

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Posted: 14 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301
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weak?...as in break apart or become so fearful and not the strong woman Avdesh deserves?

...love makes us vulnerable and pray to fears, even the intangible ones...

\

deamy,
u r absolutly right,
but arpi dosent realize her situation yet. she wants a calm life & i think she is very realist.she sense danger for avi coz she knows he isnt God & invulnerable but bahuji is very selfish & she live in 14 years ago & thinks she has to fight against enemys of TK khandan forever. i think her courage
& her audacity blinds her eyes. she trust to avi as a god & she thinks he is a superman.

Chista, 👏👏

you are so right. Bhauji thinks Avdesh is a superman, invincible....that is why I mentioned earlier that maybe she will end up taking a bullet for him (though she won't die)...because in that instant her instinct to save him takes over....yesterday, Arpi was scared stiff and that woman was cool as ice because of her belief he will be ok.....but what if he isn't ok in front of her eyes?

And you are also right, she spent fighting and struggling and to this day she thinks they still need to fight - that is something that struck me from day one, I thought maybe she is seeing enemies everywhere...

hi dreamy,sia, cb & every one😊
i m comeback.
dreamy,
i dont want to say about my personal life but avdesh rememberd me my ex husband . he didnt a gunda 😉 but he was a Political activist & i fall in love with him coz of her activity. he fight for the his aims always & he didn want to live as a normal man.he didnt want to be accept that he is a vulnerable man & finally he went to the jail for 10 years. maybe, u dont believe me,he ruinned my life & my love.
people like them (avdesh & my ex hobby) never tought to his wife or his love.never!
frankly, i think arpis life like to my life. u know, maybe this is only a serial for others but for me is a real!

Chista, thanks for sharing a painful part of your life with us.🤗🤗

There are men like Avdesh in real life, whether a gunda or not, who are so immersed in something else that love often does not impact on their life...nor do they understand it.

Good thing about GKD is that it is a fiction, therefore the love element will be of a fairy tale...where it is reciprocated and hopefully we will also have HEA (happily ever after, di!😆)......I guess real life is even more lacking when we see this but it does fill the hole in us.

Keep your mind free and clear, chista...the man for you is just waiting to step in your life when you are ready...🤗

thanks dreamy,
i dont know why i said my story to you! but i need to explain my feeling for another one like u.
no i cant imagine that another guy will come to my calm life! never! its enough!
and one things i have to say: avdesh is sure that he has arpita coz of this he isnt concern about her & yet he dosesnt fear for missing arpi.

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Dreamygal301

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Posted: 14 years ago

#65

Originally posted by: chista

weak?...as in break apart or become so fearful and not the strong woman Avdesh deserves?

...love makes us vulnerable and pray to fears, even the intangible ones...

\

deamy,
u r absolutly right,
but arpi dosent realize her situation yet. she wants a calm life & i think she is very realist.she sense danger for avi coz she knows he isnt God & invulnerable but bahuji is very selfish & she live in 14 years ago & thinks she has to fight against enemys of TK khandan forever. i think her courage
& her audacity blinds her eyes. she trust to avi as a god & she thinks he is a superman.

Chista, 👏👏

you are so right. Bhauji thinks Avdesh is a superman, invincible....that is why I mentioned earlier that maybe she will end up taking a bullet for him (though she won't die)...because in that instant her instinct to save him takes over....yesterday, Arpi was scared stiff and that woman was cool as ice because of her belief he will be ok.....but what if he isn't ok in front of her eyes?

And you are also right, she spent fighting and struggling and to this day she thinks they still need to fight - that is something that struck me from day one, I thought maybe she is seeing enemies everywhere...

hi dreamy,sia, cb & every one😊
i m comeback.
dreamy,
i dont want to say about my personal life but avdesh rememberd me my ex husband . he didnt a gunda 😉 but he was a Political activist & i fall in love with him coz of her activity. he fight for the his aims always & he didn want to live as a normal man.he didnt want to be accept that he is a vulnerable man & finally he went to the jail for 10 years. maybe, u dont believe me,he ruinned my life & my love.
people like them (avdesh & my ex hobby) never tought to his wife or his love.never!
frankly, i think arpis life like to my life. u know, maybe this is only a serial for others but for me is a real!

Chista, thanks for sharing a painful part of your life with us.🤗🤗

There are men like Avdesh in real life, whether a gunda or not, who are so immersed in something else that love often does not impact on their life...nor do they understand it.

Good thing about GKD is that it is a fiction, therefore the love element will be of a fairy tale...where it is reciprocated and hopefully we will also have HEA (happily ever after, di!😆)......I guess real life is even more lacking when we see this but it does fill the hole in us.

Keep your mind free and clear, chista...the man for you is just waiting to step in your life when you are ready...🤗

thanks dreamy,
i dont know why i said my story to you! but i need to explain my feeling for another one like u.
no i cant emagine that another guy will come to my calm life! never! its enough!
and one things i have to say: avdesh is sure that he has arpita coz of this he isnt concern about her & yet he dosesnt fear for missing arpi.

Aww thanks, Chista.

And spot on! Avdesh is so sure of her because she is his at last!😳😃...it is because she is at his home, where he knows she is and there is no need to worry about her.....if she had still be living at her maika, you can bet your boots he would have been thinking about her and missing her....dreaming of her.....I still remember his lonely night drive to her balcony, the tears on his cheeks as he held her earring.....we need a scene like that asap...😍

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chista

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Posted: 14 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301
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deamy,
u r absolutly right,
but arpi dosent realize her situation yet. she wants a calm life & i think she is very realist.she sense danger for avi coz she knows he isnt God & invulnerable but bahuji is very selfish & she live in 14 years ago & thinks she has to fight against enemys of TK khandan forever. i think her courage
& her audacity blinds her eyes. she trust to avi as a god & she thinks he is a superman.

Chista, 👏👏

you are so right. Bhauji thinks Avdesh is a superman, invincible....that is why I mentioned earlier that maybe she will end up taking a bullet for him (though she won't die)...because in that instant her instinct to save him takes over....yesterday, Arpi was scared stiff and that woman was cool as ice because of her belief he will be ok.....but what if he isn't ok in front of her eyes?

And you are also right, she spent fighting and struggling and to this day she thinks they still need to fight - that is something that struck me from day one, I thought maybe she is seeing enemies everywhere...

hi dreamy,sia, cb & every one😊
i m comeback.
dreamy,
i dont want to say about my personal life but avdesh rememberd me my ex husband . he didnt a gunda 😉 but he was a Political activist & i fall in love with him coz of her activity. he fight for the his aims always & he didn want to live as a normal man.he didnt want to be accept that he is a vulnerable man & finally he went to the jail for 10 years. maybe, u dont believe me,he ruinned my life & my love.
people like them (avdesh & my ex hobby) never tought to his wife or his love.never!
frankly, i think arpis life like to my life. u know, maybe this is only a serial for others but for me is a real!

Chista, thanks for sharing a painful part of your life with us.🤗🤗

There are men like Avdesh in real life, whether a gunda or not, who are so immersed in something else that love often does not impact on their life...nor do they understand it.

Good thing about GKD is that it is a fiction, therefore the love element will be of a fairy tale...where it is reciprocated and hopefully we will also have HEA (happily ever after, di!😆)......I guess real life is even more lacking when we see this but it does fill the hole in us.

Keep your mind free and clear, chista...the man for you is just waiting to step in your life when you are ready...🤗

thanks dreamy,
i dont know why i said my story to you! but i need to explain my feeling for another one like u.
no i cant emagine that another guy will come to my calm life! never! its enough!
and one things i have to say: avdesh is sure that he have arpita coz of this he isnt concern about her & yet he dosesnt fear for missing arpi.

Aww thanks, Chista.😊

And spot on! Avdesh is so sure of her because she is his at last!😳😃...it is because she is at his home, where he knows she is and there is no need to worry about her.....if she had still be living at her maika, you can bet your boots he would have been thinking about her and missing her....dreaming of her.....I still remember his lonely night drive to her balcony, the tears on his cheeks as he held her earring.....we need a scene like that asap...😍

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yes yes, i remembered that night that he drive to arpis balcony , bhaiaji in tears!!!😳such a nice epi😍
when a human have a valuble things he dosent appreciate that he has to missing till appreciate that.

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Again Mindblowing analysis Dreamy!!!!👏👏

I don't understand only one thing that how come Arpita still trusts bhauji.....now they shud reveal her true face...

Anyways thanks for such an awesome post..🤗

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: jes_jade
Again Mindblowing analysis Dreamy!!!!👏👏

I don't understand only one thing that how come Arpita still trusts bhauji.....now they shud reveal her true face...

Anyways thanks for such an awesome post..🤗

Seriously how can Arpi think dat Bhauji will listen 2 her n stop them😡😡😡😡 . Arpi needs 2 control herself n be strong. I felt bad 4 her😔 .....kitna ro rahi thi n yet there r more 2 come 😭..............waha baad aa jayega 😆😆 The CV's r making her vulnerable n weak....they need 2 make her strong as she has 2 get Avi on d rt. path, reveal Bhauji's true face n hv 2 face more problems.

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: coolguy3

Seriously how can Arpi think dat Bhauji will listen 2 her n stop them😡 . Arpi needs 2 control herself n be strong. I felt bad 4 her😔 .....kitna ro rahi thi n yet there r more 2 come 😭..............waha baad aa jayega 😆😆 The CV's r making her vulnerable n weak....they need 2 make her strong as she has 2 get Avi on d rt. path, reveal Bhauji's true face n hv 2 face more problems.

Yeah its all in CVs hands...I still feel Arpi is strong.....but don't know why she also like Avi can't see bhauji's true face...😭

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: jes_jade
Again Mindblowing analysis Dreamy!!!!👏👏

I don't understand only one thing that how come Arpita still trusts bhauji.....now they shud reveal her true face...

Anyways thanks for such an awesome post..🤗

Hi Jes,🤗

Thank you and good to see you here.😊

Arpita only trusts bhauji to influence Avdesh. When he bought her to the haveli, he told her that he respects bhauji and looks at her as a mother figure..Arpita promised to look at her the same...to respect whatever her respects....so this is her way of trusting her husband....

I think she does suspect Bhauji a bit, how can she not after being at the receiving end of those words...but again Avdesh had told her that bhauji has not always been like this, her circumstance had made her hard...her words are hard but only because she cares and etc....You must understand, we can all have doubts about someone but until they actually do something clear and outright, we can only have suspicion.

Here Arpita knew it would be useless for her to talk to Avdesh, he will just brush aside her fears because she loves him and is not used to this violent life, he leads....so she made it straight to bhauji, knowing this woman can order him back or tell him to put off his plan and he would listen to her.

Did u watch tonight's eppy? I think this will lead to Arpita seeing bhauji's true face...maybe even Avdesh will find out...bhauji may even ill-treat Arpita....

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