Bahuji herself has given not once but many times clues of being over possessive and dominating on avdesh..
Clue no 1:- Though arpita and avdesh got married she said I will not accept this marriage and separated them very cleverly saying that babuaji ki shaadi toh dhoom dhaam se hogi!! Arpita should think Why?? She should be happy that her devar is finally now a married man!!
Clue no 2:- After avdesh gets shot by papa rai bahuji told arpita that if anything happens to babuaji then you will be responsible for it. And everyone is aware that she was the one who has made him a gunda..So his life is already at risk! Arpita should think Why? Papa came to shoot me and avdesh ji saved me how am I responsible?? He became a gunda because of you at that time you never thought about this
Clue no 3:- After they got married she did the big drama on their SR and made avdesh take the bhishma Pratigya...Arpita should wonder :-Why did she select this perfect time to cry out??
Clue no 4:- She cried in front of avdesh one night and asked him to break his pratigya! Arpita saw heard realized everything and also mentioned Dekh rahe hai ki aapke kitne chehre hai!!!! I as a fan wish to ask uske baad bhi bahuji ko DIDI bana liye WAH!!! What did you do after that???
Clue no 5:- She always interferes between avdesh and arpita and doesn't even allow them to talk properly and starts her own kahani...Again the same thing why she always needs to give her opinion when not even asked!
Clue no 6:- THE BIGGEST HINT OF ALL TIME
Yesterday's(7th december 2010) episode where in bahuji said a lot of things like aurat parro ki jooti hoti hai katne lage to badal dena chahiye etc etc😡...Tum jaise do takhe ki ladki blah blah balh.... Girl instead of the paro style running you should have confronted your didi why do you have such a lot of problems with me??? How can you speak like this being a woman yourself??
So if ARPITA takes out little bit of time and thinks over all what happened between her and her newly found DIDI she can uncover the DARK TRUTH of her didi.😕...And these days women have proven to be better analyst of things than men...
Sorry about this very long analysis but for the past few days all this was bothering me a lot...They portrayed Arpita as a bold character and these days she is doing nothing but 😭😭😭 So arpita please wake up to realize and understand the actual things going around you!!!! Open your eyes you will encounter the truth