Things I Noticed - 06/29/11 - Page 2

Originally posted by: nureat01

Yay! TINs have now been inaugurated in the Gulaal forum! Wooohoo!🤗😆

Awesome as always, Fivray!

I told you I loved the Kesar scenes in this epi...he got to explain his feelings more clearly...the bits that stood out to me were him explaining WHY he brought her back...his GUILT that HE drove her out of the home that means everything to her and where all her happiness lies...I also loved his "Mere dil mein uske liye kya jagah hai, main tujhe kaise samjhaun"...line...makes you think that the magnitude of his emotions for Gulaal is just on a whole another plane.

I loved his parting outburst..."Yeh sirf MERI hi galti kyun maani jaa rahi hai?" SO true...fine he has made some mistakes in his approach...even if he too was pushed to them in a sense...but everyone IS piling on him in a sense...not that Gulaal isn't facing her own pressures like you said...she's got her own mother and then JK breathing down her neck in different ways...and that Sudha as well...but there are still some ppl who give her understanding...her father, Paanba, Motabha...NO ONE gives KESAR any understanding.

And that is why we see him driven to GOD as a last resort...you know these kind of "mandir mein bhagwaan ko confront karna" kind of scenes can be made so cheesy in movies and TV shows...but I thought it was very well handled yesterday...once again Kesar's STRAIGHTFORWARDNESS as a character is what I like so much...even as he laid out all his anguish in front of God...I especially liked his line about "Duniya ke yeh dhakosle MERI samajh mein nahin aate! Aur main samajhna CHAHTA bhi nahin!"..."Sahi galat, achha, bura yeh main DUNIYA ki nazar se KYUN dekhun?"...Fantasticcc dialogues! And I also loved the "Kya pyar karne ki koi hadh ya seema ho sakti hai? Kya pyar kabhi naap-toal ke kiya jaa sakta hai?"...Aww Kesar...your heart really goes out to him in this scene...sach NO ONE has the answers to his questions...bechara kare bhi toh kya?

Anyways, this scene deffo indicated that God will help him now...lol...especially with that significant si flute tune playing in the end.

I also loved the scene b/w Gulaal and Revji bhai...very poignant as you wonderfully described...I do feel bad for Gulaal too yaar...I feel bad for both of them in different ways...but that is the genius of the story...they make you empathize with all viewpoints.

And yes I too rolled my eyes at Gulaal still trying to use Talli as her 'delivery service' as you said...LOL...seriously Gulaal you can't hide behind Talli forever...waise bhi Kesar can see through you...*cough* blanket scene *cough* :P :P haha

@bold: I really found this perspective to why he did what he did so interesting! Because I had always just assumed (just like Gulaal) that he was calling her back because HE couldn't live with out her.. And I'd be lying if I said that I didn't find it just a least bit tantrum-ish.. I mean not by a lot because clearly Kesar is a very passionate person - jo bhi karta hai poorey dil sey karta hai.. Toh I wasn't surprised at the fact that he was so persistent in bringing her back.. I am just amazed at the reason behind it - the one that I clearly missed but now that I look at it, I realize how that was TOTALLY Kesar. He WOULD be this persistent for Gulaal's sake.. Apney liye hota hai, but as soon as he finds out that it is hurting Gulaal, he backs off.. But in her case, he literally pushed her to do something she thinks she doesn't want because he knows she wants it.. That sounds a lot like Kesar and I'm surprised I missed it.. 😳

@red: Dude! I just love his straightforwardness, as you put it.. I LOVE how SIMPLE it is for him - how clear these things are.. He's a confused guy for the most part, with a lot of conflicting emotions/thoughts running through his mind.. But in these instances, where it concerns him knowing what he wants to do and how he wants to do it, he is VERY clear.. He KNOWS what HE wants and that is all that matters.. Why should he have to conform his life by the rules that society has made.. Why should he have to uphold them too!

*sigh* Seriously yaar.. I am a fan of his dialogues! 😳😆

@blue: LMAO! Lagta hai Gulaal took offense to this comment Anu.. Because ab toh lagta hai this week itself will end on an issue that is born out of Gulaal's use of the delivery service! 🤣

Originally posted by: -Fivr-

@trudecent: Lol! Thank you jee.. *blushes* Woh kya hai na, Sudhama and Taali's presence in the scene just irks me these days.. After the way they've acted it just annoys me to hear them talk. They have a long way to go before they redeem themselves in my eyes.. 😆

@Srushti: Arey yaar.. Back ka toh pata nahi.. But if an episode gives me something to think about/say then I'll try to put it down as semi-decently as possible! 😳 Ab actual mein kitna decent hoga ye toh waqt hi bataye ga.. 🤣

@Gulaalfreak: I do realize that Sudha's reaction in this situation has been largely influenced by her own past. The fact that her husband ill treated her (and still does), her mother-in-law never gives her the time of day and over all she's always felt like Taali is the ONLY constant in her life that she can count on for her happiness and find solace in.. So when she sees Taali hurt just the same way by a guy she was supposed to marry and mainly because that guy loves SOMEONE ELSE (hence reminding her of her own husband's numerous affairs), I totally see why she's like to exercise some "control".. and why she's so aggravated.. But it still doesn't excuse her for the hypocrisy that she exhibits in her decisions.. The way she has let herself and HER failure for not protecting her daughter better entirely slide.. NOT even a little bit of the blame is shifted on her incompetency.. Sara blame Kesar aur Gulaal pe?! *rolls eyes* Woh ghalat they toh, Sudha jee bhi kum nahi theen.. People living in glass houses really shouldn't throw stones.. 😳😆
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@bintus02: Thank you for reading! I'm glad you liked it. 😳

@chweetu: Thanks for appreciating.. I was just rambling on about whatever was running through my mind but I'm glad you liked it.. 😳

@Ritz: I think it's the whole "what will they do now and HOW will they do it!" that is so intriguing in the first place.. I mean because really, we all know where this will end (hopefully!).. We can safely assume that Kesar and Gulaal will be with each other eventually.. But just the path the take to go about it.. That is such an interesting thing to watch, nahi..? 😍

Lol! BALH k barey mein toh nahi pata.. I can't sit through a whole episode of that thing.. The chillar party (as they have been dubbed since) really do get on my nerves.. 😳😆