Decision going OFF hands!

Omg! What is going.on? i am going crazy here... this decision was truly wrong as we all have predict it before...and now that everything is a mess, kesar is again upto something...? guys,,, i have a feeling that kesar might decide to break his deyarrvatoo in order for gulaal to come back home, because that is the reason behind gulaal not coming to her susural?? OH NO!!😭 what do you think..?

Originally posted by: Manoshono

Omg! What is going.? i am going crazy here... this decision was truly wrong as we all have predict it before...and now that everything is a mess, kesar is again upto something...? guys,,, i have a feeling that kesar might decide to break his deyarrvatoo in order for gulaal to come back home, because that is the reason behind gulaal not coming to her susural?? OH NO!!😭 what do you think..?

If Gulaal has no deeryarvattu then she has no susral, an if she does not want to go back, or accept Kesar as her husband then why is she still wearing colour?...why has no one pointed THAT to her...since everyone is eager to point fingers at Kesar.

Originally posted by: raven14

If Gulaal has no deeryarvattu then she has no susral, an if she does not want to go back, or accept Kesar as her husband then why is she still wearing colour?...why has no one pointed THAT to her...since everyone is eager to point fingers at Kesar.

And to be fair Kesar has accepted her not returning his feelings...he just wants to return to the place she calls home.

True.. but like mota ba and paan ba.. they always considered her as a their own daughter, and they would stil want her to stay at their place... but i am like seriousoly,even though they do consider her as their daughter, but in reality you cant assume that, you have to live as society offers you to live... and yeah there is another good point that you have said about wearing color ful clothes.. i mean really gulaal..? you dont consider kesar as your husband, wants to live as vasant's widow for the rest of your life and still trying to act as married women but not going to accept the relaionship. kesar is not forcing her, he just want her to come back...thats all this guy wants but again no body is willing to understand him or even look at his pain..😡 but i dont kknow what kesar might do..kesar again has determined looked on his face when he told his thought to sudha..

I could not agree more. All these years Gulaal has lived like Kesar's wife in colorful clothes. Had she lived like Vasant's widow she would have a taste of reality. She would not even be allowed to enter the kitchen and would not be as free. Even today she behaves like a married woman. The who;e family has been torn apart after Vasant's death. Their views are so misguided and one-sided, and Gulaal has too much leeway. Mota Bha and Paan Baa have a completely hands-off upbringing style. Gulaal can go to the panchayat but Kesar cannot? And Sudha needs to keep her trap shut.

Originally posted by: Nach_Baliye

I could not agree more. All these years Gulaal has lived like Kesar's wife in colorful clothes. Had she lived like Vasant's widow she would have a taste of reality. She would not even be allowed to enter the kitchen and would not be as free. Even today she behaves like a married woman. The who;e family has been torn apart after Vasant's death. Their views are so misguided and one-sided, and Gulaal has too much leeway. Mota Bha and Paan Baa have a completely hands-off upbringing style. Gulaal can go to the panchayat but Kesar cannot? And Sudha needs to keep her trap shut.

The biggest problem in their family is that they still considered kesar as a 12 years old kid... they think kesar is not that mature enough to take his own decisions... and the ''Mahan gulaal'' is the most sensible to be considered correct after doing the deervatto and took the decision for talli and kesar's marrige... kesar has done wrong to one extent but we cannot blame him for everything.. but again the whole blame shlame is always put on kesar. On the other hand when gulaal took some decisions wrong, her fault is always to be ignored by others, just because she has suffered alot after vasant died... we feel her pain but how can everyone forget to think about kesar... sometime i feel that kesar does not belong to their family, like they have adopted him instead of talli, the way he is treated by others...lol! 😆

Originally posted by: Nach_Baliye

I could not agree more. All these years Gulaal has lived like Kesar's wife in colorful clothes. Had she lived like Vasant's widow she would have a taste of reality. She would not even be allowed to enter the kitchen and would not be as free. Even today she behaves like a married woman. The who;e family has been torn apart after Vasant's death. Their views are so misguided and one-sided, and Gulaal has too much leeway. Mota Bha and Paan Baa have a completely hands-off upbringing style. Gulaal can go to the panchayat but Kesar cannot? And Sudha needs to keep her trap shut.

Originally posted by: Manoshono

Omg! What is going.on? i am going crazy here... this decision was truly wrong as we all have predict it before...and now that everything is a mess, kesar is again upto something...? guys,,, i have a feeling that kesar might decide to break his deyarrvatoo in order for gulaal to come back home, because that is the reason behind gulaal not coming to her susural?? OH NO!!😭 what do you think..?

Originally posted by: truedecent

n i have a feeling that kesar vl say ok gulaal is not coming in the house due to me, i vl leave the house but she should come back, or may be he vl do some thing harmful... oh no i dont even wanna think about that... the panchayat going decision was not good at all but kesar is so so so desparately craving for gulaal that he didn even give the decision a second thought n just got hold of the ray of hope which came to him through raman's words... 😭

Yeah when a person is frustrated or even in anger and when he/she takes a decison, it always turns out to be wrong...i was sad on the fact when JK and revji started arguing about gulaal coming back home, Jk taunts and all.. did you see kesar's expression, he was totally lost and frustrated... it was heart breakng to see him like that. It looks like that he lost all hopes at that time and everyone is consideriing him wrong..

Originally posted by: Manoshono

Yeah when a person is frustrated or even in anger and when he/she takes a decison, it always turns out to be wrong...i was sad on the fact when JK and revji started arguing about gulaal coming back home, Jk taunts and all.. did you see kesar's expression, he was totally lost and frustrated... it was heart breakng to see him like that. It looks like that he lost all hopes at that time and everyone is consideriing him wrong..😭

Hi manoshono! I totally agree with you!!!!!!!