After watching the last 10 minutes of yesterdays episode I dont know why but I feel kesar needs to grow up.Idont deny that he loves gulal so much that his life starts & ends with gulal only,but his love for gulal should be his strength not his weakness.He does everything like pleading,throwing tantrums & shedding tears in front of gulal so that she accepts his love.That not right.Love is something so dignifed that you cannot get it by pleading or crying or demanding.If you love some one & the person refuses to acknowledge it ,let the person go ,let them realise,if it is meant for us it will come back to us no matter what .
Kesar also has to let go of gulal,let her have some space so that she can think & analysie her feelings.
Kesar should start taking up his responsibility in his familiy.He has to grow in that direction.Before he takes any action,he should analysie its outcome As once motaba had said that whatever he does he should also think as how it will affect others.Today gulal was right in saying that he does not think what he has to say in front of elders & he kept on arguing like a kid with gulal.When that dint stop gulal from leaving he started pleading.Why?
Before becoming a good husband ,he has to become a good & reponsible son.brother,friend,employer,person.They should be proud of him.then only gulal can see him differently.Till now gulal sees him as a child only though she is aware that he is grown up physically but she has seen nothing in him in terms of responsibilty which she can proudly say to vasanth "look at kesar ,see how he has taken your reponsibility from where you left"
Agreed kesar cannot be another vasanth,but he has to prove his own identity.he has to prove maybe he is not as good as vasanth but in no ways is he less.