My take on Kesar

sauris thumbnail
17th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail Engager Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#1
After watching the last 10 minutes of yesterdays episode I dont know why but I feel kesar needs to grow up.Idont deny that he loves gulal so much that his life starts & ends with gulal only,but his love for gulal should be his strength not his weakness.He does everything like pleading,throwing tantrums & shedding tears in front of gulal so that she accepts his love.That not right.Love is something so dignifed that you cannot get it by pleading or crying or demanding.If you love some one & the person refuses to acknowledge it ,let the person go ,let them realise,if it is meant for us it will come back to us no matter what .
Kesar also has to let go of gulal,let her have some space so that she can think & analysie her feelings.
Kesar should start taking up his responsibility in his familiy.He has to grow in that direction.Before he takes any action,he should analysie its outcome As once motaba had said that whatever he does he should also think as how it will affect others.Today gulal was right in saying that he does not think what he has to say in front of elders & he kept on arguing like a kid with gulal.When that dint stop gulal from leaving he started pleading.Why?
Before becoming a good husband ,he has to become a good & reponsible son.brother,friend,employer,person.They should be proud of him.then only gulal can see him differently.Till now gulal sees him as a child only though she is aware that he is grown up physically but she has seen nothing in him in terms of responsibilty which she can proudly say to vasanth "look at kesar ,see how he has taken your reponsibility from where you left"
Agreed kesar cannot be another vasanth,but he has to prove his own identity.he has to prove maybe he is not as good as vasanth but in no ways is he less.

Created

Last reply

Replies

3

Views

506

Users

4

Likes

20

Frequent Posters

*Reemz* thumbnail
20th Anniversary Thumbnail Trailblazer Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 14 years ago
#2
I think mostly everyone would agree that Kesar needs to do some growing up but I'm trying to fathom what else Kesar can do to get on the good side of his family. He has joined the business anyway, he does treat the employers with respect etc. He is a genuinely nice guy whose emotions overwhelm his logic at times...when it comes to Gulaal anyway.

Gulaal needs space but from the story's perspective, how much space should Kesar give Gulaal right now? As he said yesterday, she will live without him but he won't be able to.

The thing is that we blame Kesar for being so dependant on Gulaal but even Gulaal has become so dependant on Vasant's dreams that she doesn't think for herself. The only difference is that she has her emotions in control, she has them bottled up but even that's not healthy.

If Kesar has to mature then Gulaal needs to let herself live a bit.
Edited by *Reemz* - 14 years ago
Incense thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#3
we love for kesar for that immature headstrong behaviour ...i find him best in whatever he does ofcourse he commits mistake but then has guts to admit it...and yesterday what he did ...i think any mature sensible person will react in the same manner...if his life is about to shatter before him...if kesar wasnt in that place and vasant was there and gulaal was about to leave him forever...he would have also go down in knees...kesar was pleading for his life...cute and emotional 😳
bintus02 thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Explorer Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#4
I beg to differ on this analysis on Kesar. He was not actually begging Gulaal to love him, he was pleading with her not leave home or leave him. Many grown men and women would have responded in the same manner when it seems their life is about to desert or abandon them.
There is nothing undignified about getting down on your kness for the one you love.You have to try your best to stop that person by whatever means neccessary. If he had to let her go in the end, I am sure he will be grown up about it but that was not the time for him to just stand there and let her just walk out. It would have been very strange indeed if he did not attempt to stop her from leaving.

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".