Originally posted by: peacefulblossom
I think your right there.
She promised to find someone for Kesar and then told herself that Talli is the right person.
I think she might be just tired...in the context after Vasant dying shes been fighting with everyone and herself too stay here and achieving his dreams. How that Kesar is grown up she wants to end the story and let Kesar continue. And Talli seems the easy and obvious choice. She's been hiding her heartbreak for so many years she just wants some freedom.
Its noted that Gulaal doesnt comment about her marriage to Kesar much....she kind of avoids the subject...but no one can change that they are married.
I feel sorry for Talli in some ways....she wasn't even thinking about Kesar like that until Gulaal pointed it out. And she kind of got brainwashed. But I can see why Gulaal thought that two childhood friends can become lovers.
But can Talli really say she's in love with Kesar? Does she even know Kesar yet? To love someone you need to embrace both their good and bad. Talli is in love with an idea (marry Kesar adn staying in the house)....is she really in love with the person?
I'm trying not to analysis much until I finished watching the old parts...but come in to see what you guys are talking about.
Talli i will say got attached to Kesar in a friends way, and even innocently when Kesar was going away she said 'i will wait for you' - Talli has been aware of Kesar even in her childhood days as such but i could also name that as a best friend mode esp as her mother passed away and she only had a father and in Kesar's house and with Gul and ppl in there, she became associated with them etc - she felt comfy amongst them etc
I think your right that at this point if you see the maha-episode again Gul did say when she was talking with Vasant, that she made a promise that she will fulfill his dream but it seems Kesar isnt even up to that mark yet and all she wants to do it full-filled and be free of it as such
Yep they dont all comment on it, like i said to the outside village its their identity and such, now they are grown up there is a difference to how they were before and now.... which is coming into play a such
I think Talli has been summed up now - that she is in love with the idea of marrying Kesar, i dont see her in love with Kesar just him at all in a way, she even has to ask him how does she look, what does he think - its like forcing him to look at her and so on. the question you ask is right, is she actually in love with Kesar? she doesnt even know this Kesar well at all........
Thats why even last week or so, i was like all she does is pray for him to come back and she doesnt even know this Kesar at all, so what is she expecting, him to just fall all over her........ and hopes of marrying him
Edited by Lennie - 14 years ago