Not worth it - Page 22

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Just watched the episode..the sorry was so shallow, no food feeding, no hand holding , no eye locks ..aisa kaise chalega😌

Originally posted by: Blackwater

Just watched the episode..the sorry was so shallow, no food feeding, no hand holding , no eye locks ..aisa kaise chalega😌

Kal aayega maybe.

This Pakrat scenes they start on one day and extend to next day.

The hall scene and bedroom scene dialogues are so similar.

It will continue tmrw. And it started yesterday.

But Sai and V s school admission scene was not even half the episode. In between all CN scenes also inserted

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I wish to see SaiRat turning friends n V saying to P, 'Samjho' our dosti...that will be ultimate 😆

Perception and Deception

Perception

They say you should not judge a book by its cover. And that is what I felt when P finally spoke her mind today. Perception that I have is that she is manipulative and selfish, makes me biased in my analysis of her. As a mother P had a right to decide and be consulted before any major decisions are made wrt her son. Education is a very crucial part and parents do not uproot a child mid session.

Each individual has their own views, preferences and choices. If Sai chose a school for Savi that was based on her own preferences and choices, and P may have a completely different choice. And that is fine. Neither P nor Sai can be wrong here. They want the best for their child.

The only part I felt she was wrong was in assuming that V was sacrificing Vinu for Savi. He wants his children to be in the same school. But he will not risk any of their education for this. He would want the best for both.

After being so possessive about Savi, will he even allow Sai to take any decision that he feels is wrong for Savi?

V is upset about being questioned by both mother's on his own intelligence and understanding of the well-being of his children. And he calls it out to P.

P being upset is justifiable. Sai can decide for her own child, and that is her choice. But P and Vinu are independent of Sai's decision and P can have a different perspective.

So she feels that P is comparing her with Sai. That didn’t fall in place. But then she was upset and all this was happening because of Sai, so her anger is directed to her as well. Natural.

V refuses to give in and walks off after the final verdict.

P is seen trying to convince Ashwini and Ninad. Her next hope to get some sense into V. To see her point of view,

Ashwini may come from a partial space, but she does call out two things correctly. V is the father and he will always do the best for both his children. And Vinu does not have any friends in his current school and he does not like being there.

P feels that they are all being partial to Savi as she is is their blood. And she can feel so. And to a large extent it is true too. But when a child they have not known to have existed for so long, returns they are most likely to shower their love and attention on them. And it is not about neglecting one but just making up for the other. In their own ways getting the one child at par with the other. The imbalance shows because they are trying to bring in that balance.

Till here I was with P. And she talks about Sai and I felt deceived!

And I deceived you too, because I feel none of what I said above now 🤣

Two things that makes every logic she gave as just an excuse.

How she seems irritated by the mention of Sai, even when no one is crediting her for anything. And P accusing Ashwini for gifting Sai a pendant.

For once, her whole flipper game I liked Ashwini. She held her stand and didn't show any regret nor did she try to avoid. She owned up and said that she felt nothing wrong in it. I give her a clap for this small act of bravery and truth👏

Back to P. Her whole argument was never about Vinu. It was Sai.

For those of us who felt that the mask is about to drop. It actually dropped today. Today she was neither the reformed, polite and mature P post leap, nor the freaking out, scared P post Savi's revelation. This was Pre leap P.

The anger, the tone, the accusations all were spot on pre leap P. The one who was so jealous and insecure and wanted to have V at any cost. The one who used to hate the mention of Sai and her calibre, the one who fought with V for the injustice he did to her.

Now I will go back to the first scene again. V-P face off in CN.

I have been of the opinion that P has always suffered from inferiority complex. She always competed with Sai in her mind. And V was the referee. And every time V chose Sai, P felt she lost the game. V had initially said that he wanted Sai to be like P. But over time as V fell for Sai, P started seeking everything that Sai had or represented. Because she had no parameters of happiness of her own. Sai gave them those. What Sai had or wanted became the benchmark or target of sorts.

P had always instigated BK about Sai pursuing her studies and later working. While she was herself well educated, she never really showed an inclination to work or build a career. Once when she spoke about it, it was only a in that moment reaction towards Sai.

But post leap, she is a working woman. What changed her?

Interestingly she has become a perfect mix of Sai and herself. Or she portrays herself as one. She sweet talks everyone. And mostly maintains the harmony by not creating conflicts and being amicable. This is what keeps the family on her side. She looks after everyone and never disobeys. While Sai was always seeking out everyone's happiness, she would voice out her disagreements. P leaves out the latter. Family sorted

And then she becomes the independent woman, with a career of her own. Something that Sai was and V admired in her. She covers to cover that gap by being a working wife/mother.

After all this, when Sai is back she feels the herself still lacking. When V agrees and values Sai's opinion over hers, she finds herself at the same spot. And hence the dialogue. That V should not compare Sai with her. Ouch! It still pinches. After all her efforts she still falls short. And she is not happy about it. V never compared. He simply pointed out that both women are not understanding him. But P is already reading things with her own prejudice. The whole school fight could have been justified, but P here was only triggered because of Sai and her "Supposed" win, as V went with Sai's decision, without even consulting her.

She repeats the same thing in her conversation with Ninad and Ashwini. She cannot stand Sai's name even if it is mention in a conversation. Because she is back to the same space of complex.

Her confidence in her roots in CN was in her belief that she was finally better than Sai. But now this confidence is cracking as she sees the people she thought she has won are slowly shifting loyalties and preferences.

The way she taunted Ashwini for the pendant was like a kid being jealous that her parent had given away a gift to another child. Where is the maturity? She is hating the hard earned trophies shifting hands.

As a mother, it also showed her failure and insensitivity. She never realised that her son was being bullied in school, he has no friends and is actually unhappy. And none of this is her concern. Does she not realise how a child gets impacted mentally by this? She did not for once consider this argument. How is this about Vinu then? It is about Sai and the losing power of her trump card, Vinu

The biggest give away was when she called out Vinu's favours and indirectly hers. Was that not supposed to be her atonement? With this none of her past sacrifices can be called as penance. They were only her strategies. Well planned moves with a selfish intention.

Because if she got Vinu to revive V, then she was responsible for V's state too.

V-P conversation later seemed to be after thought on V's part. He realised that as Vinu's mother he should have atleast consulted her before the decision. But P is now ready to call out her favours and sacrifices. The ones she ones termed as love. Really? I thought she said she did everything for love. Who counts out things that you do for someone out of love? P does!!

So she has many "shikayatein". But she doesn't voice it out... not yet. Because V will give it back and her mask will fall off. So she uses the safest route. Vinu. And V can't escape when things are conveyed using Vinu.

So P had chosen Vinu's school. And by V changing Vinu's school, it means Sai's decision and choices are valued more than her. She lost in her mind again. And she is pissed. Super pissed.

And she accuses P of not having contributed in Vinu's upbringing. Now that is a serious allegation and V seemed to be offended and surprised.

@Sadhika - I seems like split personality and V is surprised how she could easily cut him of any credits in Vinu's upbringing.

There seems to be more to this tomorrow. But I'm seriously done with my quota of her.

My thoughts on the episode on page 28

Nice one Sherry!

yes pakhi’s outburst happens to be more because sais decision is given preference. Nothing about vinu at all.

Also virat is surprised and taken aback when she says she did vinu’s parvarish!! Then why is she so worried that vinu has not bonded with her well. That part looked like she is delusional. Because virat was quite surprised.

I am still not understanding why he is pleasing her and how long?!! Why is he keeping her hanging? Just because savi is here and he is busy with her? If not big C he can start flirting right? What is stopping him 😂😬

Loved your update!

The day V realises that P is using Vinu as sheild to fight her battles, it will be game over.

I think the wrong move she made today was her conversation with Ninad and Ashwini.

Ashwini, as a mother will soon see her game, because though Ninad was a bad husband in the past Ash covered most of his deeds and hid a lot from V. She did not try to use V to get her rights or her point across.

In fact up on Sai's arrival in V's life, she was able to open his eyes to his mother's suffering and empowered Ash to speak up.

Experience always see through the facade.

There are definitely going to be comparisons between the upbringing of both child also both mothers.