Is it love wen u enjoy giving pain to the person you claim to love?

I have always seen Sai trying to make Virat happy. She has always tried to make his family happy. She has sacrificed so much for him. She even came to Nagpur to treat his son leaving aside everything, leaving aside even her pain and his betrayal. Maybe she is treating Vinayak coz she cares for the child or coz of Pakhi's request. But she is also doing this for Virat. She wants to make up for the lose Virat had to endure with the loss of their son in the accident. Sai is doing so much for him. But Virat? What does he think of himself? He married her and made her endure dosmetic violence from his family. She had to put up with his and Pakhi's relationship and then of course, Shruti. Virat destroyed her life. Now she is a single mother. She even came to Nagpur just for his son but instead of being sorry for all that she lost and all that she did and has been doing for him, he has only hate for her? Areh, at least after leap, he should have forgiven her. But no, he is married and living a complete family life and he is questioning Sai? What does Sai has that he should even compete with Sai. Financially, career wise and in terms of family, in everything Virat is ahead. He should at least have compassion for this woman who lost her father and her son and everything coz of him. If not for anything, but at least for the fact that she came all the way to Nagpur to treat his son should be reason enough to be thankful to her. She didn't have enough money or job but still she came for his son. The way he was trying to cause her pain and humiliate her in the party was so heart wreching for me. He was okay with humiliating her to that extent. Doesn't loving someone mean respecting her as well? Shouldn't her dignity matter to him?

After leap, I didn't find him being thankful that Sai is alive? Like really? If we love someone, we would be so happy to find them alive.

Now whose love is really love?

I find Virat as someone who is just competing with Sai. He just wants to be ahead of Sai. He is kinda jealous of Sai. I don't see any love in him for Sai. Even in Sai's anger, I see love and care but Virat has no love for Sai. In fact, he doesn't respect Sai at all, forget about love. At least, he respects Pakhi.

Is it love when u enjoy giving pain to the person you claim to love? - Absolutely not.

However, Love in TV shows is not what love in reality is.

I find Virat and Pakhi's love more of a love definition than what Virat feels for Sai. Someone should like make Virat realize that he loves Pakhi. His obsession of geeting ahead of Sai has just blinded him otherwise he always loved Pakhi.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Is it love when u enjoy giving pain to the person you claim to love? - Absolutely not.

However, Love in TV shows is not what love in reality is.

I get you, but let's compare Sai and Virat here. Sai is in real love, Virat isn't.

Sai and Virat love looks more in the script than execution 🤣 But script toh script, atleast usko dhang se likho

Originally posted by: Jefen

I get you, but let's compare Sai and Virat here. Sai is in real love, Virat isn't.

I think Virat wants Sai to live like Ashwini. Only thing she can go for work maybe.

She should give her child to P and the entire family to bring up the kid. Sai should allow P to barge into their room and he can go out with P also.

She should not have a say. Then he would have been good to her.

May be BK brought up Virat and Ashwini didn't have a say. And Ninad was roaming behind BK always.

Virat never had problems with Pakhi's behaviour cus she's nice to him. That's how he's. His brain works.

Remember no one loves you selflessly except your parents.. That's the bitter truth..

Virat indeed loved Sai like her aaba at some point.. But then he became obsessive lover then a bad husband..

Romantic love is one of the selfish emotions on earth.. It does let you accept the lose... That's what virat and Sai are feeling right now.. But they turned virat a bad lover who doesn't deserve an woman like Sai..

Virat and Pakhi both are similar in their love. What Virat feels for Sai is what Pakhi feels for Virat... I wonder if these similar were together since beginning without Sai and samrat, what kind of obsessive love they would have for each other, or would it be all bland.

Virat ALWAYS loved didi... She do have some strange control over him and he enjoys it the most. They have that understanding, that faith, that respect, that love and care which is required for a relationship... He is just attracted towards Sai because either Sai is like a game jo voh jitna chahta hai or else he can't get didi na... So jo mila hai usse kaam chalao and most importantly he can't afford to lose "best son of CN" wala title na... I never liked SAIRAT because my Sai deserve a person who respects her... I believe that in any relation first respect is necessary love is secondary... SAIRAT relationship never had that respect... In Sairat's relationship Virat behaves as if only he have all the damn rights and Sai have to just be giving it to him... She should be submissive just like didi is... He thinks he is alpha male or something... He never liked it whenever Sai showed him mirror... That's what he hates about Sai... I sometimes feel that voh Sai pe aapni sari frastration nikalta hai jo voh Samrat pe kabhi nikal nhi paya... Samrat snatch his pyari si cheez so Sai had to face the warmth... Sai is his punching bag...