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Posted: 3 years ago

@ Sadhika and Moor. I am sold with the P1 and P2 theory.

Though in the all mental illness theory, how does the natgeo promo fit.

Is it that people of mental illness have sharp awareness and work with razor sharp focus on their wants and needs. And in effect are lost/caught in their own web of lies/behavior. The more they spin the more they cant escape towards reality. It makes them sly and cunning and very very focused. Not repeating their mistakes.

Someone with medical back ground can explain this better.

P has no problem with anyone, not even V not loving her. Her obsession is no one should be around V. No one should take his attention. So no one else not even V can see how she treated Sai.

Its more obvious in Kannada version of ghum, in one episode, when P's character gets every ones sympathy, discretely gives a sly smile to Sai's character. Here in ghum it is not shown clearly but Sai picks on the cues and reacts. Sai gets that she can be vile and evil if not restrained (jailed). V thinks Sai is over-reacting and not "understanding" P's evilness to the extent of bailing her from jail.

P is all positive because she has no threat, no one around V. But she does over-react when V doesn't pick her phone. Her P2 version shows. FGS she wanted to call him when he was in the middle of a mission (shown on the TV). She is that crazy, she believes that he cannot ignore her.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Nat geo promo is long gone. :) Pakhi must have turned positive. Vinu's death should have moved her atleast.


Pakhi is still learning to live without support. We have to see what happened to her post sai's death. Family must have been harsh to her for a while. she herself would have been guilty, especially seeing Virat's state. She might have lost her will to live. We have to see what happened with her parents. There are several question marks. In KD, she becomes suicidal under severe depression and expresses her love towards Rono to the doctor. So to give her hope to live, the doctor asks Rono to create a world for her where she is happy and renews her will to live.


Read this. Could be shown in FBs. Dont know 😟

https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/tv/news/bengali/kusum-dola-written-update-august-2-2018-ranajay-promises-rupkotha/articleshow/65257401.cms


https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/tv/news/bengali/kusum-dola-written-update-august-5-2018-rupkotha-faces-criticism/articleshow/65290539.cms


https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/tv/news/bengali/kusum-dola-written-update-august-6-2018-ranajay-consoles-rupkotha/articleshow/65306069.cms

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Nat geo promo is long gone. :) Pakhi must have turned positive. Vinu's death should have moved her atleast.


Pakhi is still learning to live without support. We have to see what happened to her post sai's death. Family must have been harsh to her for a while. she herself would have been guilty, especially seeing Virat's state. She might have lost her will to live. We have to see what happened with her parents. There are several question marks. In KD, she becomes suicidal under severe depression and expresses her love towards Rono to the doctor. So to give her hope to live, the doctor asks Rono to create a world for her where she is happy and renews her will to live.


Read this. Could be shown in FBs. Dont know 😟

https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/tv/news/bengali/kusum-dola-written-update-august-2-2018-ranajay-promises-rupkotha/articleshow/65257401.cms


https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/tv/news/bengali/kusum-dola-written-update-august-5-2018-rupkotha-faces-criticism/articleshow/65290539.cms


https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/tv/news/bengali/kusum-dola-written-update-august-6-2018-ranajay-consoles-rupkotha/articleshow/65306069.cms

Natgeo promo has been in play at least till the time PL met Sai post leap. Mrs chavan hi Mrs chavan ko samajha sakti hai

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Posted: 3 years ago

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Marriage is real I feel cus they had video recording everyone there present. Ashwini telling it to Harini...


But yeah it was mentioned one needs to be married for 2yrs

Yes.. I had missed that... coz CN scenes kabhi kabhi skip kR deti hun...

But agar makers vo ye karna hai to use blooper kar ke bol sakte hai.

Vase bhi bahot hai 🤣

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Posted: 3 years ago

Is prioritizing pp's well being over his own wife's death acceptable?! Is his "guilt" towards pp greater than his "guilt" towards his own wife and child who DIED because he placed pp over them. Now shes alive and he claims he wants answers but it takes him not a second to decide to" leave" in anger with no concern for her or even Savi's safety- an innocent, lovable child. If he supposedly dil seh still loves Sai then how come he doesnt care to personally supervise Gulabrao arrest/etc. How has he so easily given up on getting her to tell the truth so he can get closure?! He can ask others if not Sai... He is a police officer fgs! So lets not kid ourselves that V loves Sai etc. He does not. It makes me incredibly sad that Sairat are over... I also wanted them together but this guy is toxic. This guy cannot be Sai's soulmate, Savi's father.

Another question - What would V do if he knew Sai had remarried? Subconsciously he has realized Sai IS alone - yet he treats her so badly, chatacter assasinates her. imagine if she did have a male friend or well wisher- tab toh gazab hota. If V and his audience thinks remarriage is acceptable n no big deal if he is not sexually active then theres nothing more to say/do. That means he doesn't understand the institution of marriage at all. He thinks sex is the barometer of commitment/love. And a man who can treat a marriage so casually will tomorrow justify him sleeping with pp also. That will also be for her "mental health", its his "duty" to fulfil her craving/desire as her husband, its his payback for all her "mahaan sacrifices for him, his child and family". At that point maybe we can explain how lust and physical needs are also difficult to control and how he just had a weak moment. And he can explain how friendship is the foundation of everything and pp is his only true friend. Pyaar dosti hai also. The eulogies to pp from V are grating, disgusting and frustrating. Not once has he had a FB or mention of her crimes. Not once has he had a FB of Sai telling him to make pp leave.

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Posted: 3 years ago

All I can say is give the story sometime to unfold. If the problem is with execution we can’t do much. If it is about the story itself then we can wait to see what they want to show. Again the original story has pakhi’s redemption. I know they made her evil here but what can we do about it? We can only hope for sai and virat’s characters to not get ruined. Virat’s did due this marriage equation. But if they are showing sairat, keep some hope on sais character that she will not accept him if he doesn’t come clean in his love for her.

If you keep looking for a virat who punishes pakhi, Ill treats her, behaves rude with her, then you are in for a disappointment. He will not do that with other women. Yes he is toxic that he behaves like this with sai only. If she wants to go back to him then there should be some reason. You can’t have a shiv (BV) in real world. 😕

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Posted: 3 years ago

I agree that the marriage video is a proof wedding might be real. I had forgotten about that.

But if the makers want to go ahead with this, they can make it seem like a blooper. Jahan 5 ki Saal ka medical 2 Saal main ho sakta Hai vahan ye kounsi badi baat hai.


I am myself not so convinced with this because of the limited acting range. Ajeeb is the only one instance where I could convincingly see the flip. That said NB does behave differently.


Also it's in KD which is why there are signs... or it's just too messed up writing and faltu ke Easter eggs.


But more importantly... for me SaiRat is endgame unless shown otherwise. This will make V worthwhile for Sai to go back to rather than some stupid excuse of getting married for adoption which in itself is illegal.


Why I don't wany this to happen is what I have mentioned in the original post.


I would still want a MiMo 2.0 after this though. 😳

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Posted: 3 years ago

Yes this is based on original plot and some erratic behavior of pakhi! More than anything her behavior with vinu is obsessive, not normal knowing that he is adopted that too after 3 years!

How can we explain this behavior with vinu?

I hope they show this! Otherwise I don’t know what else will redeem virat 🤔

fingers crossed 🤞

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Posted: 3 years ago

Is it worth it to be rooting for a Sairat when V has been ruined beyond redemption. at this point Sai reconciling with him ruins her too.

He does not need to ill treat Pp, he only needed to be indifferent abd draw clear boundaries on what he can/cannot do, because his WIFE was his priority.

But he failed.

Now again if he's really so invested in Sai, and pp is so mature, suljhi, why is he leaving ?! For his own closure and to be "mahaan" he should stay to ensure Sai-Savi safety. It shows his selfishness. He cannot explain anything to Sai because aa always he thinks he is above scrutiny, it bothers him that shes independent, self reliant and does not care to run behind him anymore asking for anything. So his response is anger, abuse, character assassination and run like a coward.

Audience has waited long enough for him to be a half decent guy and given up

Now if we wait for Sairat we are essentially romanticizing and glorifying a toxic relationship as a soulmate connection. V has done NOTHING to be worthy of Sai and Savi. Vinu is his charity case. Watching Vinu-Sai and Vinu with V and pp shows the difference in what a parent is. V didn't even stay to complete his son's treatment. Thats how insensitive he is. Sai throughout every situation is constantly thinking about Savi whereas V has no care for Vinu and the impact on his health.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Moor278

I agree that the marriage video is a proof wedding might be real. I had forgotten about that.

But if the makers want to go ahead with this, they can make it seem like a blooper. Jahan 5 ki Saal ka medical 2 Saal main ho sakta Hai vahan ye kounsi badi baat hai.


I am myself not so convinced with this because of the limited acting range. Ajeeb is the only one instance where I could convincingly see the flip. That said NB does behave differently.


Also it's in KD which is why there are signs... or it's just too messed up writing and faltu ke Easter eggs.


But more importantly... for me SaiRat is endgame unless shown otherwise. This will make V worthwhile for Sai to go back to rather than some stupid excuse of getting married for adoption which in itself is illegal.


Why I don't wany this to happen is what I have mentioned in the original post.


I would still want a MiMo 2.0 after this though. 😳

Agar PH ko fake marriage dekhani hain toh kaise bhi karke dekha sakte hain . Bas Mann hona zaroori hain . Yeh bhi dekha sakthe ki Virat ne register ke saath setting karli aur marriage register nahiin huva ya phir woh sign kiya hi nahiin .

Mein Abhi tak convinced nahiin hoon mental illness ki dekhate hain aaj ka epsiode Virat kaise behave kartha hain rose scene mein

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