Shadi itself has more value than consumation

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Everyone knows how marriages are done in real life. Marriage can never be done like a blind date as they show in ITV, a marriage requires lots of thoughts, decision making, emotional investment, discussions with family and what not. Even in arrange marriages couple gets emotionally involved with each other during planning phase only, the effect is such.In our society and whole world Marrying someone is a much bigger thing than sleeping with someone without marriage( definitely being physical when you are in love is not wrong ,but marriage definitely brings much more emotions in the relationship)

There are many people with chronic illness or disability who marry just for love even if they know that they can't ever consummate . Marriage is that pure bond made by society which is revered all over the world.

Now coming to V-P equation, for me consummation isn't relevant at all, Virat is already much more invested with Pakhi by just marrying her. whatever he has done for her in all these years post Sairat wedding, shows his loyalty, trust and devotion towards her. They lived the surrogacy journey like Husband-wife, he delivered the baby himself, he trusted her more than his wife when Sai stated the facts, he barred his own wife from fetus Vinu when P blackmailed to leave , on the other hand when Sai did the same after proving P's crimes , he acted like a beast with her. This all shows that Virat was practicing emotional infidelity since always, Sai was just an object to satisfy his ego. Virat has crossed all boundaries much before marrying P, by marrying her he has only made their illicit relationship legal. Consumation shouldn't bother anyone of us now . What should bother us that how badly they are going to abuse Sai in coming days, as she has literally no one but only Savi at her side.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Now they will try to snatch Savi from Sai

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Posted: 2 years ago
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that is the thought I am dreading right now. Poor Sai has no end to her miseries even when she is the sole victim in all this. No one got punished , Chavans look so happy and content, there is no remorse for whatever happened in the family because of Pakhi and their trust on her.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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The Worst thing is at the end after long abusive session they will make her forgive all criminals chavans easily

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Sairat has died long back

I only wish to see sai’s Independent and a solo journey with her both kids or else only with her daughter

Sai is better off without Virat

Later they can introduce a new male lead for sai who respects her, truly loves her,protects her, takes stand for her against everyone

If she enters into that toxic house again it will give nothing but pain

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Posted: 2 years ago
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It’s better that they r married and decided to move on

I’m happy for them they deserve each other😂😂😂😂

Now sai❤️❤️ Will be free from this disgusting man and horrible woman

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Since Shadi is done, everything is a part of it. True. Now just Sai will have to deal with heartbreak but it is better to face the reality than be in any illusion. Sai thinks that it is Virat’s anger that he has not come to take her back but Infact she will now know that Virat has a “happy” family.

I wish she should just tell him that okay you believed I was dead and decided to move on but in the whole world, you got only Patralekha who has only tormented me when I was alive? That should answer his own question

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I agree with you .. virat was already invested in patralekha.. he never really left her .. it’s time to cut of his ties with Sai .. and set her free ..

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: msin

I agree with you .. virat was already invested in patralekha.. he never really left her .. it’s time to cut of his ties with Sai .. and set her free ..

True. The truth will hurt but it will set her free. Then she can move ahead without “bojh” of Virat’s memories.

She will slam Usha maushi too. She will be like Usha maushi aap Kehti thi na Savi ko baba ke baare meiin bata do. Kya Bata du meiin usse? That should shut her up too

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: nutmeg7

True. The truth will hurt but it will set her free. Then she can move ahead without “bojh” of Virat’s memories.

She will slam Usha maushi too. She will be like Usha maushi aap Kehti thi na Savi ko baba ke baare meiin bata do. Kya Bata du meiin usse? That should shut her up too

that irritating lady..... time pe choomantar ho gayi thi...ab agayi chomu ka side lene...like first she used to take side nd shaadi ka bhoot sir me daal diya tha..itv never will progress...people can move on in life if partner divorced or dead..🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️nd this makes effects in real life...most people apply this in real nd that's scary..nd one common pattern heroine should stay single till that worst hero comes no matter wo kitni shaadi kare affair.....she should stick to him... it feels really very sad to see not even angry😭😭😭😭😭😭😭most family follow this😭😭one of my friends relative gone through it still going nd we can't do anything...just watching nd feeling sad

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