Poignant episode !!

It was a sad episode..

With Sam given the final farewell

Yes pakhi slapped Sai it was wrong ..her anger against Sai has simmered for a very very long time and it came out bursting ..

but as samrat’s widow she vented out her grief .. we know she will flip .. but right now she herself doesn’t believe it

Not allowing sai to go for Antim darshan .. I think she did a favour to sai and her unborn kid .. in Hindu traditions .. a pregnant lady is not taken for these rituals unless very very necessary… it is stressful and also attracts negative energies towards them ..

BK should have kept ashwini also to take care of sai .. if she values the heir ..

sai was crying alone but she said I have never done anything wrong .. I did not like that dialogue ..nobody should have this superiority complex .. it did not suit sai at all ..Sai is racking in guilt .. and looks like she will give pakhi a lot of Lee way

Precap : Mansi is having an asthma attack she refuses to get treated with sai blaming her .. but I feel she will relent soon.. hearing sam’s aakhri wish .. she will forgive her ..

Yeah very heavy episode. Did not feel like writing anything .

I wish there is introspection from pakhi's side. Sai is wallowing in guilt and I hope there is so much they could do with sairat, where virat helps her get over it. She is pregnant afterall

Yeah even I felt there is nothing to write much over here ..

I guess (& hope) what they were actually going with that dialogue was...that she has not committed a sin - like doing harm to someone, have bad intentions, cheat someone, act out of malice etc....which is true for most good people.

Otherwise no one is a saint to not even make mistakes.

Originally posted by: msin

It was a sad episode..

With Sam given the final farewell

Yes pakhi slapped Sai it was wrong ..her anger against Sai has simmered for a very very long time and it came out bursting ..

but as samrat’s widow she vented out her grief .. we know she will flip .. but right now she herself doesn’t believe it

Not allowing sai to go for Antim darshan .. I think she did a favour to sai and her unborn kid .. in Hindu traditions .. a pregnant lady is not taken for these rituals unless very very necessary… it is stressful and also attracts negative energies towards them ..

BK should have kept ashwini also to take care of sai .. if she values the heir ..

sai was crying alone but she said I have never done anything wrong .. I did not like that dialogue ..nobody should have this superiority complex .. it did not suit sai at all ..Sai is racking in guilt .. and looks like she will give pakhi a lot of Lee way

Precap : Mansi is having an asthma attack she refuses to get treated with sai blaming her .. but I feel she will relent soon.. hearing sam’s aakhri wish .. she will forgive her ..

Three slaps is an overkill

Sai saying something in her grief plus she hasn’t done anything wrong to def deserve this abuse and trauma and blame game that is happening. If we are to compare the list of crimes of CN niwas. Expecting maturity in grief is having too much expectation on a 23 year old

PLUS what did she do wrong to deserve all this happening to her.

Sorry if my words feel like attacking your POV incase it sounds like that. I have my perceptions about grief. Let’s not debate there.

But was Sai the only one to blame; while at it slap Virat too twice he didn’t pick up the phone or he wasn’t there for his wife.

so if slapping is done out of grief at the person indirectly responsible apparently for something that is the premise the show is setting

so what was P not slapped for indirectly on purpose instigating V ehich led to Sai almost dying sorry she didn’t die then: leave her, why didn’t Pulkit or aai slap V for suspecting her and bringing her to this state in the hospital, yes he didn’t push her or ask her to run out of the house. But grief is grief

Mohit had the right dialogue then, if her parents were alive they would have done that. Wait for Pakhis parents to start the blame game now. Blood relative are needed cos in whatever situation they stand up for their loved ones and guide them and support them tell them they aren’t at fault.

My grudge for the addition of 3 slaps not just one, is to the creativity of the makers , which needn’t have happened. I guess S grief will always be less than other characters in the show.

Antim sanskaar is over ki baaki hai? The pyre and All

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

I guess (& hope) what they were actually going with that dialogue was...that she has not committed a sin - like doing harm to someone, have bad intentions, cheat someone, act out of malice etc....which is true for most good people.

Otherwise no one is a saint to not even make mistakes.

I also think she meant her intentions. She did mistakes may be, say misunderstanding virat during Sruthi track but her intentions were never bad. Unlike Pakhi.
In that way, she never meant anything wrong.

in that monologue with Samrat, I cried 😭. But the strength of Sai is that she has power to heal. Because the happiness that you get when you make others happy will make you heal. She just needs some support and solace now that she is exhausted physically and mentally.

Virat has endured survivors guilt! he has overcome it by marrying Sai and providing her support. Now he has to explain Sai it is normal to feel it and together they will make others feel good and overcome it.

They have such a good material now. They can show the growth of SaiRat and handle one by one. first mansi, then BK and ofcourse Pakhi, the impossible!! They need good writing and good scenes.

There were 3 slaps? Wow super 👏 Ye depression mei aggression kuch jyada hi hi Gaya. Looked like all pent up anger.

If they show Pakhi committing suicide, how can she turn so aggressive and hurt Sai! I know I should not weave any logical writing around Pakhi. But it looks so counterintuitive.

Originally posted by: notaquitter

Three slaps is an overkill

Sai saying something in her grief plus she hasn’t done anything wrong to def deserve this abuse and trauma and blame game that is happening. If we are to compare the list of crimes of CN niwas. Expecting maturity in grief is having too much expectation on a 23 year old

PLUS what did she do wrong to deserve all this happening to her.

Sorry if my words feel like attacking your POV incase it sounds like that. I have my perceptions about grief. Let’s not debate there.

But was Sai the only one to blame; while at it slap Virat too twice he didn’t pick up the phone or he wasn’t there for his wife.

so if slapping is done out of grief at the person indirectly responsible apparently for something that is the premise the show is setting

so what was P not slapped for indirectly on purpose instigating V ehich led to Sai almost dying sorry she didn’t die then: leave her, why didn’t Pulkit or aai slap V for suspecting her and bringing her to this state in the hospital, yes he didn’t push her or ask her to run out of the house. But grief is grief

Mohit had the right dialogue then, if her parents were alive they would have done that. Wait for Pakhis parents to start the blame game now. Blood relative are needed cos in whatever situation they stand up for their loved ones and guide them and support them tell them they aren’t at fault.

My grudge for the addition of 3 slaps not just one, is to the creativity of the makers , which needn’t have happened. I guess S grief will always be less than other characters in the show.

I 100% agree with this.

Pakhi started the blame game. Next, Mansi followed (which is understandable because she is Samrat's mother). Dheere dheere pura Chavan Niwas will follow, including Virat (unconsciously). Sai being left alone in the midst of every bad again. I seriously feel like jumping inside the screen and hugging Sai and say that everything is gonna be alright.