Another good lollipop episode. - Page 4

Originally posted by: Nja91

I dont think anything she has said shows that she will take him back. She is conflicted between 2 feelings- one of betrayal/feeling cheated because she thought they were going on to being a real couple vs her guilt/her frustration that this was all her castle in air whereas in reality he never did love her and maybe she was the roadblock in him fulfilling his dream of a happy married life with a wife/kid. So perhaps it was her being a burden that prevented him from doing what he wanted. She is a young girl. Jitnaa bhi bura hua hai, she has been made to believe that she was also in part responsible for it. She has been collectively brainwashed into believing that despite being a tough person to be with, despite her being immature, irresponsible etc etc , Virat "put up" with her. And she is anyway the kind of person who will remember good stuff more than bad. maybe her young age, leads to a certain degree of naivete and idealism. She had no one except him in the most vulnerable time in her life and she was in a legally approved label vaala relationship too....so now for her to lose it all is a huge blow. Her self worth, self esteem has taken a beating in CN but she is collecting all the shreds of it and trying to move on and truly be independent. She is trying to be mature. Bitterness seh kuch nahi hoga- that much she has realized at a young age. She is trying to analyse the situation in a way that she can truly console herself....she is only holding Virat responsible not the woman or an innocent child. Its hard to watch her cry so much but its to be expected if she loses the only stability she had, loses the only person she saw as exclusively hers....

After ousting she talked about moving on still come back to him

After character assasination she talked about moving on still come back to him

After second accident talked about moving on

Now preaching same dialogues only to cry for the man who 'cheated' her. Deal or no deal having a relationship from outside by legally married to someone else is WRONG. She is not a kid to not know that. Not having normal married life won't give an execuse to have EMA.

She is deteriorating her self worth by crying thinking why her cheater husband choosed another woman over her. Same like how pakhi used to cry.

She's merely dreaming about what she had hoped for. Her seeing the room has triggered many good memories and she always saw even the trying times as stepping stones in their relationship. Sadly Virat has no such dreams, no longing, no angst.

Originally posted by: Nja91

I find it a tad too harsh to call Sai a doormat. Its not easy to just forget everything. She was on the verge of confessing love, building a happy family with her husband. All her hopes and dreams that she had built came crashing down completely out of the blue as if a snowstorm hit her. She's dealing with it the best that she can. Yes, its wrong for her to lie and falsify information in DIG office. But she's unable to get herself to not care for Virat entirely. She probably hopes that at least they cant part on amicable terms. But she has chosen to walk out of CN and divorce Virat. Thats not easy to do for a 20 year old who is essentially all by herself. But she has. She chose her self respect. The only people she has/knows are also essentially Virats family and she was just about getting fully integrated into that household but its all gone. Its hard to break ties with the only people who she has in life but she's doing it in a manner where she doesn't come across aa ungrateful or rude. She is genuinely trying to be a bigger/mature person. She needs time to build herself back up and toughen up.

The way Ayesha potrays Sai- it has my ♥️. I just want to hug her and say everything will be ok.

I agree completely.

Sometimes, situations makes a person become vulnerable, weak. And it is the actions that count - and at the end of the day, Sai has decided to leave CN. That's what matters.

I remember a movie I watched in which Kate Winslet is lamenting that she recalls every moment of the relationship with her cheater ex-boyfriend, going over every single detail on what she could have done differently in the relationship (she goes on to slowly find her feet and 'gumption' in the movie). It can be difficult. People can even blame themselves irrationally. Doesn't make them a doormat. Feelings are neither good not bad - nor are they under one's control. What we do with our feelings is more important. Strong people don't become strong overnight - they start out very weak and journey towards becoming stronger, independent individuals. Nothing wrong in this. Not everyone's journey is the same. Not everyone is the same.

Having said that, Sai meddling with official documents....that was out of character...she would never do that.

If we had more faith in the team, we would’ve seen Sai’s dream as a part of her grieving process - what she wanted, what could’ve been but what will never be. It happens to most people after a big heartbreak. You waffle a bit between what could’ve been and the reality until you find your footing. Sai is fighting between her feelings for Virat ( whether he deserves them or not) and her self respect. And that’s what we’re seeing. If the writing was more crisp across the board, this sequence wouldn’t have seemed too out of place. But it’s unfortunately the mish mash of copy paste and occasional creativity makes it look very messy.

Originally posted by: nikita05

I had mixed feelings for SaiRat dream sequence, too little too late. Vankar has started copying RS, not only thu thu thu but also dream sequences, bhale hi vo kitne misplaced kyu na dikhe. Firstly, why should she be in Virat's room, secondly their memories related to the room and Sai crying would have done the work but yeah, Ghum Valentine's special lollipop for fans. Why does Virat not have such dreams. And then overlapping this dream with Virat shruti reality where they have clearly shown that Shruti is falling for Virat and Virat can still not let her go...Virat has gone too far in badmouthing sai, in crossing boundaries, in having an emotional affair with Shruti, literally living with her...no impact of the scene, just that Ayesha's dancing skills have improved significantly, she looked graceful...but why should she dream about a man who cheated her. And why should she wear that suit in the performance rather than a dress or something else.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

This valentens day thing is so funny. Didn't sai virat met two times on the same day so that means they met on valentens day still no mention of it or flashback about it🤣. What a lucky man virat is. Met the three women who are behind him on valentine's day. One is dreaming for him, other one is fighting for him, another one is making soup for him 👏.

They are going one day at a time according to real world, fark nahi padta ki ghum world me vo ek din me hi hai...agar aisa hai to dress to change karwa do... Sai-Virat confrontation seems long back, though happened on the same day, they have f*ed up timeline. Shruti is supposed to be a new mother, sahas should be of 5-6 days, turns out he is already 3-4 months old, tab bhi bachcha ek baar roya nahi...

Today I fast forwarded the Sairat dream sequence .. I was very angry .. because it adds no value to the story .. it is just a mrigtrishna .. an illusion..no amount of dream scenarios can build the pathos and angst emon had felt .. because it was built over 3.5 years of normal marriage ..

by skipping it .. they have the killed the basic story of KD

I cannot even blame virat .. because in the last 1 year he and Sai had a troubled marriage with 2-3 times things being so bad .. that a man can slip up .
what if virat had met a random woman shruti when Sai and he had broken up and she had shifted to gharchiroli/ hostel ,. He had too much to drink .. and his marriage had broken down unattainably ..

This kid was the result of one night stand .. it is unpleasant but it happens.. by skipping the confession and the rapid 3 years .. they have killed the story ..

right now it makes sense for Sai to leave virat .. she’s young just 20 , in third year of college .. normally she should not have been married only . There is enough time to finish her studies .. live life as a medical student . After 4-5 years .. she will be in better state to find a life partner .

So cry Sai about your lost dreams . But I felt God has been kinder to you . You have not been trapped by a selfish man

I think we are supposed to assume its been a few months. Because the whole point is that for everyone to react so much this whole Shruti nonsense had to be happening for a reasonable duration of time.

One more thing I don’t get is it was Diwali when virat went on mission (nov) they had few nights stay in hotel then delivery and surgery 2-3 nights. Coming home, signing divorce 2-3 nights….boom We are on Valentine’s Day! Yeh inka calendar kabhi nahi samaj ayega…. Ya to ek raat jo khatam nahi hoti ya 3 months skip…. Wah so technically Virat and Shruthi are staying together for over a month or two! Sahas ka birth certificate was around dec 29 or so… so he is now two months old! kya baat hai! It gives me more reason to hate Virat that he is staying with another woman for 2 freaking months. 🤷‍♀️😡
Matlab kya Achanak se ye log 2022 ka calendar follow Karne lage! What a joke!

I really want to enjoy the dream seq and the fact that they both really do look good! Ayesha can also show her sensual side! All this other crap is not allowing me to enjoy it at all!

So Vankar feels dream sequences is the magic wand that is propelling the other show forward and upward!! 😆

They had the magic, they messed up. Now there's a dream sequence when ML is available. Simple!

I would've preferred flashbacks to a new dream sequence. Even Virat calling Sai in delirium, please show flashbacks of Sai looking after him.

Story is not moving except that Shruti is beginning to develop feelings. Time for her husband to come back, I guess..

About Sai being a doormat, I agree with Neerja and Netra.. its not easy to stop feelings cold turkey. However, while she has decided to move on..i wish she doesn't fall sick etc while outside CN. Let her get back to normal for a couple of episodes..attend college, study. The drama can move around her life so that we see her moving on.

My rationale is if Sairat is going to be the endgame and I'm watching the show for my own stubborn reasons, at least the path leads to growth for both. I don't see it happening with Virat. He is as obtuse and dense as ever.