Bamboozled - Page 6

I agree and I disagree. The viewer in me wants Sai to walk out on that guy and never look back. He doesn’t deserve her. For the most outrageous logics and logarithm this man keeps bringing up to prove himself right and a victim.
But, if I keep aside my personal dislike for this man, and try to see Sai more humanly and not exclusively, I see a girl who after surviving sexual harassment at a tender age, lost her only and whole family finds a person she can call her own. And through him she found an extended family. A mother. Something she was deprived of till then. Whatever she went through, she still was happy to be part of the family, because she craved to be part of one. She may have never wanted it, but slowly he became her wind rose, and her whole world revolved around him. She may travel in different direction, but he remained that centre point that held her. She never voluntarily did it, it happened. And you can’t blame her for it. Love, she never knew what it meant. So when she it started to touch her, she closed herself so tight due to the many insecurities built around her relationship. She never gave herself the chance to be in love. However, she failed there again. Involuntarily she fell in love too. She may not have confessed to herself yet, but we know she has.

People do the craziest things when in love. But here I admire her strength to not hold a grudge against the man who betrayed her, her trust. That’s easier. She is ready to set him free for his own happiness. And despite her anger and the pain he caused her, she is able to see past all that and not forget what he has done for her selflessly. It’s a natural tendency to remember people by their recent actions and also by one wrong action against 100 good ones. But she is mature enough not to let that color her and be grateful for what he has done.

Coming to the fact on her worrying about Virat and him losing his job. The girl is in love. It doesn’t vanish into thin air jlt or can’t be erased by a click. It will take its own time. With everything happening around her, the betrayal, the suffering and the pain is manifold because of her love. The very love that resides deep in her. So she can’t separate that feeling. Seeing him suffer will only cause her pain. She is bound to act a little on behalf of that love, as she has already done a lot on humanitarian and payback grounds.

I seriously hope they show Virat’s transformation in his attitude and clearly sees who Sai really is and repent everything he did to hurt her. Only then confession will make any sense. He needs a good rap on his head from someone to get him out of his mahaan self.

I agree to everything you say.

I understand your POV and Sai's too. She has gained a lot and I also agree that V has become her centre of the world. But precisely for this reason, I want her to fight with him, and for him and not give in so easily.

She didn't realise or we can say she didn't do it deliberately but Sai is the reason that so far Pakhi has not been successful in improving her relationship (physical or emotional) with V. Sai managed to keep Pakhi at bay.

This is why I don't get it why she would give in to Shruti so easily. Only because there is an physical relationship (she doesn't know it is not)??

I mean the way they were progressing, surely it was to happen in future.

It all eventually comes down to this aspect .. and Sai feels betrayed. But this is why she should have questioned him, fought with him. If anyone had that right, it was hers.

And she still doesn't know that Shruti is a criminal... if and when she knows it, I feel that would break her more.

For the strong character she is, fighting for herself and her right should come easily. But she probed him, even before she started to suspect. Then she fought with him and then resigned when he refused to give her any convincing answer for all the actions. But now, we as an audience know the truth, but for her, he is already a married man with a baby and supposedly very much in love the mother of his child. Where does she stand there? Neither from a self respect point of view nor from a generic stand point does it seem logical to fight for herself here. Why would she want a man who loves another woman and has a child from her. It may hurt, but she is definitely better off being alone than get him for herself.

Yes.. but that's my bigger worry.

Coz when she knows the truth, she will apologize.. profusely 😔

This is why I want her to know that he supported a criminal and not a simple distressed woman.

On a side note, especially after today.

The makers have never clarified Sada-Shrutis ideology.. whether they are naxalite/maoist/terrorist etc. and seem to have conveniently forgotten about this. I fear they may make Shruti a wronged woman stuck in bad company type and make V mahaan for rescuing her.

Originally posted by: Moor278

Yes.. but that's my bigger worry.

Coz when she knows the truth, she will apologize.. profusely 😔

This is why I want her to know that he supported a criminal and not a simple distressed woman.

On a side note, especially after today.

The makers have never clarified Sada-Shrutis ideology.. whether they are naxalite/maoist/terrorist etc. and seem to have conveniently forgotten about this. I fear they may make Shruti a wronged woman stuck in bad company type and make V mahaan for rescuing her.

That's the reason I am quitting the show for good..

Saw twitter today.. Why people are asking even confession.. Yuuuckkk 🤢

Shruti in her dialogues, mannerism and subsequent "guilt" makes it seem like she IS involved in naxal violent activities. She was privy to the plan of killing minister. She is deeply involved in the movement. She is not just a "sympathizer". She is certainly not bechaari. But they are making her one. And makers, virat, DIG all seem to have forgotten that she IS a criminal herself.

In the end they will make virat mahaan. But i really really hope that Sai's genuine goodwill, her love- which is selfless doesn't get ignored. Sai feels hurt n betrayed but she looks past it because she still values virats role in giving her a better life than what she may have had in GC with her aabaa dead.

I hate that virat is in the frame of mind where theres ZERO guilt. He is putting square blame on Sai for not having trust in him n their relationship. Although in much less dire circumstances virat has shown significantly more distrust in her. He blamed her even just seeing her with a friend. He assumed Sai told DIG. He thinks that Sai would go tell on him to DIG and jeopardize his job. Thats his perception of Sai. Here she is getting one blow after another- and NO clarification, yet she is being a good human. Yet he blames her. At no point does he think - Sai is right to feel betrayed n hurt after everything coming out in front of her in the manner it did. Not once do you see him regret how Sai has been made to feel by his lies. He is only focused on how HE has no one to talk to, no one to confide in. The way he speaks about Sai shows NO love. It shows only bitterness.

Originally posted by: Nja91

Shruti in her dialogues, mannerism and subsequent "guilt" makes it seem like she IS involved in naxal violent activities. She was privy to the plan of killing minister. She is deeply involved in the movement. She is not just a "sympathizer". She is certainly not bechaari. But they are making her one. And makers, virat, DIG all seem to have forgotten that she IS a criminal herself.

In the end they will make virat mahaan. But i really really hope that Sai's genuine goodwill, her love- which is selfless doesn't get ignored. Sai feels hurt n betrayed but she looks past it because she still values virats role in giving her a better life than what she may have had in GC with her aabaa dead.

I hate that virat is in the frame of mind where theres ZERO guilt. He is putting square blame on Sai for not having trust in him n their relationship. Although in much less dire circumstances virat has shown significantly more distrust in her. He blamed her even just seeing her with a friend. He assumed Sai told DIG. He thinks that Sai would go tell on him to DIG and jeopardize his job. Thats his perception of Sai. Here she is getting one blow after another- and NO clarification, yet she is being a good human. Yet he blames her. At no point does he think - Sai is right to feel betrayed n hurt after everything coming out in front of her in the manner it did. Not once do you see him regret how Sai has been made to feel by his lies. He is only focused on how HE has no one to talk to, no one to confide in. The way he speaks about Sai shows NO love. It shows only bitterness.

And you will see this a*hole will blame her for divorcing him and may insult her to no end..

Rono was crying bitterly before signing the divorce papers but this a*hole 🤢

Dunno if rono was any better eventually in terms of putting all the blame on Sai. He didn't really make amends with Sai after that court case drama finished. I think he does not want to see her when he is admitted in hospital and she goes. Pp n shruti both berate her. In KD, the point in their relationship at which this drama happens is much further- after love confession, after consummation, after pp fake pregnancy kaand etc etc- so rono was in a sense right to feel more let down by Imon's lack of trust because they were at a different level in the relationship. Although he treats his pregnant wife rather poorly overall. He ignores her and is really harsh with her with Shrutis reentry even when shes heavily pregnant and hormonal and vulnerable in her final trimester...with the epic highlight if missing his own childs birth because of Shruti.

Originally posted by: Nja91

Dunno if rono was any better eventually in terms of putting all the blame on Sai. He didn't really make amends with Sai after that court case drama finished. I think he does not want to see her when he is admitted in hospital and she goes. Pp n shruti both berate her. In KD, the point in their relationship at which this drama happens is much further- after love confession, after consummation, after pp fake pregnancy kaand etc etc- so rono was in a sense right to feel more let down by Imon's lack of trust because they were at a different level in the relationship. Although he treats his pregnant wife rather poorly overall. He ignores her and is really harsh with her with Shrutis reentry even when shes heavily pregnant and hormonal and vulnerable in her final trimester...with the epic highlight if missing his own childs birth because of Shruti.

So this track would plant the seeds mistrusting Virat during her pregnancy and she also has the right reasons to do so.

Pakhi will be feeding her into her insecurities.. More heart breaks and eventually Sai Bai returning to this a*hole ..

KD story is so problematic and repetitive ..No wonder it ended with many loose ends.. It had no story left to show post shruti tracks.. here confession didn't even happened and we are already exhausted with SaiRat..