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Posted: 4 years ago
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What a let down? I know its been one year and she has changed but come on, whats wrong with her? They addressed domestic violence, she was right there and the biggest problem she has with, is Pakhi? Are you serious?
After being abused by him, you care if he loves another woman? If he didn’t have a pakhi in his life, she wouldn’t have cared at all, is it?

They have always used Pakhi to deflect attention from the important topics, be it Ajinkya scenario or this locking in the room thing, they were all done by Virat, you remove and add some other character in place of Pakhi and nothing changes

Why Sai doesn’t see anything wrong with Virat?

This is why I started addressing her as FL, The Sai, I liked is not there anymore

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Posted: 4 years ago
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This is why the only character I’m here for now is Samrat.


The Sai I loved, Kamal Joshi’s daughter, doesn’t exist anymore. She wanted to save Devi Tai from abuse yet here she is ready to start a family with an abuser, seems to me criminals are criminals and wrong is wrong only when she isn’t at the receiving end.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Yeah....it was pathetic that there was no confrontation over Virat's abuse. He had committed such a big kaand and the argument was over Pakhi.

Its been decided that his abuse will be brushed under the carpet under the justification of 'frustration'. No introspection, no guilt, not even a n apology needed. 👏

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Completely agree to your post. Sai Virat Chavan has let down Sai Joshi💔Sai Joshi wouldn't have even thought of having an argument about who holds how much importance in the life of a person who has locked her up in a bedroom to discipline her😭She would have packed up her bags and left his house, filed a complaint against him and given him a nice lecture about his so called "haq". Consciously trying to distance myself from this show now. These are not the characters I got hooked on to.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Yeah....it was pathetic that there was no confrontation over Virat's abuse. He had committed such a big kaand and the argument was over Pakhi.

Its been decided that his abuse will be brushed under the carpet under the justification of 'frustration'. No introspection, no guilt, not even a n apology needed. 👏

What has this family turned her into... I had issues with Sai not fighting for her self..It was not about pakhi today...it was about him and her...and what has he turned into today...They cant just talk about Virat losing his mental semblance..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

What has this family turned her into... I had issues with Sai not fighting for her self..It was not about pakhi today...it was about him and her...and what has he turned into today...They cant just talk about Virat losing his mental semblance..

Sai has become completely subdued.😭

The Sai who threatened to file a police complaint against Virat during PD lunch

The same girl was offering a scale to Virat ...🥺

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Sai has become completely subdued.😭

The Sai who threatened to file a police complaint against Virat during PD lunch

The same girl was offering a scale to Virat ...🥺

I think they will show her falling into depression. Today she looked so defeated 😞. Not with pakhi but with virat. Dining table scene was very difficult for me to watch. Ayesha was superb 👍


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Sai has become completely subdued.😭

The Sai who threatened to file a police complaint against Virat during PD lunch

The same girl was offering a scale to Virat ...🥺

@bold I had mentioned. This is very close to clinical depression...Taking anything and everything that comes...

She had long back started talking how she is not a good woman...Remember her conversation with Aai.. All she has heard mostly in the last one year on a daily basis is how she is mannerless, culture less, jungli.. badtameez...khudgarz... badmizaz and what not...WIth some exceptions. The praise she gets is not even close to what she gets to hear about herself.. When you have your parents...you know they tell you that you are the best in the world irrespective of what the world says..Sai in that manner is alone..SHe has been just told how she is wrong..FOr every small/big mistakes of her she is name called...her father is name called...She is at the worst phase now... and also in a phase where she does not even know she is self harming..by not standing up for herself. By not questioning the abuse she was made to bear...She is defeated...No zeal to fight... We might call it many things...but this is very common in depression... And her falling into depression, considering what she has gone through at this young age...what she was made to go through in the last one year... after her Aaba dying was inevitable..infact long due

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

@bold I had mentioned. This is very close to clinical depression...Taking anything and everything that comes...

She had long back started talking how she is not a good woman...Remember her conversation with Aai.. All she has heard mostly in the last one year on a daily basis is how she is mannerless, culture less, jungli.. badtameez...khudgarz... badmizaz and what not...WIth some exceptions. The praise she gets is not even close to what she gets to hear about herself.. When you have your parents...you know they tell you that you are the best in the world irrespective of what the world says..Sai in that manner is alone..SHe has been just told how she is wrong..FOr every small/big mistakes of her she is name called...her father is name called...She is at the worst phase now... and also in a phase where she does not even know she is self harming..by not standing up for herself. By not questioning the abuse she was made to bear...


Does she even recognise/realise what she is enduring is abuse and/or domestic violence? Doubtful.


https://www.thehotline.org/support-others/why-people-stay-in-an-abusive-relationship/


https://ifstudies.org/blog/eight-reasons-women-stay-in-abusive-relationships

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

@bold I had mentioned. This is very close to clinical depression...Taking anything and everything that comes...

She had long back started talking how she is not a good woman...Remember her conversation with Aai.. All she has heard mostly in the last one year on a daily basis is how she is mannerless, culture less, jungli.. badtameez...khudgarz... badmizaz and what not...WIth some exceptions. The praise she gets is not even close to what she gets to hear about herself.. When you have your parents...you know they tell you that you are the best in the world irrespective of what the world says..Sai in that manner is alone..SHe has been just told how she is wrong..FOr every small/big mistakes of her she is name called...her father is name called...She is at the worst phase now... and also in a phase where she does not even know she is self harming..by not standing up for herself. By not questioning the abuse she was made to bear...She is defeated...No zeal to fight... We might call it many things...but this is very common in depression... And her falling into depression, considering what she has gone through at this young age...what she was made to go through in the last one year... after her Aaba dying was inevitable..infact long due


Asmi, I have no hope that the makers will address this issue properly😭💔 How much are you going to torture a 19 year old orphaned girl? She's supposed to be a topper, lively, friendly and good natured girl. And look at this pathetic family and loser husband who are constantly putting her down, abusing her and comparing her with other losers in the family. Sai just needs a lot of TLC right now... nothing else. She's really alone in this world😭

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