Originally posted by: King07
This is a general question and not in relation to todays and in hindsight related to the show as a whole as we near 300 episodes: does Sai get a bit more 'choot' or leeway cuz she is only 19 years old? Virat does alot of things wrong and we call him up on it yet do we sometimes judge Sai's errors to be down to her age and lack of experience in dealing with such matters yet not address her errors the same way we wud if we say Virat made the errors?
Its just something I have notice the past few months so thought to share my point and get your views.
I always say this, I might be wrong here. Sai's character is extremely good. She is kind, selfless and compassionate. Hence her actions how ever unpalatable they are will be forgiven(both by virat and audience) because her intentions were always good and will be good. Virat is a nice man too but not as selfless as Sai. Virat fell for Sai for exactly the same reason...she is kindness personified. He admires her for what she is and how fearlessly she does things. Hence I think he doesnt expect any apology for her mistakes.
While going through previous episodes also, during the initial days of their marriage, he loses his cool over her for her way of dealing things, but not the things per say. He was mostly worried that family will not like her and they might not accpet her in future because he wanted her as his wife...the more he fell for her, the more he wanted her to behave...till recently. Once she got acceptance from the family, I dont think he will restrict her actions again. He knows she does things with good intentions.
In short, Sai's actions will be forgiven because they lead to good ulitmately. Virat's actions always caused harm to Sai in the end...thats the problem.
Edited by sadiltl - 4 years ago
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