Virat looked calmer - Page 2

Originally posted by: msin

yes I agree he had only seen the good side of pakhi in yoga camp .. the courtship period is always superb ..

During her wedding a pathos added to her charm .. then his wedding he was completely enamoured by her sadness , her maturity.. she was bestest friend

But With more exposure pakhi’s reality became more evident..

by now I guess he’s happy samrat will take her back … peechha chhoota

Kisi se pyaar karna aur kisi ke saath ek ghar mein rehn is completely different

That's y relationships have issues coz in courtship one might not get to know the person completely.

Yeah, a good episode. I just watched the Sairat part only anyway 🤣.

Virat looked calm and composed. Yes, he did clarify it to his family and brother and that is exactly why he thanked Sai. Had he hid about their coffee meet, he would have been telling more lies which would have worsened things. He wanted to clarify to Sai by telling everyone and Sai wasn’t anyway convinced with his story in front of the family too. She knows Pakhi well and her questions were also valid. I would have appreciated if Virat had answered her honestly.

They could atleast speak this way because he didn’t hide it from the family. Sai’s dialogue about harkaton makes a lot of sense because this is how she will behave if he acts honest. Even if he had not told the entire truth as she understood, he had atleast not hid it this time. He hid that she will be joining during the Ladakh trip and then hid about their anniversary trip which only adds to her confusion and doubts.

I hope Virat understands from how she was asking him today that this is how she will be if he is upfront about things and f doesn’t hide anything anymore. Anniversary, I do agree that he wanted to give a surprise and he wasn’t at fault but he needs to come clean whenever there is a misunderstanding between them.

His harkatein this time put her also at ease. It has given her too some kind of relief.

Even now as Nethra has said, he has not been completely honest and it is going to come biting him again.

Whenever a person adopts the path of honesty, however tough the path is, they will be relaxed, calm, free from burden, free from confusion and since there would be no scope of misunderstanding, there will be no misery as well.

Virat having feelings for Pakhi is an old news. As he himself has realised, it was never love but just attraction. He kept thinking that he loved her since he couldn’t think that it could be an attraction.

I am glad that not only did Sai think about her feelings today, Virat also noticed pain in her eyes and was thinking that all these are affecting her. Her saying she has no feelings for him doesn’t hurt him but instead it looks like a deliberate denial from her to him now. That is a good sign. Hope he continues to stay this confident and she continues to introspect.

Originally posted by: laksh

Yeah, a good episode. I just watched the Sairat part only anyway 🤣.

Virat looked calm and composed. Yes, he did clarify it to his family and brother and that is exactly why he thanked Sai. Had he hid about their coffee meet, he would have been telling more lies which would have worsened things. He wanted to clarify to Sai by telling everyone and Sai wasn’t anyway convinced with his story in front of the family too. She knows Pakhi well and her questions were also valid. I would have appreciated if Virat had answered her honestly.

They could atleast speak this way because he didn’t hide it from the family. Sai’s dialogue about harkaton makes a lot of sense because this is how she will behave if he acts honest. Even if he had not told the entire truth as she understood, he had atleast not hid it this time. He hid that she will be joining during the Ladakh trip and then hid about their anniversary trip which only adds to her confusion and doubts.

I hope Virat understands from how she was asking him today that this is how she will be if he is upfront about things and f doesn’t hide anything anymore. Anniversary, I do agree that he wanted to give a surprise and he wasn’t at fault but he needs to come clean whenever there is a misunderstanding between them.

His harkatein this time put her also at ease. It has given her too some kind of relief.

Even now as Nethra has said, he has not been completely honest and it is going to come biting him again.

Whenever a person adopts the path of honesty, however tough the path is, they will be relaxed, calm, free from burden, free from confusion and since there would be no scope of misunderstanding, there will be no misery as well.

Virat having feelings for Pakhi is an old news. As he himself has realised, it was never love but just attraction. He kept thinking that he loved her since he couldn’t think that it could be an attraction.

I am glad that not only did Sai think about her feelings today, Virat also noticed pain in her eyes and was thinking that all these are affecting her. Her saying she has no feelings for him doesn’t hurt him but instead it looks like a deliberate denial from her to him now. That is a good sign. Hope he continues to stay this confident and she continues to introspect.

So lakshmi one question...if he realises the pain and also him expecting her to call him her pati at end...these were added things...so how do you think Virat is going away...when he is realising her feelings for him?

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

So lakshmi one question...if he realises the pain and also him expecting her to call him her pati at end...these were added things...so how do you think Virat is going away...when he is realising her feelings for him?

Don’t know what they have in store for us Asmi. Even in Kd, Neeraja had said that Rono pretends to go on a transfer when he actually doesn’t. He wanted Emon to think and realise her feelings or something like that. So it could be that Virat will keep noticing these in the coming days and might try to help her realise. If nothing works or helps, he might try to create more distance for her to miss him, for her to think and realise probably.

Originally posted by: laksh

Yeah, a good episode. I just watched the Sairat part only anyway 🤣.

Virat looked calm and composed. Yes, he did clarify it to his family and brother and that is exactly why he thanked Sai. Had he hid about their coffee meet, he would have been telling more lies which would have worsened things. He wanted to clarify to Sai by telling everyone and Sai wasn’t anyway convinced with his story in front of the family too. She knows Pakhi well and her questions were also valid. I would have appreciated if Virat had answered her honestly.

They could atleast speak this way because he didn’t hide it from the family. Sai’s dialogue about harkaton makes a lot of sense because this is how she will behave if he acts honest. Even if he had not told the entire truth as she understood, he had atleast not hid it this time. He hid that she will be joining during the Ladakh trip and then hid about their anniversary trip which only adds to her confusion and doubts.

I hope Virat understands from how she was asking him today that this is how she will be if he is upfront about things and f doesn’t hide anything anymore. Anniversary, I do agree that he wanted to give a surprise and he wasn’t at fault but he needs to come clean whenever there is a misunderstanding between them.

His harkatein this time put her also at ease. It has given her too some kind of relief.

Even now as Nethra has said, he has not been completely honest and it is going to come biting him again.

Whenever a person adopts the path of honesty, however tough the path is, they will be relaxed, calm, free from burden, free from confusion and since there would be no scope of misunderstanding, there will be no misery as well.

Virat having feelings for Pakhi is an old news. As he himself has realised, it was never love but just attraction. He kept thinking that he loved her since he couldn’t think that it could be an attraction.

I am glad that not only did Sai think about her feelings today, Virat also noticed pain in her eyes and was thinking that all these are affecting her. Her saying she has no feelings for him doesn’t hurt him but instead it looks like a deliberate denial from her to him now. That is a good sign. Hope he continues to stay this confident and she continues to introspect.

@bold Yes! Wish Virat knew this.

@green Yes! He did.

@red This was my thought too. But I feel he is still not fully over his hurt or the pain of his heartbreak. He is thinking better but still continuing to protect his heart. That is why he still wants to leave. When conflict erupts and he is pulled back into his emotions, we may still see the same vulnerability, getting overwhelmed by his emotions and an inability to handle the crisis in his marriage. May be I'm wrong.

Originally posted by: laksh

Don’t know what they have in store for us Asmi. Even in Kd, Neeraja had said that Rono pretends to go on a transfer when he actually doesn’t. He wanted Emon to think and realise her feelings or something like that. So it could be that Virat will keep noticing these in the coming days and might try to help her realise. If nothing works or helps, he might try to create more distance for her to miss him, for her to think and realise probably.

That was much later, After accident...when he realises the extent to which Emon is attached to him... when she gets into depression because of RK's presence in his life... But right now at this moment he was adamant...Virat is being shown more perceptive and also because Neil is very good with expressions...As per today, his transfer his day after... so that's what my question was.. today he looked he understands no, so how is he going to leave...

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

That was much later, After accident...when he realises the extent to which Emon is attached to him... when she gets into depression because of RK's presence in his life... But right now at this moment he was adamant...Virat is being shown more perceptive and also because Neil is very good with expressions...As per today, his transfer his day after... so that's what my question was.. today he looked he understands no, so how is he going to leave...

I thought you were talking about that transfer. May be that will get delayed by Sai or so and hence he grows angry? Don’t know what they are going to do. They will create another misunderstanding between the two 👏 may be. This is all short lived.

Originally posted by: laksh

I thought you were talking about that transfer. May be that will get delayed by Sai or so and hence he grows angry? Don’t know what they are going to do. They will create another misunderstanding between the two 👏 may be. This is all short lived.

No No I am saying..he is going to go in two days.. and he sees Sai cares for him, was hurt seeing him with Pakhi that means something would be there right...and he wants to let it all go ? Leave her and go?

Virat does not have any residual feelings for Pakhi that's quite obvious.. He cleared it even what he felt was only infatuation and was wrong.. He never loved her..

Don't know what's hold for future because he is a pendulum 🤢

He did look calmer and also enjoying Baiko's tantrum.. He feels that finally things are in place..

He is hurt he feels dejected hence trying his level best distancing from Sai but failing miserably

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

No No I am saying..he is going to go in two days.. and he sees Sai cares for him, was hurt seeing him with Pakhi that means something would be there right...and he wants to let it all go ? Leave her and go?

I think he wouldn’t want to assume and change all that. He probably will be noticing how much all this is affecting her. He would also want to know his position in her life and if she would miss him. She always used to care for him but the feelings or emotions will come out during distance. He too wouldn’t want leave her but it is a test for both of them.

How I see Virat’s indifference or him staying with Sai and not going away is that Virat is also worried that if he stays with her, he shouldn’t end up losing his cool and do something stupid.

The more he stays near her, let her take care of him, let her continue to show liberty on him, the more he will start getting hopeful, the more his expectations from her will be and the more he will be desperate for her to feel something for him. He might unintentionally hurt her and he doesn’t want to do that. Trust me and as you too would have noticed, this behaviour hurts him as much as her or should I say even more. He loves her snd is yet trying to maintain distance and that must be tough for him. Going away from her will be very tough for him and he is doing it with some determination this time. This is how Sai has always been ever since they got married. She was determined not to get close to him but she didn’t realise her feelings for him so she managed to but in his case he won’t be able to put up this harsh front, maintain this distance if they stay together. Do you see what I mean?