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Posted: 4 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

If samrat feels pakhi is victim because she doesn't know her past is samrat brother then why he is angry with virat. Isn't it clear virat also don't know his past is would be wife of his brother. Why this partiality. Virat being more close to Samrat can't be the answer. If that's the case then he should be the first one to understand virat would have done it for his sake. So much sympathy for the woman who blatantly saying she won't forget her ex & talking bad about his brother wife. But he don't even want to give a chance to his brother for explanation.

Yup yup yup.....haven't been able to make sense of that. His anger towards Virat doesn't make too much sense ...now that he his not too mad at his situation. And yet the illogical tiff will continue...🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Pakhi Didi hai itni beautiful............. who won't fall in love with her or understand her??🥰🥰

Viru for a day, Sammy boy, BK, Sonali, karishma, Ninu for life............now Ashwini, Mohit ............even writers love her character.

Humari Param Sundari

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: sadiltl


If they follow KD, It will be clear from Virat. That is the reason, Pakhi will shift the focus on Sai now.

Both gets manipulated so easily 😡

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Posted: 4 years ago
#44

Haven't seen today's episode, from what I grab from the WU's she's planned to play everyone with her fake victim cards.


Sam with a I'm stronger than you imagined, your brother played with me, you all have played with me and destroyed my life stance.


Sai with he loves me, it's all a pity palace for you and not love for you stance.


Virat with you have destroyed my life, yet I'll wait for you forever, your wife doesn't love you or will ever make you happy and whatever else she's going to say in the cafe stance.


Family, anything will do they anyways trust her blindly; the sun shines through her halo😆


How can Sam fall for all this, why did they make him all rough and tough and strong with words if he was to melt with some tears and words implying she loves his brother & not him or disturbing statements about his brother's wife. These are major RED flags for a person having dangerous thoughts, putting them across and making others seem like the villains.


If it seemed like a healthy try, him giving a chance to their marriage would make sense but this sounds absolutely toxic. What sort of happiness would such a disturbing start to a second attempt at marriage even begin to make sense with ? This sort of emotional decision making will only deject him somewhere down the line even worser than today.


In short gol gol ghumakar everyone will be dumbed down to make way for the supposed victim in the story to stay and make everyone's lives difficult while blaming the actual sufferer's who didn't bring it all upon themselves. To some extent Virat's stance still makes some sense but he fell for her coffee date invite & he's obviously going to regret it even with the I don't care attitude.

Edited by Tapdance - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Yes I agree with you Amor! Here is my take


Today's conversation of Samrat and Pakhi revealed an insight into Samrat. He oscillated between a gentleman friend who wanted to objectively see Pakhi and help her move on and a heartbroken lover/husband who is willing to forgive his partner and start over again. The way his eyes warmed seeing her struggling to move on and at the same time, a husband who questioned her intentions when he asked her about that 'one' person. It is hard to box an individual into one particular role and judge their reactions. An individual can don 'many' hats at the same time, based on the circumstances and emotional state. What Samrat spoke in front of the family that morning is coming from a broken husband and a brother. But when he saw Pakhi privately, his emotions for her came into the front for a while. He gauged her intentions well. He is open minded too, to give their marriage a chance. But what he will do listening to Pakhi's intentions is something to look forward to. He was thinking for Virat and Sai too, which is endearing. He didnt like the way Pakhi said Sai cannot keep Virat happy. Definitely he sensed her dislike for Sai. He will be vigilant on that. One more thing that I liked in Samrat is that he doesn't let people walk over him, he shut up Sonali nicely. Virat is sensitve and gets people to take over him. His non confrontational nature is such.


Coming to Virat, he behaved as a distraught husband/lover. It is hard to see him ignore Sai like this because unknowingly we also have seen him like a person taking 'care' of Sai, just like Sai sees him. But we forgot that he is a husband and a lover who is let down by his wife. If we see him as an equal to Sai in what they share, his shutting down Sai or hurting her with his words look natural. He is clearly 'faking' his actions. He wants to show Sai that it hurts him. She had hurt him. In a way very demeaning...not him, but his love for her. If you are not something truly and your loved one accuses him of the same, it can be very hurtful. The person will lose the trust and goes into shell. It happens, in real with husband and wife. It is also so much natural to forget and forgive each other the next instant they show their love. Because, love is only the constant factor , misunderstandings come and go. Relationships work because misunderstandings will be eventuallly understood. It needs time! Virat needs some love from Sai, appreciation from Sai and understanding from Sai, his wife. What he did in the past with Samrat, he did it because it felt right. What he did with vaada is wrong, it was not well thought through. He needs Sai to understand this. Thats all! It is so simple but the emotions are making it so much hard for them.


Sai is not seeing Virat sill as a lover/husband. For her to realize that she needs to be cut off from Virat. Virat can fulfill the zimmedari and guardianship from anywhere. But not companionship. She will have to crave him and his presence to understand what it means to be in love. Virat craves for her presense every moment. She has to reach there.


Pakhi, pakhi pakhi. What I dont like about this character is her self centered ness. Not even once she felt bad for Samrat's hurt. The man is gone from home, there must be a reason for that. He must have been hurt. Atleast a sorry to accept that her actions caused him hurt would have showed some human side of her. The way she speaks is uncomfortable because, just those words can disrupt peace in everyone's life. Claiming Virat at the slightest chance she gets, not thinking twice to utter them, in front of everyone and anyone shows her disregard for other's emotions. The way she tries to put down Virat and Sai's marriage saying that Sai cant keep virat happy shows that she is finding cracks to fit herself in! She knows Virat is beyond reach, but Sai is still vulnerable. Samrat kind of sensed it. I think that put him down more that her intentions for Virat. Her fixation on SaiRat's relationship. That is her goal to break it. She is on that journey already.


PS: Samrat and Virat are true gentlemen. They are people who genuinely help others without judging them. The way Samrat encouraged her to move on showed his concern for her. He saw her as any woman who needs help not as her wife who betrayed him!! It is endearing to watch.

The first paragraph. Beautifully put ❤️.


@bold I couldn’t get myself to continue to watch the scene after I saw how he was behaving.

@green And when I thought exactly this, I watched it 😆. I knew this was coming but to watch it looked a little hard. But one can understand that it is coming from a person who is hurt one can understand Virat’s actions too. I could understand it but just couldn’t get myself to watch when I tried to watch it. The reason being, they both have not been like this for a long time. It could be that we are not used to seeing Virat like what you have said, but for me it was tough to watch the both of them like this. I faced the same even during the ousting and especially the bangle breaking scene.


@bold My views exactly again. I was about to say this in Pooja’s post too. Will tag you if I reply in her post.


@red Absolutely. Looks like you have already written whatever I feel and whatever I wanted to express 😆❤️.


I agree, all that Virat needs his love, understanding, acknowledgement of his actions and feelings from Sai.


I have a different view about Sai. Will tag you from Pooja’s post.


Yes, Pakhi is a highly selfish person who just doesn’t care about anyone other than herself. She can care for people who can be nice with her and she can go against people and just won’t care for those who are not being nice with her or who points out her mistakes. I think Samrat revealing about her disinterest in the marriage, his talks to Virat, declaration that he wants to divorce her has given her a lot of courage to be this bold and shameless in front of Samrat.

Had he not said any of these, had she not known that he knows that there was something between her and Virat, had he not understood that she has feelings for Virat even now, she might have even tried to conceal it all. She might have tried to stay in the house and not got her image spoilt in front of him as well. The truth might have come out on its own or she would have been pushed to blurt it out if he had ever tried to get close to her. Now, she is acting really bold. It has become favourable to her or should I say she has taken advantage of the situation, turned the whole thing into her favour.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Phone call and Virakhi being aware of each other during SamrAkhi wedding may be interpreted in different way. Samrat may think she had to go through with the wedding, even after coming to know that he was Virat's brother because she was helpless in stopping the wedding. He may believe that Pakhi may have wanted to move on, but Virat's relationship with Samrat upset everything. Sammy is a good man, so he is being very generous and considerate.

The key piece of information is the condition under which she decided to get married to Virat...despite having the opportunity to call off the wedding. He may feel very differently then. Or not. Ghum being devoid of logic or nuance, it won't be surprising of Sammy actually saw through Pakhi's selfishness (he figured out exactly what she was) and still wants her. Good luck Sammy boy.

As for Pakhi's dialogue that she never knew about Virat being Samrat's brother before her marriage....I think writers are ambiguously meaning that she agreed to the marriage not knowing that she was getting married to Virat's brother.

@bold Wow. Very very true and I agree.


@green This is my understanding too.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

If samrat feels pakhi is victim because she doesn't know her past is samrat brother then why he is angry with virat. Isn't it clear virat also don't know his past is would be wife of his brother. Why this partiality. Virat being more close to Samrat can't be the answer. If that's the case then he should be the first one to understand virat would have done it for his sake. So much sympathy for the woman who blatantly saying she won't forget her ex & talking bad about his brother wife. But he don't even want to give a chance to his brother for explanation.

To me, Samrat can be angry on his brother but him naming one of the kids in the ashram as Virat spoke volumes. Karishma even asked him if he named any child as Patralekha. He is angry with Virat because he loves him a lot and feels betrayed by him that he had hid the truth and took the decision on his own. It is not just about Virat spoiling his life, it is also that Virat didn’t trust him enough to share that he loves the girl. Samrat is not a guy who would have come in between two lovers. He would have happily got them married. He would be thinking that just like how Virat cares for his happiness, wouldn’t he have cared for Virat’s happiness and stepped back? He loves Virat a lot and he also knows that Virat used to love him a lot that’s why he is more hurt because of Virat than Pakhi.

I think whatever sympathy he has for Pakhi is because she is a woman whom he probably thinks has lost her life from all sides by waiting for Virat when he can sense that Virat would have moved on with his wife Sai. He is just being a gentleman.

As Nethra says, even I feel the same, Samrat should get to know what all Pakhi has done. He has no clue and wouldn’t be even able to imagine what all she is capable of.

Edited by laksh - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: laksh

The first paragraph. Beautifully put ❤️.


@bold I couldn’t get myself to continue to watch the scene after I saw how he was behaving.

@green And when I thought exactly this, I watched it 😆. I knew this was coming but to watch it looked a little hard. But one can understand that it is coming from a person who is hurt one can understand Virat’s actions too. I could understand it but just couldn’t get myself to watch when I tried to watch it. The reason being, they both have not been like this for a long time. It could be that we are not used to seeing Virat like what you have said, but for me it was tough to watch the both of them like this. I faced the same even during the ousting and especially the bangle breaking scene.


@bold My views exactly again. I was about to say this in Pooja’s post too. Will tag you if I reply in her post.


@red Absolutely. Looks like you have already written whatever I feel and whatever I wanted to express 😆❤️.


I agree, all that Virat needs his love, understanding, acknowledgement of his actions and feelings from Sai.


I have a different view about Sai. Will tag you from Pooja’s post.


Yes, Pakhi is a highly selfish person who just doesn’t care about anyone other than herself. She can care for people who can be nice with her and she can go against people and just won’t care for those who are not being nice with her or who points out her mistakes. I think Samrat revealing about her disinterest in the marriage, his talks to Virat, declaration that he wants to divorce her has given her a lot of courage to be this bold and shameless in front of Samrat.

Had he not said any of these, had she not known that he knows that there was something between her and Virat, had he not understood that she has feelings for Virat even now, she might have even tried to conceal it all. She might have tried to stay in the house and not got her image spoilt in front of him as well. The truth might have come out on its own or she would have been pushed to blurt it out if he had ever tried to get close to her. Now, she is acting really bold. It has become favourable to her or should I say she has taken advantage of the situation, turned the whole thing into her favour.


@bold

Just our day in sync 🤗


@red

Wow you captured it even better. Exactly I feel like this for her. She is very manipulative and cold hearted at the same time. I feel bad for Samrat. Even if the circumstances change for better and she will move on with Samrat, but will she able to outgrow her inherent attitude? That gets me worried for Samrat 🤔 Phas (phasa?) gaya banda.

Edited by sadiltl - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#49

Totally agree with your post, Ramya.

Poor Sammy, indeed. I feel for the guy. Samrat sure likes Pakhi still, and if she's willing to, he'd have no qualms about giving their relationship another chance. The guy was so devastated to find out that she wasn't even willing to marry him, that too with feelings for his cousin which is why he left. But after his return he sure has gauged the fact that SaiRat are married and Virat possibly has feelings for Sai. So while he spoke to Pakhi, he makes the mention of how he thinks Virat loves Sai now and not Pakhi. Still that woman's reply must have disheartened him, as he was hoping for one positive gesture from her. Poor guy. He seems quite matured and also understands people well. Its unfortunate that he's got hitched with this delusional Pakhi, who refuses to see the good guy in front of her and waiting for Virat who's become someone else's ages ago.

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