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Posted: 4 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9


Ye sai Joshi ka tareeka hai virat ko guilty mehsoos karne ka , whenever there is a fight she comes up with this.


U know it's a mental disorder , no where I m calling sai paagal coz every mental disorder is not related to paagalpan .


Some people do live with their real family but still feel they r alone , no one loves & cares about them . They fight with this strange feeling where they do get love but they fail to accept it .


Sai ki problem parental issue se related where she feels she can never have a family why coz her family broke after her mother's death when she was just a newly born, later KJ died , GC people rejected to be her family which made her believe she can never have a family.


Virat , Ashwani kitna bhi kar le sai ke liye humesha kam hi hoga .


Sai want d same unconditional love which KJ used to give but it's not possible coz no-one can replace ur parent.


TBH! everyone in this family needs psychiatric counseling - no one is sane in general standards not even Virat or Ashwini. Everyone is traumatized by one thing or the other.


Just saying, in many western countries when a police person is involved in a shoot out - they have mental evaluation (thank you English TV shows) by the dpt psychiatrist before they are cleared for carrying gun/duty again in official capacity. Nothing of this sort happens in India, as still people consider consulting psychiatrist a taboo @ no.of locations, including highly educated individuals.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: basherz

lol ! Miguet aapke nadaan sapne poore ho gaye.. Sai is back in her dupatta 😆 btw! nice post as usual


Waaah phatak se de diya. 🤣
Thank you.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9


Ye sai Joshi ka tareeka hai virat ko guilty mehsoos karne ka , whenever there is a fight she comes up with this.


U know it's a mental disorder , no where I m calling sai paagal coz every mental disorder is not related to paagalpan .


Some people do live with their real family but still feel they r alone , no one loves & cares about them . They fight with this strange feeling where they do get love but they fail to accept it .


Sai ki problem parental issue se related where she feels she can never have a family why coz her family broke after her mother's death when she was just a newly born, later KJ died , GC people rejected to be her family which made her believe she can never have a family.


Virat , Ashwani kitna bhi kar le sai ke liye humesha kam hi hoga .


Sai want d same unconditional love which KJ used to give but it's not possible coz no-one can replace ur parent.


I agree with this


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

Exactly my point. It's not like Sai doesn't have anyone or she isn't loved. She is not ready to accept it. She lived in that bubble that she only has her Aaba as family for 18 years. I hope in the future she will see the world differently. We all grow up and get mature. We see things differently. What's impossible when we are a teen becomes possible when adult.

I get your point Muguet

But the thing is, Sai has hardly had been in an environment that is conducive for any sort of personal growth....

It's just been about surviving in CN.... actually it's more than just surviving

That place is a madhouse.....she has been traumatized .....so it's natural to have more needs - need for comforting, more need for understanding, more support, more love

IRL, people who have faced a quarter of what CN dishes out have breakdowns....

So psychologically speaking, I feel Sai's state of mind is pretty spot on...

Just a discussion 😊

Edited by nethraa_99 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: basherz


TBH! everyone in this family needs psychiatric counseling - no one is sane in general standards not even Virat or Ashwini. Everyone is traumatized by one thing or the other.


Just saying, in many western countries when a police person is involved in a shoot out - they have mental evaluation (thank you English TV shows) by the dpt psychiatrist before they are cleared for carrying gun/duty again in official capacity. Nothing of this sort happens in India, as still people consider consulting psychiatrist a taboo @ no.of locations, including highly educated individuals.


U r right sometimes I do feel virat need psychiatrist councelling Coz he needs to get rid of his guilt which is eating him up he needs to realise he is not responsible for other person decision both pakhi & sai r victims of their own decisions, but both portray jaise unse dukhi is duniya mein koi nhi they just make virat feel guilty .


Ashwani plays a major roles in Virat 's problem , I still remember virat did question her why should he always sacrifice for others during samrakhi sangeet & Ashwani was speechless. Ninad & Ashwani both failed as parents ninad is busy in buttering bhavani , Ashwani ka saara time sai ke advocating or pakhi ko lecture dene mein nikal jata hai , she hardly cares even virat can get hurt she always go to him to defend sai's actions making him feel he is d only person wrong . Ye bhi ek tarak ka mental disorder hi hai.


Both virat n sai suffer from saviour complex , if u see people think person not crying or shedding tears is very strong less people know not crying is a problem coz person not crying find difficult to show his or her emotions.


Ya u r right in india people do feel it's a great shame if some one talk mental problems they try to hide it as they feel every mental problems lead them to mental asylum very less people know every mental problems don't lead them to mental asylum , people still can live a normal life .

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