Seedhi baat, no bakwaas - Page 9

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

But still the amount of abuse she has to go through because of this woman and she is not even questioned strictly for doing what she did...Sai was also ridiculed for talking about it.. Has been ridiculed because of her... Had to endure CN people telling her how Pakhi has more rights on her husband than she herself ...

that’s why she told pakhi yesterday that From now on her BS towards her will stop!

Pakhi is so arrogant and full of herself. Her true nature is revealed when she is hurt. She talks as if she doesn’t care for anyone. It is hard to sympathize with her heartbreak or whatever. In KD I felt bad for rk in cafe kurukshetra . But I doubt I will here because of the behavior it came across here.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

that’s why she told pakhi yesterday that From now on her BS towards her will stop!

Pakhi is so arrogant and full of herself. Her true nature is revealed when she is hurt. She talks as if she doesn’t care for anyone. It is hard to sympathize with her heartbreak or whatever. In KD I felt bad for rk in cafe kurukshetra . But I doubt I will here because of the behavior it came across here.

I always found RK really good.. You see even in hospital scenes, the way she enters Emon's room..She is so casual/warm and seething inside...brilliantly portrayed by the actor.. She was cunningly sweet to EMon in the sequence we are to have now and she was fabulous there..Cafe scene..she was great..

Originally posted by: Sofna

Without Sai involved it wasn't a good decision for 3 lives anyway.

As a police officer doesn't he tell the criminals that truth eventually comes out?

They're going to be living in one house.

Feelings are not furniture that if you move from one place to the other they become part of that place.

And that's why I asked- his intention was 'good'- then how can he promise his BROTHER'S wife that I will hold only you in my heart forever ( that'swhat he meant when he said he'snot going to give any other girl a place in heart right?) - Where's the 'goodness', foresight in this?

Isn't this actually worse than physically cheating? Did he give SamRakhi marriage a chance with that promise?

Virat can't be that stupid.

(I'm saying this from what I've read on forum here I haven't watched until Sai comes to CN)

And today when his intention was 'good' why can't he speak up?

We may make decisions from our experiences abd life - but there's also something called gut and instinct- there's no way he felt he was making a good intended move there.

Originally posted by: archanan14

I am also just waiting for the Didi dhulai. Aaj mujhe bada mazaa aaya the way he ignored her😃I really hope the makers don’t disappoint us. He should tell the whole family how she was talking to Virat on her suhaag raat and telling him she loves him. I want to see Kaku’s realisation and Mansi’s anger. Yaar bahut kuch Ms Patralekha has said and done to Sai in that zillat arena. I want to know how she feels when she is ganged up on in the same way. I sound vengeful, sorry, but it gets my goat every time people take off on Sai in that zillat arena.

By the way I got to know today what a “murjhaya hua patta” looks like. Thanks to Kaku! 🤣🤣

Going by the original, I don't think there will be any ganging up on Mrs. Samrat Salunkhe. Kaku and the others will behave as if it's not a big deal. But even watching Samrat doing Pakhi Didi's beizzati in zillat arena will give my inner peace😆

Nothing on the episode, but the precap.

When Samrat accused Virat of spoiling Sai’s life and pulling her into this rut. Samrat is unaware of what prompted this marriage and how it has evolved. But somewhere I want Sai to defend Virat atleast on this point. She was warned what was getting into. It maybe a long debate on who is wrong or right. Sai is still believing in the “eternal love” but that particular allegation has to defended and by her! Or else she is picking up from Pakhi and just working up a self victimisation which is against her character. She has always thrown the deal card on Virat, but why does she forget, she herself only wanted it to be a deal in the beginning. That was THEIR arrangement and not just his!! But then this is only precap, dont know how it will get played out tomorrow

Originally posted by: sherry_24

Nothing on the episode, but the precap.

When Samrat accused Virat of spoiling Sai’s life and pulling her into this rut. Samrat is unaware of what prompted this marriage and how it has evolved. But somewhere I want Sai to defend Virat atleast on this point. She was warned what was getting into. It maybe a long debate on who is wrong or right. Sai is still believing in the “eternal love” but that particular allegation has to defended and by her! Or else she is picking up from Pakhi and just working up a self victimisation which is against her character. She has always thrown the deal card on Virat, but why does she forget, she herself only wanted it to be a deal in the beginning. That was THEIR arrangement and not just his!! But then this is only precap, dont know how it will get played out tomorrow

I agree to your views. Virat had it coming since long with the way ge has tackled the entire issue.

And I wont defend any allegations coming his way because he brought it upon himself and the people accusing are unaware of the truth which is his own doing. However selfless his intentions maybe. And I see your point when you say that Sai will not talk about Deal because then it would further probe into Vaada. But then it also takes me back to the episode where everyone was trying to convince Samrat to return home, and out of nowhere Sai speaks out her rap “deal marriage”. It was not required, atleast not at that juncture. It only worsened things.

Coming to the precap, its only how I felt about a particular shot, where Samrat is accusing Virat of spoiling Sai’s life and she is standing with her head bowing down in acceptance, like she is the victim. She is not like that. She defend and supports herself and others fearlessly. Sai also has not been given clarity but she knows more than Samrat atleast as far as her marriage his concerned, how it happened and how it has evolved. But then like I said is only that its only about that one shot, and I may have read or interpreted it incorrectly. It may turn out to be a completely different thing in the full play out🤞

Originally posted by: sherry_24

I agree to your views. Virat had it coming since long with the way ge has tackled the entire issue.

And I wont defend any allegations coming his way because he brought it upon himself and the people accusing are unaware of the truth which is his own doing. However selfless his intentions maybe. And I see your point when you say that Sai will not talk about Deal because then it would further probe into Vaada. But then it also takes me back to the episode where everyone was trying to convince Samrat to return home, and out of nowhere Sai speaks out her rap “deal marriage”. It was not required, atleast not at that juncture. It only worsened things.

Coming to the precap, its only how I felt about a particular shot, where Samrat is accusing Virat of spoiling Sai’s life and she is standing with her head bowing down in acceptance, like she is the victim. She is not like that. She defend and supports herself and others fearlessly. Sai also has not been given clarity but she knows more than Samrat atleast as far as her marriage his concerned, how it happened and how it has evolved. But then like I said is only that its only about that one shot, and I may have read or interpreted it incorrectly. It may turn out to be a completely different thing in the full play out🤞

Thank you for your daily updates..you truly know how to brief insight into the characters.. ❤️

Honestly speaking I couldn't grasp his misery.. What an insult to those Army officer who genuinely deprived from spending time with their families. He seriously thought money and others can fill the place of a child 🤢..The man who comes across a hypocrite himself has no right to question Virat..

He forgot about his own mother for an woman whom he hardly knew and left Army because he was too engrossed with his own pain..

Though I was missing that jovial Samrat 🤔

I completely agree on that he doesn't blabber nonsense or goes mute like Virat. He has put through all the valid reasons. His replies to Kaku were to the point why Pakhi would wait for someone whom she hardly knew..

Felt so sorry for Karishma. She was trying to put lights into the matter but as usual she was shut off unlike their Sanskari bahu who has all the rights to create ruckucks in the family..

One thing really stood out for me that he hugged everyone except Virat .he literally walked pass Virat who was extending his hands to hug his Jeeva. Virat deserves it... What did he think he would maintain emotional bonding with his brothers wife.. His obvious familiarity with patralekha doesn't go unnoticed by anyone except kaku 🤢..

Pre-cap gives me sadistic pleasure..at the same time I felt so sorry for Virat because his intentions were never wrong but his one stupid Vaada brought all these troubles for himself

I am in the minority and don't mean to offend anyone. I have only started watching Ghum after Sairat's wedding and never could bring myself to see any of the earlier episodes.

I never understood how was Virat's "mein kissi aur ko dil mein jagah nahi doonga" pure in intentions? He, of course, did not mean to have an affair with Pakhi. But, what would the execution of such a vaada have entailed? Samrat was an army man back then. He would have left regularly on missions for extended periods of time. Because it is a joint family, it is very unlikely he would have been able to take his wife with him. So, Pakhi would more likely than not have to stay back in Chavan Nivas ...... where Virat would also have stayed (unless a transfer happened). So, when Samrat was gone, Pakhi and Virat would be two musketeers with Pakhi being de-facto (unnamed) wife bringing in food/water and looking after his well-being? How would this have been acceptable? Of course, ACP was not thinking!

Frankly, it is not 4 zindagis barbaad because of that one decision. It is just Samrat who was caught unawares. Pakhi, Virat and even Sai made their choices knowingly. If anything, Virat is guilty of breaking his vaada to Pakhi. Yes, it was absurd vaada and Paakhi did not fully fulfill her share of responsibility in the vaada.

What really bothers me is that Pakhi has been targeting Sai, belittling her and insulting her and he did nothing to shut her up. He was the deal breaker, he broke the vaada, he developed feelings for Sai and subconsciously wanted them to be reciprocated. Yes, Sai also has feelings but she was sticking to the deal, at least by word if not by action. But he played holier-than-though, refused to acknowledge the possibility that he was the reason Samrat left, and made Sai look wrong by avoiding the truth. He is an ACP for God's sake, he could not muster the courage to put Pakhi in her place??? If he had, what grounds would Pakhi have had to continue her behavior?

Yes, Virat did a big ehsaan on Sai by funding her education - he should have just left it at the level of ehsaan. And if we are counting favors, let us not forget how much of a bigger ehsaan Sai's father did on Virat. Yes, Virat did not ask for it. Neither did Sai ask him to marry her. Yes, villagers wanted him to marry her, but they could not have forced him. Hell, Pakhi could not force him to marry her!

Sai is not blameless either. She cannot temper her actions and use her mind. If the way you are presenting your truth is not producing results, should you not consider an alternative (sneakier but effective) way of getting at it? History in CN should have shown that constant tamashas don't have the desired effect - unless of course you are Didi. And if this marriage is a deal, why is she back? What does she want? Ok, she wants Virat to choose? He is incapable of making a decision unless presented with a do-or-die situation (not the most appropriate words). Now that he has said there is no rishta, will she leave? Sometimes I don't know who is more absurd: Pakhi or Sai. Pakhi keeps saying "aai-baba ke ghar jaana hai" but never goes. Sai keeps saying "I will go after XX number of years". So this is a hostel? Then say so! Virat was actually right - if this marriage is a deal, Sai has no business in interfering in Chavan matters.

While Pakhi is vile (I seriously loath her), the reason Sairat relation is where it is is because of them. No 3rd person can interfere in a couple's relationship unless they somehow give permission for that to happen.

Again, this is just my humble opinion! I have been wanting to share it for so long. With Samrat finally back, I finally got the motivation. 😂