Are we gonna ignore all these things?

Are we gonna ignore the fact these people's educational background is just contradictory to their actions? First off is our ACP Virat Chavan who put a blind eye to the herd of criminals roaming freely in the CN when they should be behind bars for the following criminal charges:

1) Separating two adults who mutually got married to one another.

2) Drugging their daughter, turning her mentally unstable, and locking her in the house for 10 years.

3) Mentally abusing the girl to the point that she is afraid to stay alone in her room.

4) Threatening to harm her and her husband if she ever tries to defy their order.

5) Taking away the girl's infant baby at childbirth and hiding the truth from both the mother and father.

6) Separating and ruining 3 lives in name of "class."

7) Openly admitting to almost all these offenses and still not having a drop of remorse in their eyes.

8) Plotting against reuniting the couple even after all their misdeeds.

9) As per the precap, being violent in front of a mentally ill person and scaring her.

Please add more if I have forgotten any... I was just adding the ones for this track specifically. I was not counting the domestic violence that happens with the bahus in the CN.

Now coming to Dr. Pulkit Despandey and an aspiring medical student, Sai Joshi, who ignored the fact that Devyani is medically unfit and legally ineligible to make decisions for herself. She first needs medical attention to undo the things that have been done to her for a decade. Simply a marriage out of the blue is not the solution. Let's not ignore the fact that she also has an 8-year-old daughter who is unaware of her mother's existence, let alone her state of mind. Is it okay to put Devi through all this mental stress all at once without noting the negative effect it might have on her? However, as it is a tv drama we are all supposed to ignore all these facts and just go with the flow? No logic should be used with such sensitive issues?

This show should be named "Ghum hai ek ke baad ek plotholes mein." I am just appalled at how lightly the makers are tackling such sensitive issues. This show is normalizing domestic, physical, and mental abuse in the name of "it's just a show." Like no, your show is reaching a mass audience and unconsciously spreading wrong messages to them. You are taking away the filter from the eyes of the audience and normalizing all these situations. I can not believe that the writer for this show and Anupama are the same. It can not be true. Although I am not saying Anupama is a perfect show; however, at least there is some kind of redemption in the characters. For example, in the last track, when Kinjal's mom heard about Pakhi's disappearance you could see how quickly she changed from being a vicious lady to a concerned woman out of her maternal instinct. Her viciousness is on one side, but when it comes to sympathizing with a mother she was so apt as she herself knows what a mother would feel at that moment. This is what we mean by layers in a character. This is what we mean when we talk about being a grey character. Meanwhile, in this show, we get constant negativity with no buildup or progress in the characters. The evil is downright evil and is only going further down that path from where there is no scope of redemption.

Well, I had more things to rant about but I will just leave it at that because this show is just going downhill for me. The makers, the directors, and some actors on the show are just taking all the fame for granted. Enjoy the limelight while it lasts, I guess because it won't be on you for much longer.

One more thing I wanna note is that there is a difference in fame and infamy and this show is starting to get the latter.

Do we have a choice? Along with these we need to put up with the mediocre storyline, poor direction, and execution. This is all to please the TRP audiences who don't bother about the quality as long they get entertained. The only saving grace is the star cast.

I don’t think anyone can ignore the points you mentioned.

I am slowly trying to stop watching the show. And I am reading many post by others who are planning to quit as well.

We don’t have censorship or rating in ITV which is followed strictly. We have people who will do morchas for portraying Rama’s and Krishnas wrongly. But when it comes to women being abused in the name of patriarchy, morcha guys do zilch.

It’s really appalling how the TRP janta enjoys the physical and emotional abuse high drama. It just reflects on the society we all live in.

At the end of the day ph is going to say it’s just a show and for them bottom line is making money.

Neither the channel nor the PH is going to take responsibility for showing a series like this on prime time. We audience have to choose wisely.

After watching every episode from last week I just keep wishing Virat character was not an IPS officer and the family members were not from armed forces. 😢😢😢

Yes i have stopped watching the serial too. The director has no sense!

Shame on me for watching I think. I'll need therapy if I continue watching this for too long. Even if I tell myself its a rubbish TV show, I can't reconcile myself to the logic gaps, not to mention the continuous headache inducing nastiness that is unrelenting.

Man, we are in the middle of a pandemic, would it kill them to spread some joy? 🤷‍♀️

Devayani won’t be allowed to take medical help if she still stays in Chavan Nivas. Being with Pulkit,she will be able to revive herself in a better environment under the care of her doctor husband. To make it possible,marriage is the solution. Pulkit’s presence is needed more than medicines. Ofcourse Pulkit is an efficient doctor and could treat her properly away from the chaos...

Shukar manao they didn't make Devi normal achanak se after seeing her patidev.

We are all ignoring it because we have stopped expecting. 🤣 I don't even want to get pissed off the nonsense we get by the writers. 😵 Don't wanna waste my time. 😆

u are absolutely right, but hum kya kar sakte hai?😆

zyaada se zyaada shift to some other show? but waha bhi yehi haal hoga eventually..in fact isse zyaada bura happened in many shows.

yeha kam se kam kabhi kabhi hi sahi people have the spine to take stand for themselves. other shows are more worse than this. more worst things are shown in ITV, and still continuing to show such stuff. yehi soch ke watching it..and just skipping the parts that i don't like. lol.

yeh ITV ka sach hai, cant do anything. i still watch it online, TV pe time waste nay karti, ads chel ke dekhne jithna kuch hai nay aaj kal ke shows mein.

leads cant think logically in ITV dramas, otherwise, show chalega nay.

just imagine virat and sai to be thinking like normal people. isse virat would have warned pakhi and gharwaale a long back, or at least would have left CN by taking transfer, he wouldn't have done such stupid promise to pakhi on the first place. and sai wouldn't have poked her nose into other matters and would have shifted to hostel a long back. isse show aage kaise badegi and episodes kaise banenge, saalom saal kaise chalegi?🤣

bas kudh ko ithna samjaake that all this is a fictional story, we need to ignore the logics and watch the parts we like by skipping all that annoying drama. 😆👍🏼

Agree 100% with everything you said. Unfortunately itv is making hardly any progress. Too much ott drama and no logic. But this plot of showing elders getting away with crimes in the name of conservative behavior and not researching mental illness before potraying it in a show is unacceptable.

To be fair, devi is better off living with pulkit. pulkit is her legal guardian if they're already married. Husband trumps mother. And even psych patients can be assessed for "capacity". In devi's case she does have capacity. Shs can clearly state her wishes even though she acts childish and maybe has occasional "hallucinations" its clear that she WANTS to live with pulkit. And as a doctor he will ensure she gets the right treatment. Anyway in this house despite having ashwini/virat/mohit/shivani/mansi devi has been ill treated so she should leave.

Devi does not have a real psych diagnosis on this show. Its all made up. Juvenile and lazy writing. They think "psychiatric illness" means they will show the character behave like a kid n thats it. Thats ridiculous.

You are absolutely right. But unfortunately we are minority over here. And we are late. They have normalized this so much .

Cuz for majority ,especially trp audience, Virat is the ML who is an ACP. That's it. His occupation description is not required for them . Unlike us,who see Virat as an ACP,it is not just his description for us.