Can't ignore - never did Virat

One thing that looked very sweet of Virat in all this chaos and his anger was that he never grew angry because his plan of taking out for lunch got spoilt.

We can't ignore that he never let that come in between their fight. It could have got added only if he let it but his care and concern took over everything including his own disappointment to not be able to go out for lunch as planned.

Also I am still puzzled at how her revelation about his and Pakhi's past in front of the family was not something that bothered him. Not that he did not care, he apologised to Pakhi on Sai's behalf. But I thought he might ask her to apologise to Pakhi once she returned but he didn't.

Why did he not tell Aai that he was disturbed by it? He told her a lot of things but not this, which only means it didn't bother him as much as the other things?

So her going alone was on top of his head along with her not believing him when he claimed that it was her Dad's last wish because of which he married her.

Dad's last wish is so important for him because

1. He is not lying

2. He wasn't desperate to get married to her (very sensitive because that was the case that was filed against him too last time Sai met DIG)

3. Doesn't want Sai to think he was behind her and that is why he married her. His image or reputation was in question.

4. What she thinks about him or his intentions also matters to him and so doesn't want her to misunderstand him

I really thought things might turn ugly if he asked her to apologise to Pakhi. Will he do it in future or bring it up ever?

I hope Sai apologises to Virat to have brought it out the way she did and also clarify what she meant by saying he was lying. She spoke to her Dad's picture, would be good if Virat also hears it. Both should acknowledge and understand each other's hurt and resolve it.

I know guys many of you want Virat to apologise, yes he should for what he has done, but we can't ignore that she also needs to. She can't share anything about PD, but I am waiting to watch what she is going to tell about why she didn't tell him anything when asked about the professor or why she didn't let him drop her.

I agree with you . Sai said made so many below the belt comments . She needs to apologize as well but I doubt that will happen . All her mistakes got overshadowed by one act of Virat . Sai questioned Virat’s character twice one by revealing about Virat’s past and second by claiming he married her with some ulterior motive . I can understand why it hurt Virat so much when she accused him of lying about Kamal Joshi . He went against his family , broke his previous promise just to fulfill his promise made to his mentor but time and again everyone questions his intentions behind marrying Sai .

Just because Virat made some mistakes during the argument doesn’t justify what Sai said . Both were wrong . Virat will apologize in today’s episode hope Sai does too.

I agree, she needs to apologize.

1) that 'main aapki naukri cheen loongi' that literally sounded like 'mere intaqaam dekhoge' type to me lol😂 if she said it like 'what u did is wrong as an ACP u must be knowing that u can go to jail for this'. That naukri cheenloongi dialogue i didn't like.

2) for saying that he might have lied regarding what kamal joshi said. Which is not only like insulting virat but also it was like insulting her father's decision.

She should apologize for these things.

Regarding pakhi and virat's love story revelation, yes it's virpakh's personal matter, she has no rights to talk about it in front of all as she said she doesn't consider herself to be virat's wife so she has no right to talk about it in front of all like that. But...it was cuz pakhi crossed her limits and said 'bagwaan jaane sai professor ke ghar q jaana chahti hai' and sai did catch of what pakhi was trying to say there. and virat stood quiet and almost everyone standing there was like suspecting her intentions and questioning her character so she spoke about virata nd pakhi's relationship and she even spoke like that with kaku regarding the trip thing and spoke about how she is using virat and taking advantage of virpakh's past to make pakhi stay in CN. Am not justifying sai here. Technically she was wrong in talking about all that. Even though pakhi lied and escaped the situation and virat said nothing about it as according to him he doesn't love pakhi anymore. But yeh baath sai ko kaun batayega..😂😂

And bagwaan hi jaane ki usse pata kaise chala yeh sab..😂 was it that scene when virpakh spoke about it in balcony after sairat got married and sai came home, she heard them talking to eachother about. Thabhi se she was sure of virpakh having a lovey dovey past.

Yes definitely what sai did was wrong.

but the naukari thing I don’t agree that she said something wrong. What he did was absolutely pathetic, on top of that not realizing that he hurt her till the end when aai made him realize.


I think Virat is completely over pakhi so the truth of their non existent relationship coming out is completely fine for him because it was in the past and he had MOVED ON.

he does deserve an apology for the abba thing, she did apologize to abba about it and she should to Virat as well.

both of them were wrong in their words, though the intention might not have been that but they were definitely aggravated by the family especially kaku and didi..

Like aai said to didi that kisi aur ke rishte ki neev hila kar apne sapno ka mahal nahi karha kartein. Doosree ke pati par doore dalna band karo aur apne pati ke waapis Anne ki prarthna karo.

It was the perfect advise which we know didi will brush off..

both sairat need to clear their MUs and need to not get influenced by family

Originally posted by: yyyy

I agree with you . Sai said made so many below the belt comments . She needs to apologize as well but I doubt that will happen . All her mistakes got overshadowed by one act of Virat . Sai questioned Virat’s character twice one by revealing about Virat’s past and second by claiming he married her with some ulterior motive . I can understand why it hurt Virat so much when she accused him of lying about Kamal Joshi . He went against his family , broke his previous promise just to fulfill his promise made to his mentor but time and again everyone questions his intentions behind marrying Sai .

Just because Virat made some mistakes during the argument doesn’t justify what Sai said . Both were wrong . Virat will apologize in today’s episode hope Sai does too.

I feel she will apologise.

@bold I beg to differ

There has been a misunderstanding. She didn’t question his character but was so irritated with the elders of the family, looks to her they are pushing Pakhi towards Virat fully aware of their past. I didn’t like the accusation though. I m still not convinced Kaku is doing that but if she is then Sai is right in thinking that they are pushing Pakhi towards him. But I still don’t approve of the words she used and also revealing it like this in front of the family. She could have told Virat and asked him in private why is your family asking Pakhi to serve you food or call you down, why not me or Aai but not this way.

She never claimed he married with an ulterior motive.

He said Ehsaan faramosh, she asked if she begged him to marry her. He said her Dad forced him to. She said it is a lie because from her knowledge it was the villagers who were forcing him to marry her when he was leaving her house after he handed over her Dad’s Asthi. This was the very first time Virat has also said her Dad forced him to marry her.

Then she asked even if I believe it, was between you and my Dad, you fulfilled your promise but you want me to think that as an Ehsaan on me?

She doesn’t like their marriage to be called as Ehsaan, she asked him to back off and he told her clearly that he is not marrying because someone forced him but instead thinks it to be his duty. Time and again she gets to hear how he has done Ehsaan on her by everyone at home especially by Pakhi, she couldn’t take it.

It was all words playing and creating misunderstanding between the two.

@blue I completely agree. He obviously will get hurt. When she said jhooth, to him it will only look as if he was lying that it was because of her Dad he married her. Yes, all have been questioning his motive. But I doubt if he was referring to marrying her as Ehsaan, also he was in anger and in a desperation to stop her spoke these. He really felt helpless and was hurt too.

I felt it is not just husband, even if she was living with them as just his guru’s daughter whose responsibility he has taken, she should have answered him. I understood why she couldn’t because Devi Tai kept telling someone will harm him and her but she could have been tactful, more polite even if she was in anger after the previous night’s fight or Pakhi’s humiliation. Punishment to Pakhi’s acts gets directed towards Virat indirectly, Virat is to be blamed for a few reasons wrt Pakhi but also doesn’t deserve this. I think that’s the whole plot.

@green completely agree

Whats wrong in bringing up virat-pp past in front of all other than the fact that it makes everyone uncomfortable. It makes everyone squirm when Sai suggests that virat-pp had a past. But Its the truth. Everyone including elders know it. Yes, Virat is moving on and has never crossed the line but pp is definitely not staying in her limit. And except ashwini everyone in the family is also- especially bk is purposely ignoring the truth. Infact by pushing pp towards virat they are equally to blame in pp being unable to stay in her limits. So by calling it out publicly she has made it clear that she is very intelligent and perceptive. Virat feels like she cant read people but she can. She knew right from GC that pp wasnt just his bff. She cant read his change in feelings because he is swinging like a pendulum. Everytime he shows concern/affection and Sai takes a step towards opening up to him something happens due to CN people/pp/virat himself that makes her take 3 steps backwards. Despite knowing the past of virat-pp and seeing the family's daily behavior, sai has always trusted him implicitly but by using force and denying food he has broken her trust and hurt her swabhimaan.

Marriage agar sach mein deal hai toh Sai is not answerable to anyone about where shes going etc. She is not bound to do the "bahu" duties like applying alta. Marriage deal hai toh virat is also not bound to answer Sai. Thats what he told her- tum hoti kaun ho to ask questions about my past. But the clauses of this deal have long been broken. If virat can ask questions about her life, go and meet aniket out of childish jealousy , expects her to inform him about her whereabouts out of concern for her, she has a right to also ask questions about his life. He is not her parent, he is her husband. And although Sai is younger than him and theres a component of "guardianship" and "protectiveness" that virat feels, that doesn't mean that he is not answerable to Sai as a husband is to his wife.

Yes, Sai needs to apologize for the way she said things in her anger,saying that he lied about her dad. But Her aabaa only said to take her zimmedari never asked virat to marry Sai. the villagers and UM came up with marriage idea but ultimately shaadi ka final decision virat ne khud liya aur Sai ne inkasr kiya but bhi kaafi easily convince hogayi. Toh thats the decision both of them as adults made independently. So now they need to sit down and figure out what they expect from each other out of this marriage. Thats also dynamic. Their expectations are also likely to change from time to time. Virat as the older and wiser partner needs to realize that.

Virat and Sai both said many things in anger that were not right. But virat using force and denying food was inhuman. Even in rage he had no business behaving like that. That too as a police officer who is in charge of women's rights. Its ridiculous that he could lose his control to this degree. If he can lose control as the samajhdaar, suljha hua ACP then Sai is only a 19 yo naive, known to be impulsive person.

Sai did not see virat's concern because she saw it as interference in her personal matter. As an adult she expects that she should have the freedom to meet who she wants/when she wants. Ashwini tried to show her that their questions came from a place of concern but unfortunately everyone else instigated virat and virat also instead of taking control of the situation, gave in and decided to use force to "break her zidd". Until Ashwini pointed it out, i don't think virat realized that even if shes younger and sometimes "childish"she has her own mind, her own free will, and a sense of right-wrong. And if he wants to genuinely show concern it needs to be done tactfully and not by making Sai feel as if she lacks the capacity or freedom to make her own decisions.

Instead of being a discussion about Sai's safety it became a fight/showdown about him as a husband "prohibiting" her from doing something, and how she could dare to "disobey" him because of her "stupid zidd" and she should be "punished" .

If virat thinks Sai is behaving rebelliously and foolishly, the way to curtail it is to be tactful.by saying things like "i will lock you in a room" or "not give you food" he is only going to make her more rebellious. Its human psychology. And as a police officer even if he doesn't realize this in the heat of the moment, one would hope that he'd realise it when he introspects but unfortunately they dont give us that at all. Instead of virat introspection we get pointless virat-pp scenes.

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

I agree, she needs to apologize.

1) that 'main aapki naukri cheen loongi' that literally sounded like 'mere intaqaam dekhoge' type to me lol😂 if she said it like 'what u did is wrong as an ACP u must be knowing that u can go to jail for this'. That naukri cheenloongi dialogue i didn't like.

2) for saying that he might have lied regarding what kamal joshi said. Which is not only like insulting virat but also it was like insulting her father's decision.

She should apologize for these things.

Regarding pakhi and virat's love story revelation, yes it's virpakh's personal matter, she has no rights to talk about it in front of all as she said she doesn't consider herself to be virat's wife so she has no right to talk about it in front of all like that. But...it was cuz pakhi crossed her limits and said 'bagwaan jaane sai professor ke ghar q jaana chahti hai' and sai did catch of what pakhi was trying to say there. and virat stood quiet and almost everyone standing there was like suspecting her intentions and questioning her character so she spoke about virata nd pakhi's relationship and she even spoke like that with kaku regarding the trip thing and spoke about how she is using virat and taking advantage of virpakh's past to make pakhi stay in CN. Am not justifying sai here. Technically she was wrong in talking about all that. Even though pakhi lied and escaped the situation and virat said nothing about it as according to him he doesn't love pakhi anymore. But yeh baath sai ko kaun batayega..😂😂

And bagwaan hi jaane ki usse pata kaise chala yeh sab..😂 was it that scene when virpakh spoke about it in balcony after sairat got married and sai came home, she heard them talking to eachother about. Thabhi se she was sure of virpakh having a lovey dovey past.

I agree with you..Sai had her moments but she said was it wrong?

Is it wrong that Virat had feelings for Pakhi and still harbors a soft corner??

Is it wrong that he gave Pakhi a vaada, is it wrong that he is making advances even as friendship towards sai without clearing his priorities??

Is Virat that blind that he does not notices what Pakhi puts Sai through and still he keeps mum!!

Is Virat that delusional to not understand, Pakhi's feelings for him , I dont think so otherwise he would not have said "Mai tumhara sach nhi jaanta, par mera sach"

He very well knows about Pakhi's delusions and still allows free entry in their fights, rooms and everything??

Is it not flowering the bed of thorns for himself??

And WHY DOES EVERY ONE EXPECTS A WOMAN TO KEEP HUSBAND AND WIFELY TALKS INSIDE BEDROOM, EVEN WHEN THE MAN IN SAME RELATION DOES NOT DO THAT!!

HOW MANY TIMES VIRAT HAS REPIRAMENDED , SHOUTED CALLED HER BADTAMEEZ IN FRONT OF HIS FAMILY.

EVEN REGARDING THE TRIP FIASCO , HE IS TELLING "SAI TOH BADTAMEEZ HAI" LIKE WHY VIRAT CANNOT START TAKING THESE SESSIONS INSIDW THE BEDROOM AFTER CLOSING DOORS???

I AGREE, VIRAT DOES NOT HAVE FEELINGS FOR PAKHI, BUT HE DOES NOT EXACTLY STOPS HER!!

KRISHNA SAYS: " GALAT KO KARNE SE BADA GUNHEGAAR USE SEHNE AUR BADAWA DENE WALA HOTA HAI".

Isn't that what Virat is doing is called "badawa dena" obviously not with wrong intentions but not unknowingly, he is very aware of those feelings,very much..

AND APART FROM WHAT SHE SAID ABOUT LYING ABOUT WHAT KAMAL JOSHI SAID

SHE SHOULD NOT BE APOLOGISING FOR ANYTHING, BECAUSE ALL OTHER THINGS SHE SAID WAS TRUE..AND IF CN PEOPLE AND VIRAT CANNOT DIGEST THAT..IT'S NOT HER FUC**NG PROBLEM..

I so want her to take her luggage with Usha mausi and leave the house with her head held high, because Virat is not ready for someone like Sai and vice versa because the problem here was "Trust"

Sai had enough trust in him to let him go with his not so clean intentioned best friend but he did not trust her enough to take a simple descision of going to her professor's house gor lunch.

Also one cannot ignore how not once in her anger/hurt when sai is called ehsaan faramoah does she remind virat or anyone in the family that virat owes his life to her father. And that is telling. She believes that if her father took a bullet for the man, he must be worth it! And I hope she never says anything in future too because thats an important thing. but a 3rd person should point it out to virat.

In GC, she accused him but purely out of grief but it was clear that she didnt mean anything she said because if she truly believed it, she would never have married virat. And looking at how they have shown virat completely lose ALL control in rage i feel that virat would also react in the same way if it was his father that had been killed and he was in Sai's place.