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Posted: 4 years ago
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I rewatched the episode several times to watch all the truth bombs Sai dropped. It was amazing. They wrote some awesome dialogues for Sai. Virat on the other hand was just tongue tied. He couldn't answer her straight questions. Just got teary and served same jalebis about not being able to read people...

Virat Sir- can you read people? Can you read pp your so called bff who is obsessively lusting over you?

Can you read Sai's anguish. She is married and has a housefull of people but she is alone. She is trying to trust you but you are not honest about your feelings or your actions. Virat hides things/says white lies thinking he is doing it for greater good but its kinda shocking how ACP lies/hides the truth about so many big and small things.

Right from teeny insignificant and silly things like searching for namsk instead of baking soda, to the aniket incident, to telling Sai that aai sent baking soda. To big things like hiding the truth about pp from samrat/family, hiding such a big detail about his life from his mother. His first instinct is to lie or hide the truth or modify it to please people. Is this all his conditioning due to growing up with the "dil ke acche" elders?

He trys to avoid confrontation so much that he just avoids the whole situation altogether and that negatively affects not just his but others lives.

One big thing that i hope sai or maybe even Ashwini asks is why pp-virat didnt marry each other if they loved each other and who gave Virat the right to ruin his brothers life in the name of "sacrificing" his love. PP is selfish and stupid so obviously she didnt care for logic. She just agreed blindly to do what virat asked. PP ke decisions ko question karna is like patthar par sar phodna. Its useless! She doesn't have any IQ or EQ. Lacks self respect too and also just insaaniyat because she can watch people suffer in silence. She lacks the ability to introspect or listen to well meaning advice from her own parents and only wants to be the center of attention.

But we have higher standards from virat coz he is a smart man. Hes an ips officer. He is a righteous man. He should factor in long term consequences of his actions. He is supposed to be the patient guy who plans things and doesn't take impulsive decisions...

Did he really think that it was such a bad thing for a marriage to break before it happened than after?

What did he think would happen- truth about him and pp would never come out or even if it did, samrat would be thrilled to find out how "sacrificing" his brother was. Even if the truth had come out after samrat-pp had moved on happily with each other, the truth would have ruined their married life.

We all know that Virat is genuinely a good guy. He can do good even at the cost of harm to himself but sometimes its more important to just be honest than be good. The truth may hurt but its good in the long run.

I really hope that after this episode , they dont let Virat do something stupid where he goes back to sympathizing and siding with pp after 1-2 episodes of throwing shade at her.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: neeraja91

I rewatched the episode several times to watch all the truth bombs Sai dropped. It was amazing. They wrote some awesome dialogues for Sai. Virat on the other hand was just tongue tied. He couldn't answer her straight questions. Just got teary and served same jalebis about not being able to read people...

Virat Sir- can you read people? Can you read pp your so called bff who is obsessively lusting over you?

Can you read Sai's anguish. She is married and has a housefull of people but she is alone. She is trying to trust you but you are not honest about your feelings or your actions. Virat hides things/says white lies thinking he is doing it for greater good but its kinda shocking how ACP lies/hides the truth about so many big and small things.

Right from teeny insignificant and silly things like searching for namsk instead of baking soda, to the aniket incident, to telling Sai that aai sent baking soda. To big things like hiding the truth about pp from samrat/family, hiding such a big detail about his life from his mother. His first instinct is to lie or hide the truth or modify it to please people. Is this all his conditioning due to growing up with the "dil ke acche" elders?

He trys to avoid confrontation so much that he just avoids the whole situation altogether and that negatively affects not just his but others lives.

One big thing that i hope sai or maybe even Ashwini asks is why pp-virat didnt marry each other if they loved each other and who gave Virat the right to ruin his brothers life in the name of "sacrificing" his love. PP is selfish and stupid so obviously she didnt care for logic. She just agreed blindly to do what virat asked. PP ke decisions ko question karna is like patthar par sar phodna. Its useless! She doesn't have any IQ or EQ. Lacks self respect too and also just insaaniyat because she can watch people suffer in silence. She lacks the ability to introspect or listen to well meaning advice from her own parents and only wants to be the center of attention.

But we have higher standards from virat coz he is a smart man. Hes an ips officer. He is a righteous man. He should factor in long term consequences of his actions. He is supposed to be the patient guy who plans things and doesn't take impulsive decisions...

Did he really think that it was such a bad thing for a marriage to break before it happened than after?

What did he think would happen- truth about him and pp would never come out or even if it did, samrat would be thrilled to find out how "sacrificing" his brother was. Even if the truth had come out after samrat-pp had moved on happily with each other, the truth would have ruined their married life.

We all know that Virat is genuinely a good guy. He can do good even at the cost of harm to himself but sometimes its more important to just be honest than be good. The truth may hurt but its good in the long run.

I really hope that after this episode , they dont let Virat do something stupid where he goes back to sympathizing and siding with pp after 1-2 episodes of throwing shade at her.


@BOLD we can just hope, but CVs are hell bent on showing Virat to be lesser IQ than a dumb person. Otherwise who wouldn't understand Pakhi's clear words? Is he that dumb at 28, solo-trip with vahini is fantastic, but vahini turning in to a psycho at his wife joining is not questioned?? I mean IPS get to see all kinds of criminal cases when such incest is involved, but here he sees nothing!! He may not feel for Pakhi, but Pakhi's actions speak loud and clear.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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One thing I just want to point out, I watched the interview with Virat and Pakhi talking about this scene, and Virat had mentioned after the commitment sixer that Sai threw against him he didn’t say anything was because he said at that point he had tried to say something to Sai than those words wouldn’t have value. Like Sai had said you are betraying Pakhi did by your action. So maybe from that he knew that if he said something to Sai right now she would think he is just saying things for the heck of it.


And I agree with you Sai had amazing dialogues, because she not only shows are jealously, her insecurities but also that besides all that she still understand their love and that she does not have any issue. When Virat said why does Sai doesn’t understand I think it is the same case for him, especially when he recognized that Sai has built a wall around her.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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true...sacchai ke teer bilkul nishane per lagayee Sai ne....I am totally in love with Sai and sone per suhaga ...Ayesha's portrayal of Sai...

She stared off with mera aap dono ke saath jaana galat..usme problem hai...per aap dono ka akele jaana ..usme koi problem nahi hai...ghar ke badon ki behsarmi ka kya khule aam khulasa kiya hai...Virat had nothing to say...It was pointed out so well...

as soon as Virat tried to deny his relation with pakhi ....he may have done it in current scenario...whatever may be the case...here comes Sai with another baan...kyun kaha tha umeed mat rakhna??? kyun kaha tha ki mein committed hun...to woh insaan Pakhi nahi hain???and Virat again niruttar!!!! bahut badhiya daleelen Sai ki...Sonali ne theek kaha tha...Sai can be a lawyer!!! 😂

Ayesha's delivery is soooo good....aansun nikal aate hain ...when she said...mein aaj bhi akeli hun...when she said...yeh kamra aap ka hai and aapn nein mujhe yahan rahne ki ijazat di hai...jab bhi woh aaba ka naam leti hain..unhe yaad karti hai..automatically, we feel her pain...It's wonderful...

She has been given wonderful dialogs and Ayesha works sooo hard to learn them up...and then deliver it sooo welll...

It was a beautiful episode yesterday....Hopefully makers don't ruin this..they should not forget all these questions..inka answer milna chahiye...letc c!!!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I think Sai missed the point & most imp question in her opening argument. Instead of saying she didnt want to go on the trip coz Virat forced her, she shd have said she didnt want to go coz Virat was hiding it fm Pakhi & the fsmily & she didnt feel comfortable with that. “Why should she, the wife, go secretly with him as if it is illicit?” “Why did he hide it from Pakhi until the last minute?” These all important questions were never asked nor addressed. Instead Sai hurt Virat by making it sound like she simply didnt want to go out with him. Thats why he brought up her ego pride etc.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bana

I think Sai missed the point & most imp question in her opening argument. Instead of saying she didnt want to go on the trip coz Virat forced her, she shd have said she didnt want to go coz Virat was hiding it fm Pakhi & the fsmily & she didnt feel comfortable with that. “Why should she, the wife, go secretly with him as if it is illicit?” “Why did he hide it from Pakhi until the last minute?” These all important questions were never asked nor addressed. Instead Sai hurt Virat by making it sound like she simply didnt want to go out with him. Thats why he brought up her ego pride etc.

But She kinda did ask him that the previous day. She asked him why he didn't tell pp after she left the bedroom. And virat said "leave it up to me". You just do packing 🙄

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bana

I think Sai missed the point & most imp question in her opening argument. Instead of saying she didnt want to go on the trip coz Virat forced her, she shd have said she didnt want to go coz Virat was hiding it fm Pakhi & the fsmily & she didnt feel comfortable with that. “Why should she, the wife, go secretly with him as if it is illicit?” “Why did he hide it from Pakhi until the last minute?” These all important questions were never asked nor addressed. Instead Sai hurt Virat by making it sound like she simply didnt want to go out with him. Thats why he brought up her ego pride etc.

I think Virat mentioned that he did not tell this earlier as he khnew that Pakhi will cancel the trip..which she eventually did...

I think that in the current scenario Sai is trying to convince herself that Virat loves Pakhi...so that any soft corner that she is having for Virat...she does not develop them...she cannot let her self down by saying that she wanted to come along but was being taken as 'woh'...with pati patni....I think if I were in Sai's shoes, I would have asked Virat...why did he not question Pakhi and dil ke acche bade...why his wife could not come along and why was trip cancelled because Sai was coming along...As Virat did not question this, Sai is sure that Virat still has feelings for Pakhi...she must definitely have felt insulted...

On the fiasco day. Virat ki daleelen for why Sai should come along were strong....But he missed questions strongly why Pakhi and bade had objections of Sai coming along...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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She shd have asked

“Main aapki biwi hoon. Aap mujhe haq se le jaane ke badle mujhe choron ki tarah kyun le jana chahthe the?”

“Aapko kyalagta hai, Pakhi didi aur gharwalon ko mera saath chalna kyun achcha nahin laga?”

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bana

She shd have asked

“Main aapki biwi hoon. Aap mujhe haq se le jaane ke badle mujhe choron ki tarah kyun le jana chahthe the?”

“Aapko kyalagta hai, Pakhi didi aur gharwalon ko mera saath chalna kyun achcha nahin laga?”

Jitna pucha, un sab sawalon ka bhi jawab nahi hai ACP ke paas. All he could say is tum logon ko padhna nahi jaanti. There are definitely many more questions that can perhaps be asked but Aur sawaal puchke kya faayda. Acp is not prepared to face the truth and answer the questions.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: neeraja91

Jitna pucha, un sab sawalon ka bhi jawab nahi hai ACP ke paas. All he could say is tum logon ko padhna nahi jaanti. There are definitely many more questions that can perhaps be asked but Aur sawaal puchke kya faayda. Acp is not prepared to face the truth and answer the questions.


That is because Sai started on a confrontational, hurtful accusatory tone, instead of trying to understand why things happened the way they did, what were the motivations for different people.
It was a fight, not an argument or discussion.

Apologies are disarming. Often the apologiser feels he has done his part by saying sorry & no more should be hurled at him. He takes the moral high ground. The way to tackle this is by first acknowledging & accepting the apology, then saying u still want to constructively understand why/how things happened so as to prevent it from happrning again. Of course, not an 19 year old’s ‘bas ki baat’!

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