What if??

So on a random thought, i created this pollas the last week was terrible , and we all felt that Virat could have done better.So assuming ourselves, in his place what we would have done.

Please free feel to comment if you have anyother option.Please keep in mind to keep the situation similar to the one in show, where family is not ready to accept Sai and want her subdued.

mine was a joint family, there were some issues after my uncle got married so we decided to leave and maintain relations than staying under one roof and always fighting and it really worked for us. our lives took a positive turn and relations also didn't get spoiled.

kehte hai na ki dhoor rehne se pyaar badta hai, wahi hua, badon ne kuch soch samaj kar hi bola hoga. it worked well with us.

and i think if we cant find a common ground it is the right thing to do. isse fights bhi nay honge, relations spoil bhi nay honge.

agar roz ladte rahenge tho ek chath ke neeche bale hi paas rahenge but dilon ke baach dhooriya badti rahegi.

so physically paas paas rehne se zyaada dilon mein ek dusre keliye respect and pyaar bane rehna zaroori hai.

this is my opinion.

When things are too tough to handle,distance always helps a little. It's better to maintain relationships by staying apart instead staying together and straining the relationships until they break apart.

But not unless you have tried your very best. You should be able to live with your decisions. We should always remember that relationships cannot survive solely on love or solely on trust. It needs both together.

I know one of my cousins got married to a "joint" family. I put it in quotation because they live in the same building but in different apartments so that there are no fights between anyone. The parents also live in a different apartment and they make plans on some weekends to get the family together and have meals and such. This is great because nobody is invading others' privacy and still maintaining a healthy relationship. It's like having your family as neighbors.