Originally posted by: Anvi2009
I don't know how Sai can understand Virat when just that morning he stood against her. In today's fight, both Virat and Sai were not on the same page, forget the same page, they were not even in the same book. Virat wants that emotional attachment with Sai just as there is between a husband and wife, but he started this talk at the wrong time in the wrong way. First, he started it by completely forgetting what happened in the morning between them, then he went on about Sai's badtameezi and how she does not care about anyone and how much he has done for her. And in between all that, he threw bread crumbs by saying what he actually felt and wanted from Sai. As audience, it is damn clear to us what Virat actually meant, but from Sai's POV, she needed some space today after all she had faced, was angry at Virat for shouting at her in front of his family and hurting Ashwini, and SHE HAD AN EXAM in the morning for which she needed to study. From Sai's POV all she did was support his bua, that's it. She asked him again and again that what did she do that is causing him to be so mad at her. For Virat, the fight was about their relationship, using Sai's nature as an excuse, but for Sai it was about Virat getting mad at her for doing the right thing. They just were not on the same level today. Virat has reached a level in their relationship, is expecting Sai to catch up, without talking to her calmly. He has not contemplated what he wants, he just blurts out all in an emotional outburst. Till he does not acknowledge that he expects more in this marriage in his own mind and communicate clearly to Sai, how will Sai understand what he wants? At any point today, Virat could have stopped the fight and told Sai, let this topic go, you study for your exam and we can talk later. But he wanted Sai's attention. And it is Sai's character flaw, that if someone is angry with her, she will not calm down and think what is going on with the other person. She will get equally, if not more angry at that person. But how is she going to learn anything about marriage and relationships and grow as a person if that house is a constant war zone for her not knowing where the next bullet will come from. She is in constant survival mode there. I just wished Sai moved into a hostel, at least that way Virat-Sai relationship can grow at a normal pace. That house is so toxic.
The truth is, this show lacks introspection scenes. Like the fight they had after Sai talking with Amay on the phone, what happened after the fight. They just went to sleep? They should have shown both of them lying on the bed, facing their back against each other and thinking what the other person said. Even in that fight, Virat gave all sorts of hints about what he expects in this relationship. I don't know which train the creatives of this show are trying to catch, they just show one drama after another. No halt, no pause. I don't really understand Patralekha's character. We have not seen Virat contemplate anything. Sai goes from screaming/fighting to behaving childish to screaming/fighting from one scene to another. Where is the therav in this serial? Today the episode by itself, I liked. But this week has been a big headache. Constant taunts, evil planning, angry outburst, insults, slapping, crying. Creatives really need to learn to balance drama with lightheartedness. Also after the morning episode, why did they not show Virat contemplate the morning fiasco at the police station and Sai contemplate the same in college? I feel all the characters, especially the main ones, need alone scenes in this serial. After today's fight also, will we get Sai think back to the words Virat said that she seemed to not listen at that moment in her hurt and anger. Will she acknowledge that her relationship with Virat is growing but she cannot fall in love and has to protect herself as he is not clear about his feelings for his "best friend", his family hates her and he is kind of blind to the reality of his family? Will Virat think about the treatment his family keeps on doling out at Sai and his behavior toward his mom when he calms down? Or will the creatives move on to the next Devi track? Will Virat ever remember the vaada he gave to Patraleka and get out of it? Will Virat think about all that he told Sai when they got married and how his expectations have completely changed since then? Will we get any self-introspection scene ever? Lastly, what the heck is going on in Patrlekha's mind. From the actor's expression, nothing is clear to me. Isn't she one of the main characters in this serial? Is her life goal suddenly become to be obsessed with her two day crush? The biggest failure till date of the creatives according to me is the character of Patralekha. It's like I hate her and I don't even know why. 😆
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