I think the fight was very realistic as a husband wife fight but upsetting to watch. People in anger oftem say really hurtful things to one another. but today for me, it was Virat who lost his aapaa and said a little too much in his anger. Also i thought it was unrealistic that everyone could hear it. Itnaa bhi zor se nahi lad rahe the🙄. As much as i want to understand Virats pov my heart goes out to Sai. I am very much on her side. It saddens me to see that Virat can't see what Sai has done for him. Hopefully he will realize and acknowledge it someday. She makes him smile, brings out his inner child, makes him spontaneous, reminds him of the fact that values and morals are more important than people-pleasing, she has stood by his bua when no one else did , his devi tai who was alone despite being in this large family has finally found a friend and confidante in this house , his mother has managed to find some voice which had been silenced for years. But he only sees the fights, the "tamasha" and the "badtameezi" .
He wants to be acknowledged in her life which is natural but by counting the things he has "done for her" , he is making it all seem like ehsaans and making her feel like she should be indebted to him. Does he want her to feel small in front of him and think of herself as a bojh?! Because thats how it came across. That she should conform to the behavior he expects of her because he haddone so much for her! :( I think the way he said everything has definitely really hurt Sai and she should definitely stay in silent mode for a while.
Despite all this, even though she brought her aabaa up in the conversation, Sai has NEVER reminded virat that he is alive only thanks to her fathers sacrifice. The reason shes an orphan and he is having to do all these things for her is also because her father is dead after taking a bullet for him. I think its because Sai knows that if her aabaa took a bullet for the man, he must be worthy of it. I wish Virat's aai or bua or maybe his own conscience would remind him of that one fact.
Virat used the word pyaar again today. Its clear that it affects him deeply when she reminds him that she doesn't like being in his house or when she refers to their deal waali shaadi but who can he blame but himself. Who is the one who told her she can leave after her studies? Who is the one who said he has a prior commitment and not to have any ummeed from him.
I fast forwarded all the family scenes except the virat pp scene which was also frustrating to watch. I really hope ki aage aise aur scenes NAHI milenge. PP screen time really needs to be CUT DOWN!
Really wanted a good patchup scene but we wont get it. They are just gonna move on. virat will suddenly remember that he needs to stand up for the right thing so will support Sai in the next family confrontation at the breakfast table and it'll be raat gayi baat gayi unfortunately.