New upcoming drama : toofan in chavan niwas - Page 9

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

That Amey conversation had it's sting for sure but he's not someone who'd bring it out like that in full public view. It must be something else. Let's wait 😆 now that we are being so patient and giving him his turn, it BETTER be a very good reason simply because Sai isn't fighting this one for herself. It's for his aunt.

And yess even I am ready with my loaded guns . So better virat have a valid reason .

I also feel you can't expect virat to be a saint all the time . He is constantly pulled between his family and sai in a tug of war. He has been very patient with her all these days even before marriage

So let's see !!!!!!

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

Exactly they treat her like crap. She's probably not faced such humiliation her entire life and she is only 18, she has a lot of growing up to do. And with some growth, she'll know how to deal with these people, which is what Virat wants actually. Like many said, her tone or her way of putting her point across draws the attention away from the point she is making.

Both have flaws of their own which they'll need to address in the course of time.

Exactly! Sai grew up in a house where it was only her father and on top of it she clearly has never come across people who talk to her like the chavans do. It's going to be a while before sai learns how to deal with people like chavans without putting her own image down, and even if she sweetens her tone or says nothing to them then they will stop taunting, insulting and humiliating her. The only thing sai needs to learn to deal with this is to learn to show these chakrams the mirror and giving them hard-to-counter retorts without needing to shout at them or actually argue. She actually needs to use the type of tone pakhi cleverly uses nowadays when she taunts sai or virat. That way even virat can not say to sai that she is doing badtameezi. Sai cannot be expected by anyone to not talk back to these horrid people when they attack her with insults, but sai will need to learn to be more careful with the tone she uses with these chavans who hold double standards on who gets to be badtameez merely on basis of age. 😈

Originally posted by: Ishradivani

as much as I love sai I can't support her in everything she does. She really needs to learn which battles to pick. And she also needs to understand even though her every point is as true as fire her tone and language is what is putting her in negative light. Had she done everything in right tone no one could ever dare to speak against her.

And yess even I am ready with my loaded guns . So better virat have a valid reason .

I also feel you can't expect virat to be a saint all the time . He is constantly pulled between his family and sai in a tug of war. He has been very patient with her all these days even before marriage

So let's see !!!!!!

Completely with you on that 👍🏼 I think his whole need to keep reminding Sai about 'pesh aana' comes from the fact that her choice of words ends up making her look like the bully when she's not. The whole thing about Instigation vs Over-reaction. And even if she's right, she ends up being in the same boat as the instigators because of her abrasive reactions. They say two wrongs don't make a right and yes TACT can also help pull down masks, give fitting replies and still be able to walk out with your head held high. But I won't like Virat giving her one-sided pravachans because if she feels alone against the 'fauj' of instigators, as part of a human instinct to survive, she will attack. Let's see how it plays out.

Originally posted by: sammy17

Such antics I could only expect from other chavans, not virat 🤢 Seriously though this pakhi has some nerve speaking bad to ashwini. And virat saying to sai not to teach me how pakhi should talk to my mother is the kind of words that pakhi would love to hear 🤢

When did he say don't teach me how Pakhi should talk to my mom? 😲

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

When did he say don't teach me how Pakhi should talk to my mom? 😲

In the video he said “don’t tell me how she should talk to my mom” so it’s probably kaku or Pakhi ..

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

When did he say don't teach me how Pakhi should talk to my mom? 😲

Originally posted by: Ishradivani

as much as I love sai I can't support her in everything she does. She really needs to learn which battles to pick. And she also needs to understand even though her every point is as true as fire her tone and language is what is putting her in negative light. Had she done everything in right tone no one could ever dare to speak against her.

And yess even I am ready with my loaded guns . So better virat have a valid reason .

I also feel you can't expect virat to be a saint all the time . He is constantly pulled between his family and sai in a tug of war. He has been very patient with her all these days even before marriage

So let's see !!!!!!

So in short virat can't expect tameez or pyaar or even civility from his family, so he has all these expectations from sai only to bare minimum watch her tone even if she wants to defend herself. He knows his family don't listen to him but he knows he can get through to sai, but in that case this shouting he did on sai should have been done in private only because he has only given more fuel to his family to behave this way with sai, and the cycle will only continue. He could have took sai into the room and yelled at sai and warned her in private that he told her to watch her tone, but by doing it in front of his family he is only giving his family the opportunity to think it is ok to insult sai the way they always do because now virat is doing it. He knows all too well how his family behave with sai even when she has said nothing to them but by doing this he has given them a free pass unintentionally. Also I feel like virat came late to the conversation to so did not hear exactly what happened and unfortunately only saw sai's badtameezi.

I think this episode will be on Tuesday or something

Originally posted by: sammy17

So in short virat can't expect tameez or pyaar or even civility from his family, so he has all these expectations from sai only to bare minimum watch her tone even if she wants to defend herself. He knows his family don't listen to him but he knows he can get through to sai, but in that case this shouting he did on sai should have been done in private only because he has only given more fuel to his family to behave this way with sai, and the cycle will only continue. He could have took sai into the room and yelled at sai and warned her in private that he told her to watch her tone, but by doing it in front of his family he is only giving his family the opportunity to think it is ok to insult sai the way they always do because now virat is doing it. He knows all too well how his family behave with sai even when she has said nothing to them but by doing this he has given them a free pass unintentionally. Also I feel like virat came late to the conversation to so did not hear exactly what happened and unfortunately only saw sai's badtameezi.

Virat has time n again went against his family for sai which he has never done in all these years. We can't belittle all that.

And yes even I feel he should talked all that in private. But I again will till monday before I take sides.

In no way I am against sai . She has all my respect . I only have objections with her tone nothing else

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Completely with you on that 👍🏼 I think his whole need to keep reminding Sai about 'pesh aana' comes from the fact that her choice of words ends up making her look like the bully when she's not. The whole thing about Instigation vs Over-reaction. And even if she's right, she ends up being in the same boat as the instigators because of her abrasive reactions. They say two wrongs don't make a right and yes TACT can also help pull down masks, give fitting replies and still be able to walk out with your head held high. But I won't like Virat giving her one-sided pravachans because if she feels alone against the 'fauj' of instigators, as part of a human instinct to survive, she will attack. Let's see how it plays out.

I started watching this for neil but now I am into gang sai . I love her much more than virat. But that doesn't mean we wil not point her mistakes out .