wud it b too out of character fr me... 😉 if i say i can understand everythg maan said.. :) :) ..
well even if i hd nt been such a maan fan... i wud hv still been able to get his pt.. :) :) ..
i believe tht to relate to, to understand n bond with someone... to feel anythg fr tht matter.. gd or bad, positive or negative.. fr a person.. u need to knw him/her first.. n as he puts it.. arpita seems too self-consious, n busy trying to please the elders... n probably forgot the very first thg abt being a wife... her husband n his wishes..
nt his needs.. not his generic needs... bt his specific needs, his specific wishes.. the little thgs... spending time together... teasing n fighting over little thgs...
generally its perceived tht if a couple fights... they r nt gd together... i believe... tht its nt the fight tht u need to focus on.. u actually need to focus on hw they mk up... if they mk up... n how gd they r together once they do tht...
i feel arpita.. in her effort to b a gd family member.. missed on these little thgs in her personal relationship...
n so i can relate to wht maan said...
i can feel the pain geet is going thru... missing yash.. hiding away frm the family to not hurt them, nt being able to b open.. ie until maan forced it all out of her :)
oh can i say one more thg... at the risk of sounding too too maan-fanatic :) ...
there r 2 ways in which u can remember the choices of ppl... one by remembering it, conciously... coz u shud do it... which i feel is how arpita remembered maan's choices abt thgs...
n the second... by remembering thm sub-conciously... coz u hv observed them too many times n so u dont need to mk an effort to memorise them... which is wht i think geet is all abt :)
i m nt saying tht arpita didnt love / care fr maan n the other family memebers... she did... bt at times... we r soo focused on doing thgs rt.. tht we forget tht missing out on a few details... bt being a little free wud mk bonds tighter...
tht is wht i felt abt arpita... she cared a lot abt everyone... bt she just cudnt ever find time to show it in the way in which it wud hv left an impact...
i kind of feel bad fr her n maan...
n taiji... i officially declare tht i hate u... if only u were real... i might hv come over to fight u... hw can u ruin ur own family's reputation just coz u hv an ulterior motive...
i hate such ppl... bt no matter how much i hate them.. they still exist...
bt i m kind of ok... here... coz i knw no matter wht she is planning.. maan is there to mk all her plans fail :) :) .. he wudnt leave geet's side :) ever :) :)
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