The Seven Year 'Hitch' [2] - Chp 11/ Pg 53 - Page 19

Originally posted by: dqno1

Kittu... where have you been... life sucks? what happened dear ... u ok?

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I told u nah...leaving forum...but it's pretty difficult for me 😭 😭 ...loads of work...nd food sucks...very bland...I miss spicy food...I miss mom tooo...mammmAaa 😭 ...how u doing da?... I miss locket tooo...say hi to noodles..ndmadhu also...I have to catch up with ur updates...will read wen time permits...don't mind. Sorry

Originally posted by: Onir

Hi kittu I hope all's fine with you.😊

Haunting??

Oops typo errors...hmmm yea...his self talks reminded me my own mistakes in my relationship too...we think we are doing perfectly...but in reality...it's not...

Btw I edited out check...

Hmm the anguish is hurting me...
Song which comes to my mind is madno from lamhaa movie...

Originally posted by: KittuPratzz

I told u nah...leaving forum...but it's pretty difficult for me 😭 😭 ...loads of work...nd food sucks...very bland...I miss spicy food...I miss mom tooo...mammmAaa 😭 ...how u doing da?... I miss locket tooo...say hi to noodles..ndmadhu also...I have to catch up with ur updates...will read wen time permits...don't mind. Sorry

You are quite bust it seems. Shifted base kya?

Originally posted by: KittuPratzz

Oops typo errors...hmmm yea...his self talks reminded me my own mistakes in my relationship too...we think we are doing perfectly...but in reality...it's not...

Btw I edited out check...

Hmm the anguish is hurting me...
Song which comes to my mind is madno from lamhaa movie...

I understood they were typos... Maan & Geet. 😊

Originally posted by: KittuPratzz

I told u nah...leaving forum...but it's pretty difficult for me 😭 😭 ...loads of work...nd food sucks...very bland...I miss spicy food...I miss mom tooo...mammmAaa 😭 ...how u doing da?... I miss locket tooo...say hi to noodles..ndmadhu also...I have to catch up with ur updates...will read wen time permits...don't mind. Sorry

Originally posted by: Onir

You are quite bust it seems. Shifted base kya?

We all miss you re 🤗

Yaaa very busy da... ..no time to eat also...yup..im in mysore now ..and have no time for myslelf...i miss u tooo.
U ppl have no idea how much I'm missing u ppl...I'm all alone here...

Originally posted by: dqno1

The journey of questions..

Yes but then that's what self contemplation is right?

Maan introspecting and you use this opportunity to fill in his character for us.

The person whose parents have given him material goods but shy on hugs kisses conversations nok jhok and masti which makes life worth living.

Yes he has had a different childhood than Geet and I wanted that to be pointed out, as then his perspective will be clearer. There are many who are like him in and around us but sometimes we fail to understand them.

Her life and her family sounds like mine. There is an abundance in her life while his has been cut and dried.

There's this difference that they need to fill in each other even now after seven years. This is now going to be a journey for them to understand this whole thing.

It is very hard for any couple to go through this and this is universal at different levels in every couple.

I struggled with this in the beginning too, not the affection part but the conversation part. It is kind of tough but you have to work hard to stay on the same page with your partner. Once you are persistent enough the routine becomes a pleasant one.

Persistence is the key word. None of them have done a Ph.D. in relations each of us will learn the fragility & strength of our bonds if we work on it. I'm not that experienced here as don't know much of a married lief but then relations are delicate & need nurturing. you need to hold onto & endure for both.

In this case Geet is equally bogged down in her responsibilities and she has not drawn out what she wants from him. She may think that she has tried everything but it is obvious that she has not. If she had it would have worked. She let it be and here in lies her biggest failure. Not that I am seeking to blame anyone here. If it does not work out, the fault is of both people, always, never just one.

I liked your viewing towards her character. It is always equal responsibility of both the persons in a relation be it failure or a success. They were somewhere falling short that has lead them here. And as I said earlier it is going to be a journey now for both.

You have the most intelligent mind of any writer I have read here. I don't say it cause you are a friend but from my reading of your characters. Lovely depth and thought process of both that you have dissected each of their grey cells and put in front of us. Waiting for you to solve it now.

Oh thanks so much Avi. These words mean a lot. Seriously! 😳 Hopefully I will be able to solve it in a better way. 😊

Thanks for updating..

Love always..🤗 Avi

Thanks so much Avi 🤗 Luv you ❤️

Originally posted by: Anu_R

nice updt
loved it

Thanks! 😊

Originally posted by: KittuPratzz

Yaaa very busy da... ..no time to eat also...yup..im in mysore now ..and have no time for myslelf...i miss u tooo.
U ppl have no idea how much I'm missing u ppl...I'm all alone here...

Hmm lief sometimes makes it so difficult na. No worries this will too pass soon. 😊

Originally posted by: Onir

I understood they were typos... Maan & Geet.😊

Each one of us have faced such situations in life or will face in future. Its sometimes that we don't realise it. But the its never the fault of one both the persons in the relation have to do their bit & are equally responsible. Reality is much harsher that's why we always want to escape for some time into a world with less of it.

Sorry to make you feel so.

That's one very soulful song.

Hey it's okay...hmmm u r very emotional...nd I love ur analysis...that's y I said...u think very deeply...nd I feel that pain nd love tooo...the harsh reality is what we don't want to face it...may be because of we know Abt the results... or we know that we are very weak to face it... how much ever it's an equal share in any relatioship...still we blame ourselves for Faust...as if we have done grave mistake...but it hurts...