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Posted: 14 years ago
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agree totally..have seen my mom giving silent tratement to my papa a lot of times...infact when I am angry with my brother,I also do the same..I wont talk to him until he comes and manao me!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bul3

agree totally..have seen my mom giving silent tratement to my papa a lot of times...infact when I am angry with my brother,I also do the same..I wont talk to him until he comes and manao me!!

thanks dear ....
U R right bul bul ...... that's wht happens in real life .....
U use this on ur bro .....😆gud gud .......
all men need to know tht & understand that women are delicate & need to be handled with care ......😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Bang on Hima... you are right... And this is really close to reality... I'm glad the Geet team is showing it... not everything between a husband and a wife is perfect alwasy.... Its their imperfections with one another and the way they handle it, that makes them perfect with one another..... Besides i liked what you said... A wife can only behave that way with his hubby no this padosi 😉 Every girl definitely wants to be treated as princess with her prince charming... 😊 Excellent post dear...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i am master at giving silent treatment,so i fully support geet .seeing epi so many ideas were coming in my mind ki maan to pagal hee ho jata😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Azmatazz

Bang on Hima... you are right... And this is really close to reality... I'm glad the Geet team is showing it... not everything between a husband and a wife is perfect alwasy.... Its their imperfections with one another and the way they handle it, that makes them perfect with one another..... Besides i liked what you said... A wife can only behave that way with his hubby no this padosi 😉 Every girl definitely wants to be treated as princess with her prince charming... 😊 Excellent post dear...

thanks azzi....
yes .... azzi ......very close to reality naa ......me 2 loved geet's naaraz gi ....
thanks dear ...the padosi wala dialogue I often use with my hubby using it since the past 8 years 😆😆😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sanjh1234

i am master at giving silent treatment,so i fully support geet .seeing epi so many ideas were coming in my mind ki maan to pagal hee ho jata😆

sanjh .... me 2 dear .... very gud at silent treatment ...so full support to geet .....
I would love to read ur ideas ...... so when are u posting them ....
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Posted: 14 years ago
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If I was married, I would tell my husband if he was in the wrong. You are right that anger is the root of problem, sometimes we say things in anger but if i am in the wrong, I am happy to apologise.

I would not want to stay angry for long as life is too precious to stay angry with each other for a long time.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Agreed but I also loved the fact that they showed she was only pretending to be mad... I am like that. I pretend to be mad all the time...
But one thing is different in my relationship with hubby is that we talk about death all the time... we joke about death... we take it lightly... we say this to each other all the time "Mere jaane ke baad aisa karna ...Mere jaane ke baad waisa karna ..." and we always fight about who will go first!!!
So for us this kind of overreaction would not have happend.. but that's just me... Most people would react differently!!! Geet scolding him and pretending to be mad at him is completely acceptable.. Pati ko kabhi kabhi maza chakhana relationship ke liye zaroori hota hai...
The only part I didn't like about that whole scene was when she said "aap badal gaye ho" - I 100% disagree with that extreme statement.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: dtri

Agreed but I also loved the fact that they showed she was only pretending to be mad... I am like that. I pretend to be mad all the time...

But one thing is different in my relationship with hubby is that we talk about death all the time... we joke about death... we take it lightly... we say this to each other all the time "Mere jaane ke baad aisa karna ...Mere jaane ke baad waisa karna ..." and we always fight about who will go first!!!
So for us this kind of overreaction would not have happend.. but that's just me... Most people would react differently!!! Geet scolding him and pretending to be mad at him is completely acceptable.. Pati ko kabhi kabhi maza chakhana relationship ke liye zaroori hota hai...
The only part I didn't like about that whole scene was when she said "aap badal gaye ho" - I 100% disagree with that extreme statement.

The situation what U & Ur hubby were talking is different dear ...... U both were more jovial while discussing & if maan & geet were in that situation they would ahve reacted in the same way ........
But in GHSP the situation is totally different ........ what ever maan said was in anger ....... he was not kidding to her ....... so any wife / the person who loves U would react in the same way .......just like the way geet did .......
when she said that dialogue ....that u r not the same maan ...
she felt that way only for that moment & reason is ......
his hatred for dev was surpassing his love for geet & their baby .....& when he uttered about death ...... he just thought about himself ....... forgot about geet & their baby at that moment .... forgot that how would they survive if anything happens to him .......
if U remember that ......he wa the person who always said ....... that .... death can never touch you & you will not have any problem in life as long as i am with you .... geet was keeping those words in mind ....... not anything else ......
that's the reason geet said those words to maan & maan instantly realised that he was at fault for hating dev tooo much that he forgot about geet & their baby ..........
hope it explains about maan & geet's behaviour .........
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: divareena

If I was married, I would tell my husband if he was in the wrong. You are right that anger is the root of problem, sometimes we say things in anger but if i am in the wrong, I am happy to apologise.

I would not want to stay angry for long as life is too precious to stay angry with each other for a long time.

thanks reena .......U R abs right dear .... who ever is at fault needs to apologise ......& sort out matters before they g out of control ...........

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