Annie's Diary: My life; My Times - Upd - Page 3

This is the second time I'm trying this (Man, my compy knows I hate her)

Awesome post Bri

Ok so before I start, I need to stay this.

I am not fond of NE, coz of her inexplicable entry in the show, but I talked myself into thinking she is his distant cousin(I have one imaginative and generally useless brain)

I have been heaping praises on her at very occasion...but thats misplaced anger.

Having gotten that off my conscience...I will now proceed with my worthless two cents(I seriously need to get a new line, this is getting repetitive to the point no one believes it anymore)

As far as what she did was right or wrong...getting carried away in the heat of the moment does happen. I will not judge her based on that.

Should NEB(arright although it hurts me)...Arjun turn out to be like sure shot Dev and get it right/wrong based on how you look like at it.

1)I think its the lady's prerogative, after all she will be the one to bear the joy, the consequence or the burden, whichever you want to call it.

2)I wasn't watching Geet when the bad stuff happened to her, I started watching in July and according to me her having Maan in her life gave her and the baby a fighting chance. I am not casting aspersions on a woman's ability to look after herself. So don't get upset.

3)For NE its different, she comes from a well to do, sophisticated family who has a loving ,supportive grandma and Bhabhi now. A hotheaded but loving brother so she has a good support system ,whatever her decision maybe. My POV. Peace, people🤗

God, I rambled...sorry.

While i dont understand why she did not insist on protection I need to think abt this post

SHe could

1)Abort

2) Deliver and put it up for adoption and that way not give Arjun his paternal rights

I dont think it is practical to have the kid ..but let me think and write on my points in detail

Annie's entry outside the mall had a reason behind it and I now get the meaning behind Cvs giving such an entry which started with a tiff with Geet(who was modern in thoughts yet knew where to draw a line) while Annie had commented that Indian traditions are the reason why girls and women still lag behind. She's made to eat her own words. Rather her modern thoughts will give her a jolt for the hastiness. What happened with Geet is fake marriage by NRI, with Annie's its pre-marital sex.

The folly that Annie made was that she should have waited! It can be repaired if she fights back and slams Arjun!

18 year olds sleeping with their boyfriends or someone they love is not unheard of in today's society. I am someone with slightly conservative opinions and hence will not get into whether I think it correct or not. But, I certainly have nothing against anyone who makes this decision for themselves.

Geet and Anne's lives cannot be compared for the simple fact that their experiences are different, their backgrounds are different. Geet is from a small town where even talking to another man in public is taboo. Geet thought she was married to the man she was sleeping with. She did not know she was being cheated. But Anne made a conscious decision for herself.

The thing I have against Anne's judgement is just this. She was told by Maan and Geet that Arjun was Naintara's brother, the Naintara who had wronged their family badly. Maan had explicitly told her to stay away from Arjun. Geet had informed her that Maan cannot stand Arjun. If I were Anne and had a brother like Maan who hated my boyfriend whom I love, I would have first tried to win my brother's confidence for my boyfriend before taking such a huge step, wouldn't you? I would have thought it apt for Anne not to go and sleep with Arjun on the night of Maan and Geet's wedding. She loves her brother. He is her rockstar. But she was thinking just about herself on his wedding? People attempted to murder Geet. Shouldn't she have been more concerned for Geet's life?

Maybe my problem is that I don't believe in blind love. Being in love should not make you this irresponsible (I am referring to her totally ignoring Maan and Geet at a time when they needed her).

Like Priti said, if Annie knew that Arjun has a casanova image, she had seen him flirting with Taasha earlier, seen his I listen to noone attitude, she should have thought twice before submitting completely. That's the reason why we dont sympathize with her, unlike Geet who had no idea that her husband would abandon her at the airport the very next day! When her brother and SIL had warned her to be careful, she shouldn't have been hasty.