#Devil's Den#: Mr.SeeEEEoo becomes TailorMaan!

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shanta

@shali

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Posted: 14 years ago

#1131

No it's only the phera's cant be taken....the rest off the rituale can be.....yaar even my sis got married like that...

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DancinFireflies

@DancinFireflies

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Posted: 14 years ago

#1132

hi maliha.......🤗

intresting discussion.........😆

@all............it is really true that preggy women cant take pheras.......if yes WHY🤔

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Arwen11

@Arwen11

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Posted: 14 years ago

#1133

@All - I hope the CVs are aware of this snag 😕 i think they are waise 😕 may be thats why maan emphasize on a wedding with all the rituals like Opti said 😕

@Shali ... what's the problem with pheras? and how can there is a wedding without the pheras 😕

i dont know much about Hindu religion other than what is shown on screen 😆

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Opti

@Opti

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Posted: 14 years ago

#1134

Shali, if the pheras cant be taken it is not a marriage recognised under the Hindu Marriage Act. The most important part is the phera taking - not the sindoor and mangalsutra.

Maaneet can have a court marriage if this becomes an issue.

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-pixie-

@-pixie-

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Posted: 14 years ago

#1135

Arwen: Every community has their own customs and traditions and they vary from region to region in India. For example, in my community we infact have only 4 pheras and not 7. 7 promises are recited but you go around the fire only 4 times😆. You can blame Yash Chopra for commercialization of weddings. The actual wedding is solemnized before the pheras begin. Kanyadan marks the completion of those set of rituals. I am guessing Punjabi customs should be similar to this.

I was not aware of not taking pheras because you are pregnant ritual- but then I do not anyone know who was pregnant when they got married sooooo😆

Then you have arya samaj weddings where I haven't seen any pheras happening either- but then the wedding will not be grand at all.The essence is the simplicity of the wedding.

I think the only key requirement is that fire be witness to the wedding- pheras are more about the promises and the understanding of patni dharma and pati dharma. Actually they are quite interesting- The wife actually has all the upside and very little of the downside😆

Edited by -pixie- - 14 years ago

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spshastr

@spshastr

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Posted: 14 years ago

#1136

I dont think there is any such rule and even if it is I dont think CVS will make a big deal out of it.. So chill everyone marriage will happen..😃 so many movies have shown this marriage of pregnant women etc.. where did u read this ?

Edited by spshastr - 14 years ago

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-pixie-

@-pixie-

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Posted: 14 years ago

#1137

Arwen: There you go...no two people will agree 😆

Opti: Are you sure?

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shanta

@shali

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Posted: 14 years ago

#1138

@all...

I dont know much about the rituals but only this...a pregnant woman can't take phera's cause otherwise the baby will be married to the man too...

marraige can take place but then without the phera's....don't ask more...cause how /why I just dont know....

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spshastr

@spshastr

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Posted: 14 years ago

#1139

Arwen, Opti , shali let us give them the cinematic liberty to show the marriage.. let us not go too much into rules etc..😃 and let us now change this topic before stalkers catch on to it

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Opti

@Opti

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Posted: 14 years ago

#1140

Shraddha: This is what I found in the net

Section 7 of the Act:

Ceremonies for a Hindu marriage.- (1) A Hindu marriage may be solemnized in accordance with the customary rites and ceremonies of either party thereto.

(2) Where such rites and ceremonies include the Saptapadi (that is, the taking of seven steps by the bridegroom and the bride jointly before the sacred fire), the marriage becomes complete and binding when the seventh step is taken.

Well, the customs and ceremonies is a vague term here. So it is still ambiguous but they do mention the saptapadi explicitly.

Edited by Opti - 14 years ago

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