Question for ya...

I have some questions and would like honest answers...

1. Would Maan's behavior have been the same was Dev to ruin some other girl's life whom he (Maan) didn't love?
Sure Maan would be angry and cold to Dev, but would the degree be same if it wasn't Geet who turns out to be his lady love? I'm not so sure. Maan's behavior towards Dev is the effect of him being the witness of the hardships Geet has been through. So I don't think he would have been same were it some stranger.

2. If Meera was our friend or loved one, would we allow her to share a life with Dev?
We have seen Dev regret and seek forgiveness for his heinous deeds which is why many of us may have become softer and are actually looking forward to Dev-Meera love track. But let's get real. Would we feel the same if Meera were our friend and was about to share a life with someone who has an evil wife and who had ruined another girl's life and slept with her?

3. Are NT's sins any different than Dev's?
Just because Dev is repenting for what he did, does not make NT a bigger evil. With what authority is he yelling at NT? Sure, he did not stoop as low as her to plot risking someone's life, but what he did cannot be forgiven either. So why is it that we hate NT more than Dev? Just because he is helping Maan-Geet? Would it be the same for us if he wasn't helping Maan-Geet and was only repenting?

No offense meant. I have just been wondering around these issue were they to happen in real.

Dol, agree to your views especially Q1 & 2. Q3 has been discussed ceaselessly. Just bcoz Dev is shown to be repenting and helping Maaneet, his bad deeds are somehow negated in our eyes.

Originally posted by: dolphinUSA

I have some questions and would like honest answers...

1. Would Maan's behavior have been the same was Dev to ruin some other girl's life whom he (Maan) didn't love?
Sure Maan would be angry and cold to Dev, but would the degree be same if it wasn't Geet who turns out to be his lady love? I'm not so sure. Maan's behavior towards Dev is the effect of him being the witness of the hardships Geet has been through. So I don't think he would have been same were it some stranger.

2. If Meera was our friend or loved one, would we allow her to share a life with Dev?
We have seen Dev regret and seek forgiveness for his heinous deeds which is why many of us may have become softer and are actually looking forward to Dev-Meera love track. But let's get real. Would we feel the same if Meera were our friend and was about to share a life with someone who has an evil wife and who had ruined another girl's life and slept with her?

3. Are NT's sins any different than Dev's?
Just because Dev is repenting for what he did, does not make NT a bigger evil. With what authority is he yelling at NT? Sure, he did not stoop as low as her to plot risking someone's life, but what he did cannot be forgiven either. So why is it that we hate NT more than Dev? Just because he is helping Maan-Geet? Would it be the same for us if he wasn't helping Maan-Geet and was only repenting?

No offense meant. I have just been wondering around these issue were they to happen in real.

1. yes, maan behavior would have been same.

just becasue dev is feeling guilty doesnt mean he needs to be forgive, and both him and NT are equally to be blamed and as for meera i wouldnt want her to be anywhere near dev at all

Dol, Good questions.

Q1) I think Maan will still be angry with Dev and wouldn't have forgiven him if it was another girl. But, the pain he himself undergoes would not have been so intense. At present, he is more emotionally invested in it because he has not only been a witness to Geet's predicaments but also is madly in love with her.

Q2) Even now, I do not support Dev hooking up with Meera, and if it were my friend, then I would have definitely tried to knock some sense into her even if she considers it intrusive.

Q3) No. NT's sins are no different from Dev's. Some sins can never be corrected. No amount of remorse from Dev can give Geet back the life and innocence that he stole from her. Only difference is that NT with no remorse can cause more lasting harm than Dev with remorse. The only difference is how they can effect the future. The past can never be changed or nullified.

its not in Maan's nature to forgive something wrong done against an innocent.... and he never expected anything like that from his brother... but the girl he met, fell in love with, had been so badly wronged... and that too by his brother... so his anger become a million times worse...but even if it was someone on the street, Maan would never have forgiven Dev...