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Sakshi

@SakshiGarg

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

#101

u know i have been saying this again n again to every1...........u consider urself at maan's place n then give the judgement yaar...... oh banda har tarf se phasa hua hai....... ek taraf PYAAR..... ek taraf BHAI..... ek taraf DADI KI HEALTH........ ek taraf FAMILY REPUTATION.........out of all this he chose his love..........but wat he got.... today he is left wid nothing.... na pyaar.... na bhai..... aur reputation to waise bhi kharab ho hi gyi............. guyys i agree he was a bit violent but dats bcoz he is hurt...... n kal k epi ke baad to its very clear dat he is feeling guilty 4 dat..... then y to hate him??? y to bash him???? think guyys???

its not MSK or GEET who r wrong...........its the situation..... they both r ryt on their part!!!!

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-Blossy-

@-Blossy-

Inactive

Posted: 14 years ago

#102

Originally posted by: SakshiGarg
u know i have been saying this again n again to every1...........u consider urself at maan's place n then give the judgement yaar...... oh banda har tarf se phasa hua hai....... ek taraf PYAAR..... ek taraf BHAI..... ek taraf DADI KI HEALTH........ ek taraf FAMILY REPUTATION.........out of all this he chose his love..........but wat he got.... today he is left wid nothing.... na pyaar.... na bhai..... aur reputation to waise bhi kharab ho hi gyi............. guyys i agree he was a bit violent but dats bcoz he is hurt...... n kal k epi ke baad to its very clear dat he is feeling guilty 4 dat..... then y to hate him??? y to bash him???? think guyys???
its not MSK or GEET who r wrong...........its the situation..... they both r ryt on their part!!!!

Okay first of all what Dev did was absolutely wrong and he deserved what he got, so no questions there.

As for family reputation, jab Dev ne kaam hi aisa kiya hai toh there are bound to be wild speculations and I am very sure that Dadi's health will improve when she see's that Maan and Geet are together.

When you say that let's see this situation from Maan's side then I suggest you slip into Geet's shoes for once.

Her trust has been broken and by the same mans brother. Agreed that she should have confronted him but realistically would it ever have been possible!

Her confidence was loose but you can't exactly blame her for that can you?

The way MK forced Geet to Dance with him was WRONG and I don't think that being hurt gives him the right to manhandle her.

Its tough ,really, to not be judgemental when you are in the situation.

I don't hate Maan but what he did was wrong!

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whitepearl

@whitepearl

Voyager

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

#103

I am in full support for Maan....

I do not hate Geet

but

I do not understand her logics.

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Rituparnaa

@Rituparnaa

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 14 years ago

#104

Originally posted by: crazilycrazy
What he did to her was something which had hurt her beyond what any slap could! Remember when he made her count his ehsaans on her? And when he said circus khatam huha guys and when he made her dance with him like a freaking rag doll?

Let us have a constructive criticism here coz I never bliv in fighting over POVs and putting innumerable posts on that.Tell me how he felt when she accused of a planned marr in front of media?That was more than that what he did.And I think u r forgetting that she too offered her hands for dance but he didnt take hers and went with that partygal.(Hope next time CVs will get a proper match for MSK!)So even she was ready for it like Kurbaan Hua seq!

And he never counted his ehsaans for her and he was just trying to convince her that he loves her without any Makshad!But I think like Geet you too misunderstood that line.And morever he never hurted her in public which he could have easily done the day she did in front of media.Then its nt him who pushed her into the pool.But still he cared.And by circus khatam hua he meant himself also.So Maan is more HURT than anyone else.And I just wonder why ppl think that he counts the ehesaans.....geet should remember that always.I dont say that since he did all these for her she needs to love him but defo needs to be thankful/respectful.Thats a human trait.And if she was still so confused then should have nt shown all those day dreams of promises of love and stay together to him !So here I should stop!I love his char and try to understand his behaviour.Thats it.And am with him !

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-Blossy-

@-Blossy-

Inactive

Posted: 14 years ago

#105

Originally posted by: Rituparnaa

Let us have a constructive criticism here coz I never bliv in fighting over POVs and putting innumerable posts on that.Tell me how he felt when she accused of a planned marr in front of media?That was more than that what he did.And I think u r forgetting that she too offered her hands for dance but he didnt take hers and went with that partygal.(Hope next time CVs will get a proper match for MSK!)So even she was ready for it like Kurbaan Hua seq!

And he never counted his ehsaans for her and he was just trying to convince her that he loves her without any Makshad!But I think like Geet you too misunderstood that line.And morever he never hurted her in public which he could have easily done the day she did in front of media.Then its nt him who pushed her into the pool.But still he cared.And by circus khatam hua he meant himself also.So Maan is more HURT than anyone else.And I just wonder why ppl think that he counts the ehesaans.....geet should remember that always.I dont say that since he did all these for her she needs to love him but defo needs to be thankful/respectful.Thats a human trait.And if she was still so confused then should have nt shown all those day dreams of promises of love and stay together to him !So here I should stop!I love his char and try to understand his behaviour.Thats it.And am with him !

Okay he did make her count his "ehsaan's" on her and remember his statement "Mein bhi dekhta hoon ki tum mere bagaar kaise rehti ho Geet?"

What does this statement imply?

After what Geet had heard of Dadi and Maan's little chat it was only logical on her part to assume that he did have ulterior motive's behind his actions, was it not?

You can say that he did it out of hurt, sure but what about Geet. I don't think that she is as happy as Mary Poppins right now!

I still don't understand why he manhandled her the way he did and not please don't excuse this one saying that he was hurt cause really he's hurt so why not hurt her too? Maan's character has been shown as agressive from the start but really this was not him.

It was ridiculous. Geet was wrong for not confroning him about her misconceptions but so was Maan.....

Geet still loves him and her "day dreams" are infact a proof of the fact that deep down she doesn't really believe that he has betrayed her.

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Rhaynukaa

@Rhaynukaa

Inactive

Posted: 14 years ago

#106

I think it is about opinion, you think her blabbing to the media was terrible, I think Maan dragging Geet out of that office with everyone watching her was equally harsh - and was public humiliation - he pulled her and throws her out in front of the entire office. Hey after that I would have said something to the press too - mainly cos I would have been so dam upset. He didn't help the situation and considering that he is supposed to be maturer, older and wiser he really didn't use his brain.

She offered her hand to dance with him but that was in the originally dance, later when they are outside she makes no gesture that she wants to dance. He forcefully dances with her even though she makes it clear that she wants to go, she wants to be left alone and she tries to walk away. In fact that is what Geet usually does - walks away. It is Maan who simply cannot take rejection. She slapped him cos that was the only way to make him get off her. She was the first one to say sorry (though I don't know why she had to go and do that, he deserved the slap!) but all the same she felt it was wrong and tries to apologies. I don't get why plp think her slap is completely wrong but that it's okay that he kips yanking and pulling her arm and pinning her down as he deems fit - it really does show just how possessive he is of her and the inequalities that we allow in relationships. Maan has helped her but that does not mean that Maan can do no wrong, he is not a God, just another human who can make mistakes.

I wish they would show Geet as a more confident woman for crying out loud, someone who had more assurance and confidence in what she does.

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Sakshi

@SakshiGarg

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

#107

i never said dat geet is wrong........i personally believe dat both of them r ryt in their part.......but if if dev had commited sumthing wrong dat doesnt mean dat u punish maan 4 it..........i mean come on yaar how can u be so heartless ki tum media ke samne , office staff ke samne usko uss galti ke liye insult karo jo usne nhi ki.......i m not blaming geet .....i agree she has already suffered a lot to trust any1......... but widout knowing anything jst making a judgement abt a person n dat too the person who helped her selflessly at every point!!! i agree he forced her to dance but dat doesnt mean u hate him........dat is the way he showed dat he cares wat geet thinks...... dat is d way he showed dat he cares if geet is upset wid him......dat is d way he showed he is affected by her every step..........n dat is d way MSk is!!!!

Originally posted by: crazilycrazy
Okay first of all what Dev did was absolutely wrong and he deserved what he got, so no questions there.

As for family reputation, jab Dev ne kaam hi aisa kiya hai toh there are bound to be wild speculations and I am very sure that Dadi's health will improve when she see's that Maan and Geet are together.

When you say that let's see this situation from Maan's side then I suggest you slip into Geet's shoes for once.

Her trust has been broken and by the same mans brother. Agreed that she should have confronted him but realistically would it ever have been possible!

Her confidence was loose but you can't exactly blame her for that can you?

The way MK forced Geet to Dance with him was WRONG and I don't think that being hurt gives him the right to manhandle her.

Its tough ,really, to not be judgemental when you are in the situation.

I don't hate Maan but what he did was wrong!

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-Blossy-

@-Blossy-

Inactive

Posted: 14 years ago

#108

^^^Sakshi Garg

Its human nature to be judgemental Sakshi! Specially when you are a part of the situation, can you ever give an objective view in a situation when you yourself are tangled up in it?

Maan gave back as good as he got, did he not?

Call it his self respect but really what he did was because of his ego

There is a limit to which you can blame his actions on hurt...

Dragging her outta the office was understandable but making her dance with him like that was not!

You called me heart less...well if pointing out something which is against Maan makes me heartless so be it!

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Nav

@Sweet_Lovely

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

#109

OMG ...Guys ...Good Morning😊

Its like you can't even go to sleep and leave the forum unattended at night😆😆

Okay realx ...i seriously don't want u guys to get into serious arguments as i said in my topic no Geet bashing here and no Maan bashing as well pls....its a request ..bcoz that was the main purpose of my post that DO NOT bash anyone...just be patient

PS after reading all the posts...i agree that Maan also was wrong...he did make a mistake ..i wouldn't call that manhandling,cheap and rapist though bcoz all those terms are serious in their own meaning than whatever Maan did....okay if he has the right to show his love for Geet then he also has the right to express his anger...i knw some had said that what if in real life someone treats u like this ....so i would say....sometimes things happen in ur life and u DO have to compromise as well so that u don't break ur realtionship ...it is reality...i am not supporting violence ...but some minor things can be and need to be compromised in reality ...otherwise divorce rate would be 99%.

Also as far as Geet's Independence is concerned...i would like her to be independent but not @ the cost of her love...bcoz being independent is good but u do need emotions,love,someone's support in your life to survive

Thanks for all of ur views😊

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