Separation indicates good things!

Who remembers this dialogue?

Maan : "Jab tum kisi cheez ki liye rhutke inkar karte ho toh..."

Geet : "Toh?"

Maan : "Toh dil ki aur kareeb ajati ho"


I'm sure the meaning behind it very obvious, but let me explain in case you did not understand it.

Every time Maan and Geet get into an argument, they get back together more closer than before. Every fiasco that has ever happened has brought them together on a more deeper level than the last. I'm sure you know what situations I'm speaking of, but here is an example; Maan and Geet argue because Maan is too possessive. What happens after that argument? We get "Roop tere mastana" sequence. Even Maan knows this fact about their relationship, so why don't you guys? You see the entire picture don't you? On Friday's episode they had the biggest fight and when they get back together they will reunite more stronger than ever.

And please stop playing the blame game. Maan and Geet were both wrong in the situation. Maan is not perfect, he was extremely rude and condescending to Geet. Geet is a naive 18 year old who has taken too much for anyone her age to bear.

First and foremost, to understand what happened between Maan and Geet in the episode, you must understand their psyche. You cannot blame Geet without blaming Maan and vice versa. Anyone who thought Maan was an epitome of perfection or even their relationship for that matter, can throw that out of their minds. They have always had serious issues within themselves and their relationship.

Neither Geet nor Maan was "right" or "wrong" on Friday. They are both equally to blame and justified.

Geet was wrong

- She misjudged the situation without hearing Maan out.

- She did not trust in the man whom she claimed to trust more than herself.

- She went about handling the situation unwisely. Her spur of the moment decision to confront Maan was nave. She confronts him and wants answers, however does not let him speak. She knows she loves him more than anything, yet she doesn't give him a chance to explain himself. She goes on with words she will regret instead of thinking about the meaning of their relationship.

Geet was right

- She was ignorant to the entire truth. Her eyes and ears deceived her.

- Geet has a hard time trusting people. May it be Maan or anyone else. She has been deceived too many times and therefore sometimes is unable to see past it.

Maan was wrong

- Maan was extremely rude and insulting to her.

- Instead of clarifying the situation to her, he lets his ego and pride do the talking.

- He is so full of himself he thinks she can't survive without him. How can someone as "perfect" as Maan challenge the women he claims as his "zindagi" that way? Maan Singh Khurana should learn to leave his pride behind when it comes to his lady love (unless he wants to be proud of HER). This has always been a huge flaw in Maan.

Maan was right

- Geet should have had much more faith in Maan. His question is "What is the need for me to answer why I want to marry her? She should know. I have proved myself many times over."

Maan and Geet's biggest flaw is they are very emotional. They let their anger and pride run them before their logical minds. Both of them are sentimental and "jasbadi". They were irrational and harsh in that moment. All's fair in love and war. But regret will seep in so soon that all that pride and anger will disappear in to pain and suffering. Their rationality will be back. Their relationship is at crossroads (literally depicted in the epi on Friday); how they grow and work on this relationship through all this is what matters.

Everyone should be PROUD of Geet, because she has finally begun her journey on her own. This show is Geet - Hui Sabse Parayee. It is about her journey and grow th. If she does not leave Maan for sometime, she cannot create an identity of her own. We know he is over protective and possessive, he would not let her lift a finger. Geet is an inspiration to many women who have suffered a similar fate, so by insulting her you insult their emotions. So STOP!

so true....takrar pyar badhata hai!!!!

Originally posted by: mi7chimes

huh Annn!! i just dont get it... how much moreeee kareeeeeb-ness do tey need to do it!!!😡🤣

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Now that is beyond my expertise. Ask the CV's.

completely agree.....this separation is only going to get them closer.......and then we'll have the much awaited CON.....😆

but seriously i for one really like this track.......there is so much to look forward to......👍🏼

very well said ann.....👍🏼
also i was seeing the hospital ki lift scene...where MSK says to geet...where ever you will go, i will find you...😃
so obviously he isnt staying away from her for very long...

Ann, excellent post, I knew your take would be worth waiting for

Agree with you on everything 👍🏼

Also in order for a relationship to survive long term and fluorish the partners have to be equals. Maan has always had the upper hand and he clearly showed that he thinks that. Geet has to prove herself in his eyes.

Also Geet has always put Maan up on a pedestal saying he can do nothing wrong. Geet needs to stop worshipping Maan and start treating him as a person.

Both need to understand each other and also the fact that they really love each other. Their love has never really been tested. This is the test for their love. When they reunite they will have a new found respect for each other and what the other means to them.

Maan will realize that all Geet needs is his support while she fights her own battles. She does not need him to fight her battles. He will realize that this woman has an iron core and start appreciating her. He needs to realize that he needs Geet as much as she needs him. Infact maybe even more.

Geet will realize that Maan is a great person especially when she interacts with Yash who is irresponsible.

This separation is all good and they will come back together with more passion than ever. 😃

Couldn't have said it better Ann u spoke ma heart out specially da blame game bit

Originally posted by: liv2laugh

Agree with you on everything 👍🏼

Also in order for a relationship to survive long term and fluorish the partners have to be equals. Maan has always had the upper hand and he clearly showed that he thinks that. Geet has to prove herself in his eyes.

Also Geet has always put Maan up on a pedestal saying he can do nothing wrong. Geet needs to stop worshipping Maan and start treating him as a person.

Both need to understand each other and also the fact that they really love each other. Their love has never really been tested. This is the test for their love. When they reunite they will have a new found respect for each other and what the other means to them.

Maan will realize that all Geet needs is his support while she fights her own battles. She does not need him to fight her battles. He will realize that this woman has an iron core and start appreciating her. He needs to realize that he needs Geet as much as she needs him. Infact maybe even more.

Geet will realize that Maan is a great person especially when she interacts with Yash who is irresponsible.

This separation is all good and they will come back together with more passion than ever. 😃

Very well said! 👍🏼 👍🏼