Ego..Self Respect..Pain & Tears..Thoughts-29/10!!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey people...I know & I'am aware that most of you in the forum are sad, even I'am one among them....After seeing yesterday's (29/10) episode I just had tears in my eyes...Sach kahoon tho samaj mein hii nahii aaya kii kya karoon..After seeing misunderstandings crop up between Maan & Geet once again, the only thought that was running on my mind was 'No This Just Cannot Be Happening'....For a few seconds I just could not believe what was happening...According to me it was really a heart-wrenching episode....But after seeing the episodes I actually felt that no one is to be blamed, Neither Geet, Nor Maan are at fault... Shayad Maan aur Geet kii ghalthi yeh hai kii woh dono ek dusare se beintahaan pyaar karthe hai...Unki ghalthi shayad yeh hai that one trust the other rather too blindly...Lekin sachche pyaar mein yeh sab tho hona hii hai na...Immense love for one other, blind faith these are all just indications of true love..Mujhe aisa lagtha hai kii joh hua na usmein Maan kii ghalthi thi aur na hii Geet kii, it was just the circumstances which led to all the misunderstandings...I know many of you feel that either Maan is at fault or Geet is at fault, but my opinion differs & this is because....First of all we have always known that Geet is a women of Self Respect, All her life Geet has been controlled by the orthodox men at her home....Lekin ab jab Maan tells Geet what all he has done for her, at the spur of the moment, Geet may have surely felt like Maan usse, uske kiye hue ehsaan jata raha hai...I know what Geet must have felt because just for instance in a day-to-day life when someone close to you tells things like I have done so many things for you, in anger sometimes one tends to loose his/her cool...That too a women like Geet, for whom her self respect & self esteem values a lot, especially after the cheats & frauds she has been through in her life....Though Geet questions Maan about Dev being bailed out, But Maan does not give her a proper answer, rather his ego comes in between...I find no fault in Maan too, as somewhere in his heart Maan knows that by bailing out Dev, he is being unfair & doing injustice to Geet..Maan does not want to be vulnerable of his guilt so his ego over shadows his love....Geet ko Maan samaj nahii paathi aur Maan ko Geet nahii samaj paa rahii hai...Maan ka telling Geet that he has done so much for her, well pyaar mein yeh baat kidar se aagayi..He just has his ego, kyunke he feels Geet has not understood him....Later press ke saamne joh Geet ne baat kahi, ya uske baad Maan ne kahii, both were uncalled for...Jahaan Geet ne Maan ko press ke saamne baatein kehkar chot pihanchayi , Geet said those things because of her self respect & also because she just did not want to be ruled over by men, like in her family...Aur Maan ne joh ek baat kahii that now even he would see how Geet would survive in the city without him, this shows his ego....Yeh kya baat hui..Sach kahoon tho being a women of today I don't like men who give such statements...But Maan ne joh kuch kaha it was only a reaction for Geet's statement to the press...They are just trying to get back at each other for the pain they are feeling, but at present both are failing to realize that in love if one is hurt then automatically the other is in pain.....I know that Geet ne press ke saamne joh bhi kaha, ya Maan ne Geet se joh bhi kaha, both don't even mean a minus one percentage of all those things....But still they have said so many things which are hurting to each other....Shayad jab thak Maan aur Geet ko yeh ehsaas ho what exactly have they said to each other, tab jaake they will realize what has happened...In anger they have said the most spiteful things for each other, lekin sach baat tho yahii hai na, kii hum humara ghussa unhii parr nikaalthe hai jisse hum pyaar karthe hai, joh humare dil ke kareeb hotha hai, Maan aur Geet ne bhi wohii kiya...Bhale hii ghalatfaimiyaan Maan aur Geet ke beech ho, lekin asar unke pyaar par ho raha hai, woh pyaar joh unke jeene kii wajah hai.....I hope Maan, Geet realize what exactly do they mean for each other, before it is too late....Hmm...Waise shayad these misunderstandings were rather necessary, kyunke kehthe hai na ladayi se pyaar badtha hai, kya patah Maan aur Geet ke saath bhi yahii ho jaaye....hehehe.......I hope that these misunderstandings between Maan, Geet don't get dragged for long, maximum for 4 or 5 episodes bas...Waise I had a weird idea guys for the misunderstandings to disapear, I think shayad abhi Geet who is standing at the other side of the road facing Maan may fall unconscious, Maan may run to her to catch hold of her...Geet in Maan's lap on the road & ek hawa ke jhonke ke wajah se the Laal Duppatta falls over Maan's head covering him & Geet, Geet opens her eyes, both having tears in her eyes & misunderstandings vanishing in the thin air, Udanchuuu you know.....I know this idea of mine seems to be a distant dream for atleast now, but I just want the misunderstandings between both of them to vanish...Right now aisa hotha tho mujhe dikh nahii raha hai, butI just cannot see Maan, Geet away from each other, in pain, pinning for their love....Anyway let's see what is in store...& yaa the CV's have done a commendable job, the way they have portrayed all the scenes & emotions was very nice... All I want to convey that I don't think either Geet or Maan are at fault... These are my views no offense to anyone......So guys now do you think.... do write in your views..Waiting to read them eagerly..😊

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Surya..😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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So Guess What Do You Think....😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Yeh Kya Guys Itne Saare Views & No Replies..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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rightly said surya. its both their ego thats coming between them, in yesterdays episode later on Devs issue became secondary and these two just argued for name sake like two small kids syaing what they have done for each other.
must say it was a good episode. the cvs are too smart that they showed the episode on friday, so that the viewers can be worried till monday. 😛.
Both the actors have really done a good job, they really emoted well.
As u rightly said if there is fight only there will be love, if they diddnt show their seperation and both of them always with each other the show would get boring. this is a good way.
Also its good to see Maan in him own self style than the love lorn boy. the angry young man suits him better.
Would willingly wait for mondays episode, but must say felt very bad seeing maans expression at the end , the way he was hurt, but he is not ready to accept it.😕. One day (i dont remember which episode it is.. he said every day will be adventerous with u and thats whats happening😉.)
Also Maan realised he is love quiet long ago but he never accepted it, buts geets just realized her love off late, and also she is still not sure about maans love to her as he has verbally not said to her that he loves her, he has showed it only thorugh his own ways and actions.
I AM OK WITH THIS TRACK
Edited by dailysoap0510 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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yes dear in 2no ko chahie tha k ek dsre per bharosa krte
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: dailysoap0510

rightly said surya. its both their ego thats coming between them, in yesterdays episode later on Devs issue became secondary and these two just argued for name sake like two small kids syaing what they have done for each other.

must say it was a good episode. the cvs are too smart that they showed the episode on friday, so that the viewers can be worried till monday. 😛.
Both the actors have really done a good job, they really emoted well.
As u rightly said if there is fight only there will be love, if they diddnt show their seperation and both of them always with each other the show would get boring. this is a good way.
Also its good to see Maan in him own self style than the love lorn boy. the angry young man suits him better.
Would willingly wait for mondays episode, but must say felt very bad seeing maans expression at the end , the way he was hurt, but he is not ready to accept it.😕. One day (i dont remember which episode it is.. he said every day will be adventerous with u and thats whats happening😉.)
Also Maan realised he is love quiet long ago but he never accepted it, buts geets just realized her love off late, and also she is still not sure about maans love to her as he has verbally not said to her that he loves her, he has showed it only thorugh his own ways and actions.
I AM OK WITH THIS TRACK



i can see your point too...but i just hope the misunderstandings vanish in the thin air ASAP....😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: fairyeyes_zizi

yes dear in 2no ko chahie tha k ek dsre per bharosa krte


i know....but now may be after this misunderstandings their love for each other & their trust for one another will increase by atleast a ten folds..what say..😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Surya.Ravi



i can see your point too...but i just hope the misunderstandings vanish in the thin air ASAP....😊

whats life with out misunderstanding and fight. The more u fight the more u one will love each other
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: dailysoap0510

whats life with out misunderstanding and fight. The more u fight the more u one will love each other


i agree..that is why i mentioned in my post too that ladayi se pyaar badhtha hai..just hope all goes fine...keeping my fingers crossed..😊

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