Originally posted by: sksg
Dol, Kash & Veni, You girls had a very good discussion. I enjoyed reading through it.
Dol & Kash, Your takes are like two sides of the same coin. They complement and complete each other the same way as Maan and Geet. It is like watching Shivji's Thandav and Parvathi's Lasyam at the same time.
Dol, From your posts, OSs, etc, it is hard to believe that you are a bacha in understanding love. Anyway, allow me to add my spin on this discussion too. For me, anyone in love should be able to give without any restraint and also, be able to receive without any inhibitions. Only, then their love can reach a state of balance and harmony. Too much giving will ultimately result in sacrifices, and too much taking will result in selfishness. Both extremes will end up causing heart break to the other person involved.
I'm going to reply to everyone here...
Kal - we missed you during our discussion. We should figure out a time when all of us are online. Me and Kash are in EST and you are pacific while Veni is in IST. Let's see. As for my being bacha, I think I understand love pretty well just that I don't have much "good" experience to count towards my understanding. Let's say I was all giving and all receiving but never demanding and what I received all untrue. I'll leave it at that for you to figure out the rest :-)
Kash, Kal and Veni - I'm all for receiving love. Receiving is different from demanding. When you demand, you set expectations and for me, love should not be confined within expectations. What you receive should be accepted with arms wide open. For then, the happiness is immeasurable. While when you demand and you get it, the degree of happiness is somehow dampened because of the set expectations. Am I making sense? Maybe not...I'm a bacha after all...but I still had to throw this in, no? LOL
Moony - you are my adorable darling....love you babes....
And of course...love you all too....
And Kal - thanks for comparing our deadly debates to Maaneet nok-jhok.....it is an honor to be compared to them😳
So what say Kash - everyday you write Maan ke dil ki baat and I'll write Geet ka haal-e-dil?
Edited by dolphinUSA - 14 years ago
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