Is it really Maan's fault?? or the circumstances??

act12 thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hello Geet-ians:
Alright I am not here to justify any character, neither am i biased about just one character....I love all of the character from Geet whether it is Sasha or Tasha...they all are loved by me cuz tht is the reason i love the whole show Geet.
Ok...so poeple are saying tht wht is wrong with maan and did he not tell Geet tht he trusts her then why did he act tht way?? why did he suddenty walk out on Geet when she told him the biggest truth of her life....well people...I dont need to justify him when i tell you tht he was stunned and couldn't fathom the fact tht his Geet was touched and loved by some other man (well I am pretty sure tht is wht he thought)...he always considered Geet to be his for such a long time....she did not like to be with another man so Maan completely ignored the fact that there might be someone from her past or even from present tht he might know....he always had tht false assumption tht since Geet was the epitome of simplicity and truth, she will never lie or hide anything from him....in all of his false assumption, he forgot tht fact tht Geet is after all a human being and she does in fact have a life of her own tht he doesnt know of.
He got shocked when he realized tht she is pregnant and she didnt tell him sooner even though he did not realize tht he himself said tht there is nothing like 'us' between them. Now his brain is fully focused on wht is goin on in the present. He wants to start his life afresh and he wants Geet to be there with him and just when he was about to tell her tht she means a world to him, she confessed to him tht she is pregnant....truthfully I was really sad to see him heartbroken and I too wanted to smack him when he jus left her hand like tht and exited the hallway without hearing her out completely...the fear in her eyes was evident and so was her courage tht she couldnt lie to him anymore.
There are several reasons he walked out on her: 1st, he oculd not face rejection....I mean we are viewers so we know both side of story but he didnt and when Geet told him tht she is pregnant, it came with a warning sign according to him. A warning sign tht said tht I cant be yours because I am alredy some one elses so for him, it seemed more like a rejection especially when he confessed his feelings indirectly to her so he was expecting the same from her but instead she told him tht she is pregnant. The 2nd reason is tht he was hurt. Deeply and immensly hurt....as an audience I could tell tht it took time for him to get the real news to sink in and when it did, it seemed like a betrayal....he thot tht all this time, he has been so affectionate towards a girl who is not even his and who cant be his...all this time while he thot of her, she thot of someone else...he felt betrayed and that is the reason he was questioning why Geet did not tell him sooner....I think it was so he can stop himself from feeling for her too deeply before it is too late but little does he know tht feelings of love cannot be suppressed no matter wht
His walking out signifies tht he is after all a human just like all of us...yes he was an idiot for not listening to the whole truth but he is not flawless.....I am sure tht today he walked out on Geet but tomorrow (not literally but figurately speakingg) he himself willl take her hand and lead the way nad protect her from any harm...jus you wait ppl.
Lastly, we can only wait and watch because after soo many hearfelt moments, there was bound to be some misunderstanding looking at the track....besides misunderstanding is a part of relationship as well and it only makes a relationship stronger...so dont wory...its is not any of their fault...it is just the circumstances
ofcourse this is just my opinion😳 Do tell me yours😃
A/N: This doesnt mean tht i dont feel Geet's pain, but it is only a way of justifyin Maan cuz wht Geet did today desrve an applaud and she proved to maan that she is infact an epitome of loyalty but this post is to see both side of the story
Ciao
Jiya
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smrite thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
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well maan has no fault coz anyone feel hurt when ur loved ones hide something so important and big from us and samething is with maan he is angry that after so much close relation faced so many critical situtation together he saved geet everytime from each problem and they are together for now almost 2 months but he don't know such big truth about geet that she is pregnant and also in this wrong time when he is totally deeply in love with geet and wanted to hear confession ofcourse he will be shocked it's not small issue from which maan will recover fast and ask geet what happened how did all this happened sitting there calmly his dream has broken second time and he has no idea what's going on why didn't she trusted him after so much he did for her that she didn't told him about it earlier all this things are going inside maan and it's so natural for a person to react he need some time to analyze all situation from hp and geet keep rejecting him then after few episodes they need to get back together.well the fault is of the situation wrong timings of revelation of truth

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Posted: 14 years ago
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nicely done.........👏
100% agreed...........its the circumstances fault for what happened.....maan and geet both just got caught in the circumstances........
no one is at fault,
not maan for doing what he did ,
not geet for telling the truth so late,
both of them are just being human.............
act12 thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: smrite

well maan has no fault coz anyone feel hurt when ur loved ones hide something so important and big from us and samething is with maan he is angry that after so much close relation faced so many critical situtation together he saved geet everytime from each problem and they are together for now almost 2 months but he don't know such big truth about geet that she is pregnant and also in this wrong time when he is totally deeply in love with geet and wanted to hear confession ofcourse he will be shocked it's not small issue from which maan will recover fast and ask geet what happened how did all this happened sitting there calmly his dream has broken second time and he has no idea what's going on why didn't she trusted him after so much he did for her that she didn't told him about it earlier all this things are going inside maan and it's so natural for a person to react he need some time to analyze all situation from hp and geet keep rejecting him then after few episodes they need to get back together.well the fault is of the situation wrong timings of revelation of truth

exactly...he will come back cuz he is Maan who always saved Geet in every situation so he will come back nad ask her....he has to if he really loves her,,,which he doesn so I am sure😃
act12 thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: PIYA12KA4

nicely done.........👏
100% agreed...........its the circumstances fault for what happened.....maan and geet both just got caught in the circumstances........
no one is at fault,
not maan for doing what he did ,
not geet for telling the truth so late,
both of them are just being human.............

Yes it is no one's fault...neither Maan;s or Geet;s but just the circumstances and in due time...he will himself come and ask her to be his and only his so he can save her from all the evil in this world😳
maneet_forever9 thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: PIYA12KA4

nicely done.........👏
100% agreed...........its the circumstances fault for what happened.....maan and geet both just got caught in the circumstances........
no one is at fault,
not maan for doing what he did ,
not geet for telling the truth so late,
both of them are just being human.............

ClapClapClapClapClapClap wow perfectly written I totally believe that also 😊
act12 thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: maneet_forever9

👏👏👏👏👏👏 wow perfectly written I totally believe that also 😊

Thax for taking ur time and replying
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Posted: 14 years ago
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She told him something big, it wasn't like, hey I stole you rumaal or something trivial. So give him some time. You can't really be mad at him for walking away... it is normal. Specially for MSK, he doesn't speak much, he wasn't prepared for this.

He was expecting to hear 'I love you' and he was right in expecting those words since she has been sending him love signals. However, he heard 3 totally different words, 'I am pregnant' He is not God, he is a mere mortal and this is exactly the reaction you would expect from a warm blooded individual who changed completely for someone. And somewhere deep down inside he probably feels cheated, he has been making his feeling clear to her for a while now, he probably feels she should have told him a long time ago. But eventually he will calm down as much as MSK can and he will find out the whole truth. So relax and give Maan a chance.

I think Maan is going to go through the 5 stages of grief.

1. Denial
2. Anger
3. Bargaining
4. Depression
5. Acceptance.

This model is also known as the Kulber-Ross Model. Often people dealing with death or terminal ilness go through these stages.

If you have a problem with anyone it should be Geet, she waited so long to tell him. Why isn't anyone having a problem with her? Answer me.
act12 thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Poli.Geek

She told him something big, it wasn't like, hey I stole you rumaal or something trivial. So give him some time. You can't really be mad at him for walking away... it is normal. Specially for MSK, he doesn't speak much, he wasn't prepared for this.

He was expecting to hear 'I love you' and he was right in expecting those words since she has been sending him love signals. However, he heard 3 totally different words, 'I am pregnant' He is not God, he is a mere mortal and this is exactly the reaction you would expect from a warm blooded individual who changed completely for someone. And somewhere deep down inside he probably feels cheated, he has been making his feeling clear to her for a while now, he probably feels she should have told him a long time ago. But eventually he will calm down as much as MSK can and he will find out the whole truth. So relax and give Maan a chance.

I think Maan is going to go through the 5 stages of grief.

1. Denial
2. Anger
3. Bargaining
4. Depression
5. Acceptance.

This model is also known as the Kulber-Ross Model. Often people dealing with death or terminal ilness go through these stages.

If you have a problem with anyone it should be Geet, she waited so long to tell him. Why isn't anyone having a problem with her? Answer me.

I wouldnt really call this Geet's fault as this issue takes a big courage to tell especially since she really treasures him and she knows tht it will hurt her and he initially did tell her tht there was no 'us' between them so she thot of him as some one who cars but not really love her tht way until this point....so why would she share something sooooo secretive to him....when he told her tht he trusts her and he made it clear tht he is interested in her then she brought up enuf courage to confess tht she is pregnant
I do agree however at this statement that we should give Maan some time as he thinks he is being betrayed so yuh i do agree to your comment but to Geet bit, I am a bit iffy but ofcourse this is jus my opinion😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Agreed with every single word!

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