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Rolzz

@Rolzz

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Posted: 15 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: AKANargis

ROLZZ...here is an explanation in MANEET context.....credit goes to mysterygurl1427

so right now Maan is giving a deaf ear to his heart.......he is listening to his mind where his ego is the controller......so any signal his heart is giving out his ego is pushing it back......it isn't that he doesn't know how much Geet has gotten to him, he knows he is in love....especially when he was like "no this can't be" ect....he is just scared of something (past) which is why he doesn't want someone to change him.....he wants to stay the same......and so he thinks pushin geet away will make things better!!! Instead he is giving Geet punishment by being unfair to her....and punishing his heart......he doesn't know that by pushing Geet away from him will make his heart beat more for Geet.....
and this i say is MUST SEE!! MSK tortured others around him right?? Now Geet staying away from him or maybe leaving his office will torture him!!! Now he will know how it feels to be tortured....and to feel what we all go through when we see him!! lol

Hope that helped!!!😆😉
😉

It did help in simple english 😃
Let me put the whole Frued terms in perspective... Thanks a loooot 😊
Nice to know something new from the forum other than rating Maaneet hotness quotient !!!

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Harpreet.M

@Harpreet.M

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#22

lol reminds me of psychology.. his superego taking place eh? lol im glad that kicked in haha :) Maan is so disturbed only if ego stops fighting with superego he will be able to rest

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Hetal

@ibelieveinpink

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Posted: 15 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: AKANargis

Coco...the SUPEREGO did kick in...unfortunately...that's why we didn't get the KISS today....they were so close!!!😕😆

i totally forgot superego aims for the perfection and ideals...duh..totally had a brain fart! Hopefully next time maan will be high on ID and all the pleasure will kick in!!!😉

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Hetal

@ibelieveinpink

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Posted: 15 years ago

#24

@Rolzz you're "googling sigmund freud" made me laugh!!! Haven't heard or seen anyone google freud in a long time!!

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Doodle

@Doodle

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Posted: 15 years ago

#25

So Madame, nice post…After a long time I felt like linking Sigmund Freud to a character like MSK after my PG. We have seen Maan's Id, also Maan's Ego and today definitely had seen Maan's Superego overpowering Id and controlling Ego.

After the elevator scene, I am really cursing why we all have superego. As if the Ego wasn't evil enough to play referee between Id and reality, we got the super ego that really blocked Maan from the k**s and that stupid thing has stopped us from flying to paradise. Shit Maaaan. 😡 😡 😡

Our Maan is good as "evil men do what good men only dream of", as evil men don't let Superego controlling their Id.

So Gals, cheer up….Hamare Maan ko thoda waqt do…All of a sudden he is experiencing his Id, hormones running like a rapid fire, so we should give him time. 😃

Just "one egoistic chaanta" from Geet will definitely make Maan's Ego fly away, and if that Ego runs away, what will Superego do???? The Id will definitely Win over and we will have to book the tickets to paradise. Isn't it????

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soumya

@pickle6586

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Posted: 15 years ago

#26

Hello Nargis,

so, here u are again with an interesting topic haaaan....??? took me back to my psychology days where I had to understand all these terms - ID...Ego...SuperEgo...Sigmund Frued....!! and i never really understood or remembered them that well.... 😉 guess they should have put maan there and explained the concept and i should grasp it right away...!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

just wished the super-ego would have come into the picture at all..!! omg..omg... i was hyperventilating, the way he pulls her and pins her to the wall, those looks, that passion, the anger that was boiling his insides because he was not able to control himself and that one line geet said "pata hai sir, mujhe aap pe vishwas hai." that's it and he went bonkers. could not take it that this girl could not see what's going on in his mind...!!!! 😳

u know..i was very confident that ...in yesterday's episode there would not be any X-rated or almost X-rated scenes 😆.. so i can watch it on tv. but the lift scene, omg...omg... i was completely at the loss of words, my mom was sitting right beside me and it was too late to even change the channel. 😉...!!!! he almost kissed her??? man... he was so so so close to her !!!! gosh... but the stupid lift had to keep making noises in between...warna tuo..haye.... i would not here typing a reply to your post from my home, i would probably be doing the same from the ICU. and teh doctors would wonder what this maneet attack is- a new disease discovered in India. !!!!!

-soumya

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Sookie

@-Sookie-

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Posted: 15 years ago

#27

Very interesting observation!

The classical Freudian psychic apparatus Id-Ego-Super Ego does seem to apply to Maan (Geet is only the influencing factor in the whole situation and does not exactly partake in it) but I personally feel that Maan's psyche is much more complex and the situation itself has too many caveats to generalize them under this theory.

Maan, has been shown as a person who is resistance to change. He has the traditional anti-change syndrome which is not that uncommon in our conservative society. The influence Geet has on him makes him react to things differently than what he would have preferred to. It would have been interesting to see (I am not sure if this has already been shown) if the changes he thinks he is going through happens only when she is around or its an overall effect on him because of his long association with her.

However going by the current argument (Id-Ego-Super Ego) it might have been the super ego on his part to be the person resistant to changes. His past which is not at all explored till date (Example - his reasons to live in out house, his perpetual anger, behaving like a jerk sometimes and also a misogynist?) can also be the reason for him to behave the way he is behaving now, is it not?

Id, thankfully, has not always been the driving factor for their relationship; at least it was not how it started. The primal attraction which a man feels towards a woman was completely missing in the beginning. Geet's attitude, her words and her decisions makes him think about his own perspective and slowly tries to imbibe her principles on to his, only to understand her better.

Actually he refuses to understand her in the start and merely tries to get work done. His ego does not allow him to show the concern that a human should feel for another and that would be the reason why he does not help her when he meets her for the first time. And then the natural instinct kicks in and saves her from the river. But he does not show empathy which anyone in his place would. This trait in him slowly changes over the course of time.

The man who once saves the woman (in Amritsar) because he would not want unnecessary complications if she were to get hurt, gets restless to see the same woman walking straight to the door and banging her head in the process. It is not the id speaking here but the mellowed down ego.

I wish the series tries something like lift scene again in future which would show the confusion and the complexity of Maan's psyche. Also if a little background on his past is shown his behavior can perhaps be better understood.

Sookie.

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Doodle

@Doodle

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Posted: 15 years ago

#28

Sookie, I soo loved your analysis…Very well put.

And I liked the part where you very aptly explained about how his ego had mellowed down over the time period. That is so true….The earlier Maan and the mellowed down Maan has a hell lot of a difference.

The crux here is that "the Maan at present" who is trying to be the "old one" is unaware of the fact that he can only use a facade of the outer shell and not the inner soul.

Edited by doodleberry - 15 years ago

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-honeydew-

@-honeydew-

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Posted: 15 years ago

#29

wonderful explanation of the concept by Freud!! i myself love the theory so much.. but was too sleepy to reply in detail last night... but, i guess, you have put it best!

Maan and his super-ego never allow space for his Id... and Geet pushes him to the hilt.. and his resistance to change come out as a instant reflex, which is true for all societies and men all over..

hey, are u the same DMG blog waali sookie? who used to write short stories??

love,
niha

Originally posted by: -Sookie-
<font color="#990033">Very interesting observation!

The classical Freudian psychic apparatus Id-Ego-Super Ego does seem to apply to Maan (Geet is only the influencing factor in the whole situation and does not exactly partake in it) but I personally feel that Maan's psyche is much more complex and the situation itself has too many caveats to generalize them under this theory.

Maan, has been shown as a person who is resistance to change. He has the traditional anti-change syndrome which is not that uncommon in our conservative society. The influence Geet has on him makes him react to things differently than what he would have preferred to. It would have been interesting to see (I am not sure if this has already been shown) if the changes he thinks he is going through happens only when she is around or its an overall effect on him because of his long association with her.

However going by the current argument (Id-Ego-Super Ego) it might have been the super ego on his part to be the person resistant to changes. His past which is not at all explored till date (Example - his reasons to live in out house, his perpetual anger, behaving like a jerk sometimes and also a misogynist?) can also be the reason for him to behave the way he is behaving now, is it not?

Id, thankfully, has not always been the driving factor for their relationship; at least it was not how it started. The primal attraction which a man feels towards a woman was completely missing in the beginning. Geet's attitude, her words and her decisions makes him think about his own perspective and slowly tries to imbibe her principles on to his, only to understand her better.

Actually he refuses to understand her in the start and merely tries to get work done. His ego does not allow him to show the concern that a human should feel for another and that would be the reason why he does not help her when he meets her for the first time. And then the natural instinct kicks in and saves her from the river. But he does not show empathy which anyone in his place would. This trait in him slowly changes over the course of time.

The man who once saves the woman (in Amritsar) because he would not want unnecessary complications if she were to get hurt, gets restless to see the same woman walking straight to the door and banging her head in the process. It is not the id speaking here but the mellowed down ego.

I wish the series tries something like lift scene again in future which would show the confusion and the complexity of Maan's psyche. Also if a little background on his past is shown his behavior can perhaps be better understood.

Sookie.
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