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mifra waseem

@Mifra_14

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Posted: 9 years ago

Let me make u people understand so that u guyzzz will understand my point of view also

The thing is

Gangaa loves sagar(right)

Sagar loves her too(right)

Love is Natural

Niru too loves her(right)

And nir always trusted her

But but but

She now wants to become a DIL of that house

Wait wait wait don't get angry...I'm not sticking my decision on you ..I'm just trying to explain that I'm right also..don't take this personal..I don't want to ruin our friendship

So yeah coming back to the topic

Something that is haunting gangaa is that, he called her "Baal vivah"and used a word " pity" for such a high esteem girl..and he knows that gangaa alwas hated words like this and even now but he used such words for her..that's ridiculous...

And we all know gangaa self respect means her alooot, more than sagar and she always preffered her her self respect on sagar and after hearing such words if she was the same gangaa as shown in pre-leap she would have definitely left the house...

Niranjan is neither right nor wrong

He is wrong in the way cz he called her Baal vidvah and that sagar cannot marry a child widow..I'm not Hindu but I know Hinduism also doesn't say a widow cannot remarry...ni religion can be like this I know

Yes maybe their are certain rules for widow but this is not written in any book.. So this time niru is wrong

But but but

Niru is right in a way that a girl who he brought up wants to become DIL of this way..he maybe thinking she is breaking his trust...in this way he is right

I think I've make myself clear and u ppl are no longer angry with me

Edited by Mifra_14 - 9 years ago

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Shivaanya

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Posted: 9 years ago

I am sure none of us is angry with you because everyone has their own opinion and in an open forum they can very well discuss it.

The only thing is like me many have different opinion on this part .

I still stick to my views that bringing up Ganga,giving her a shelter & food, allowing her to study does not mean that she CANT be Sagar's Love or Wife. Neither it is betrayal on her side nor any ungratefulness for Chaturvedi family.

We must NOT forgot that she has asked for her acceptance only after Sagar's confession not before that.More ever she knew that Ammaji also witnessed her marriage with Sagar in her childhood but she kept mum on that.She didnt punish her.That time itself Ammaji could have thrown out of her house...why NOW???

When one marriage of childhood can make her a widow then why cant another one with Sagar wont get her all rights as a married woman?She is absolutely right in asking this. In fact it showed the double standards of our society along with Niru too (Fingers crossed , if at all it was all he did to test Sagar's determination to marry Ganga & face the society, I so hope he just instigated Sagar like before in MMS case.)

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mannu111

@mannu111

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Posted: 9 years ago

I won't agree with you in total, but yes every one will have their own perceptions, n you also r not thinking wrong in any way. 😊 But this is what I felt n said in the d discussion thread of @Kashi Express: 😆

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I differ to agree with what u all are believing Niranjan to be..

Sagar is a shadow/copy of Niranjan therefore u all like him to this level. Please analyze his dialogues what he said in yesterday's episode. whatever he said but during the whole scene he could not meet eyes with Ganga. Moreover when Sagar provoked him when ganage left the scene, in his anger niranjan clearly blurted out that he had promised jhanvi of marriage n d roka had been done(this is what niru knows). Moreover he is so high on values that he will never accept a girl(jahnvi) facing betrayel from someone in his family. he also said dat how can he realize his love for ganga just after getting his roka done. And at the end niru challenged all that sagar will be married to jhanvi as promised!!

About Sagar accusing him of having double standards. I still cannot not agree with him here.

Reason: Sagar pointed out that he was very happy of ganaga getting married with Sahil but when it came to this he is talking about ganaga being a widow.

I can easily make out that niru said this because he know his words will affect Ganga the most and she will not continue her relationship with Sagar. As soon as she heard him saying the words of Daya/pity, she pulled her hands away from Sagar which Niru also observed..

I am dead sure had this Jhanvi kaand not happened(marriage proposal n roka), then Niranjan would have been the happiest person on this earth on hearing about sagar n ganagaa wanting to marry to each other.

I know you all are disappointed with him, But don't start bashing him just due to one episode. Please wait n watch his actions. I will again say that for whatever reasons you all love Sagar to this level is due to him inheriting all these values from Niranjan. Sagar is true copy of him but yes he is definitely more attractive due to him being young, handsome n d hero of this show 😆

I am still with Niranjan no matter what I will see for the next few episodes, neither will I be affected by all of u being so disappointed in him. Please continue to have faith in a person if you like him/her. don't loose hope just with few such instances. Relations mean having faith in them. If you loose them you will never be able to sustain in those people's life. Because eventually both the parties will start feeling disconnected if this faith factor gets lost.

And what affected me the most was that Sagar could not realize this. But it was a huge blow that even Ganaga could not understand his Babu.

Don't mind me for such a big post which is totally against the flow of thoughts poured out here by you all. But I guess this is how I am.😊

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anasuya43

@anasuya43

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Posted: 9 years ago

It is good post ...you have put your thoughts in expressing clearly...in writing.👏 mannu111

After watching yesterday episode first i was upset with Niranjan ,the way he put forth his views blatantly but after the episode if you sit and think...what Niranjan told to sagar was correct...I will say both Sagar and Niranjan are right in their own way...

How, I will get back to you shortly ...😊

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mifra waseem

@Mifra_14

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Shivaanya
I am sure none of us is angry with you because everyone has their own opinion and in an open forum they can very well discuss it.
The only thing is like me many have different opinion on this part .

I still stick to my views that bringing up Ganga,giving her a shelter & food, allowing her to study does not mean that she CANT be Sagar's Love or Wife. Neither it is betrayal on her side nor any ungratefulness for Chaturvedi family.

We must NOT forgot that she has asked for her acceptance only after Sagar's confession not before that.More ever she knew that Ammaji also witnessed her marriage with Sagar in her childhood but she kept mum on that.She didnt punish her.That time itself Ammaji could have thrown out of her house...why NOW???

When one marriage of childhood can make her a widow then why cant another one with Sagar wont get her all rights as a married woman?She is absolutely right in asking this. In fact it showed the double standards of our society along with Niru too (Fingers crossed , if at all it was all he did to test Sagar's determination to marry Ganga & face the society, I so hope he just instigated Sagar like before in MMS case.)

yr words gave me a big relief that no one is angry with me

Ya gangaa is neither wrong nor right and niru too...

Niru who brought up her, taken a place of his bappa used such bitter words for such a high esteem girl gangaa...but as we all know their thinking, double standards..so if we thin from theirs side...they must be thinking that a girl whom we brought up wants to become a DIL of this house...they must be thinking like this, this is what I want to say..from their thinking I said this

And in case of gangaa she never ever asked for all these things that niru gave her...and as sajd by sagar ..niru folded his pitiness in a very attractive gift paper and has been giving her since her childhood...gangaa always thought him of her father but what did he do.

Love is Natural

That both love each other and no power can stop them from living each other but family members agreement should also be involved in this ..we can not say that it's fine that none of the familyember is agree but they can do whatever they want cz, parents, the gift of God, who sacrifces every happiness of their life for tha happiness of their child , don't they have any right to choose the partner of their child ,I'm not saying they should make sagar marry to janvi, I'm just saying that aaga should try to make them unsersatnd rather then behaving childish...that should try to make them agree ...

In this way they are wrong

And yah ammaji is a selfish lady..she dint say gangaa a single word when sagar put vermilion on her forehead just because to save his lalla from dieing but now she is acting all creepy...

So we cannot expect anything from ammaji

But at least mads and niru should understand

And pulsu will surely support them

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mifra waseem

@Mifra_14

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: mannu111
I won't agree with you in total, but yes every one will have their own perceptions, n you also r not thinking wrong in any way. 😊 But this is what I felt n said in the d discussion thread of @Kashi Express: 😆
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I differ to agree with what u all are believing Niranjan to be..
Sagar is a shadow/copy of Niranjan therefore u all like him to this level. Please analyze his dialogues what he said in yesterday's episode. whatever he said but during the whole scene he could not meet eyes with Ganga. Moreover when Sagar provoked him when ganage left the scene, in his anger niranjan clearly blurted out that he had promised jhanvi of marriage n d roka had been done(this is what niru knows). Moreover he is so high on values that he will never accept a girl(jahnvi) facing betrayel from someone in his family. he also said dat how can he realize his love for ganga just after getting his roka done. And at the end niru challenged all that sagar will be married to jhanvi as promised!!

About Sagar accusing him of having double standards. I still cannot not agree with him here.
Reason: Sagar pointed out that he was very happy of ganaga getting married with Sahil but when it came to this he is talking about ganaga being a widow.
I can easily make out that niru said this because he know his words will affect Ganga the most and she will not continue her relationship with Sagar. As soon as she heard him saying the words of Daya/pity, she pulled her hands away from Sagar which Niru also observed..

I am dead sure had this Jhanvi kaand not happened(marriage proposal n roka), then Niranjan would have been the happiest person on this earth on hearing about sagar n ganagaa wanting to marry to each other.

I know you all are disappointed with him, But don't start bashing him just due to one episode. Please wait n watch his actions. I will again say that for whatever reasons you all love Sagar to this level is due to him inheriting all these values from Niranjan. Sagar is true copy of him but yes he is definitely more attractive due to him being young, handsome n d hero of this show 😆

I am still with Niranjan no matter what I will see for the next few episodes, neither will I be affected by all of u being so disappointed in him. Please continue to have faith in a person if you like him/her. don't loose hope just with few such instances. Relations mean having faith in them. If you loose them you will never be able to sustain in those people's life. Because eventually both the parties will start feeling disconnected if this faith factor gets lost.

And what affected me the most was that Sagar could not realize this. But it was a huge blow that even Ganaga could not understand his Babu.

Don't mind me for such a big post which is totally against the flow of thoughts poured out here by you all. But I guess this is how I am.😊

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