Attention please !!!!

Folks, here is some thing to share with all of you. Myself and
Atina talked at length about this and here I am with what we
think needs to be done. As u all know, we had no clue about
what was going on with Vinu and finally ended up with the most
tragic news. Myself and Meli sent a few PMs which were not
picked up. Human mind has the uncanny knack of imagining
the worst - some times this imagination is 100 times worse
than the truth. Being kept in the dark is disastrous. So, we
have this proposal. Please consider and get back to us with
feedbacks/ corrections/ better options. We have to have some
way of contacting our members in case they absent themselves
for abnormal periods with out any prior information. Each of
you, please choose a member with whom you have total
confidence and feel at ease. Once that is done, please let
them have an email ID or a phone no or any other thing that
makes a contact possible. We have a suggestion to make.

I know that many of us are not comfortable about divulging
personal info in the net - understandable. Please create a
new email ID just for this purpose and make sure that u give
the password to one of your trusted friend or family member -
a Non - IF ian - who knows where u will be at all times. This
email ID can be given to a trusted friend here in IF who can
contact when needed. This will ensure some peace of mind to
all of us here. I do hope that all of you understand this in the
right perspective. Think about this folks and let us know what
you think. Be rest assured that all of us here respect individual
rights and will never disturb any one unnecessarily. Thanks for
your patience folks, I did not intend this to be this long but had
to explain what we have in mind. Love and God bless - Roja

Good idea Roja.

Now that we all know each other quite well, I am comfortable in keeping in touch with the members in private life.

good idea roja akka

already people here know mine 😃

Thanks Roja akka for the move.

Ok folks, Madhu is fine - just got a PM from
her. I know that there are a few others who were
worried as me. Looks like age is catching up with
me at last!! I have either become senile or
managed to grow up at last!!! if this kind of
worrying is what is known as growing up boyyy,
I wish i were my usual mad, childish, refusing to
grow up Roja -

Thats a great idea akka. loads of people know my email account. My cousin also knows im a member here.

Originally posted by: rojapoooo

Ok folks, Madhu is fine - just got a PM from
her. I know that there are a few others who were
worried as me. Looks like age is catching up with
me at last!! I have either become senile or
managed to grow up at last!!! if this kind of
worrying is what is known as growing up boyyy,
I wish i were my usual mad, childish, refusing to
grow up Roja -

Roja thanks for letting us know about Madhu. I was in the process of looking for her phone number.....anyway glad to hear that se is doing fine.

I totally agree with you about this parannoid nature as we grow older.....

Now don't you feel that our Vinu's demise has taunght us all a new lesson and created some extra connection between all of us? I do feel that way.....what about you all buddies?

No, I don't think u folks got my message right -
U can give your email to a friend here but what
is the use if u do not or not able to access it??
So, pls give the email or phone no of a person
close to you - one who knows where u are/will be
at all times - So if anyone is missing, your IF
friend can email/call that person and get the info
about you - is that clear folks??? Once all of
you get this organized, pls post here as to who
in IF should be contacted if u are to be traced.

If Roja is missing - Atina can be contacted as she
has my tel no. - some thing like this folks.

And U are right Atina - Vinu did us a good turn , I
was fretting about her but had no clue as to how/who
to get in touch with - Thanks Vinu

oh, get it now roja acca.😉 i'll let my mum know.. if anything
is wrong then she'll login using my username and let you guys
know.😃

thamizhan