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Posted: 7 years ago
#81
Woaaah...I have a lot of thoughts in my head after this update! 😲
I love the discussion going on! I personally feel Harit is out of line for saying Teeku is a brat and raised a brat. She took care of him singly, he doesn't get to judge her for what she did.

I honestly think that Teeku should take Chandan to a psychologist or someone who can get him to a happier space. As long as he stays miserable, Teeku will be torn up trying to take care of him.

I feel bad for Garima and Gauri and the Bhabhis. They probably don't understand the level of drama that Teeku is handling on a daily basis with Chandan.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I feel Avantika is right in what she is doing. Atleast she is trying to fit the kid in the family rules. The kids were disciplined but dont really know what happened today. Chandu, who is felt always tantrumy, has somehow coped to finish up his hw and any adult will lose it when things like these happen.
Elders of the house need to understand her stand as well.
Its always a very difficult situation for anybody.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#83
That house in Delhi that's teeku's is not a mere paper scroll like the one that slept in MM mansion. Her Delhi house is a balance tipping action figure... Dilli is not far away is my nagging discomfort. 🥱
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Posted: 7 years ago
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People may argue as to why Avantika should take on the responsibiloty singly even now. But we must wake up to the fact that Chandu is not being an easy kid to live with at all. He is always clumsy, tantrumy and wants to go back to his happy place. He is a kid and doesnt understand. I am not saying he must be offered the same kind of treatment or education in the current place but he must be understood and must she be. Afterall, she did the family a favour by taking the child into her stride when none of them accepted the childs' parents' marriage.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#85

Originally posted by: Errantnomad

That house in Delhi that's teeku's is not a mere paper scroll like the one that slept in MM mansion. Her Delhi house is a balance tipping action figure... Dilli is not far away is my nagging discomfort. 🥱


ab dilli door nahi. misunderstandings will increase before they begin to truly settle down with each other.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#86
There is no smoke without fire. The events preceding this during the day over her cooking and the family banter had its part as well in the frustration that played out fag end of the day.

Children have this uncanny ability to just tip the scale with their antics that makes adult emotions reach boiling point and spill over. What we saw being played out was each of them wanting to stand their ground . Teeku let loose her frustration over her personal struggles the children's antics were just a propellor for her to show her resistance that upset the existing crew manning the ship .

With the discipline and culture that he has been raised with, the pressure to conform doesn't rest solely on Teeku, he feels the that pressure too . Men want that their new wives blending in not disrupting the existing functionalities and culture of the ship. He is no different in wanting the best of both worlds . Their first fight had him charging her ( veiled charge) with she's not doing enough to blend in and this time he couldn't be more blunt taking chandu also down with him being already a little insecure. He succumbed to that pressure .

She wanted him be her rudder to work with and against the currents, tides and wind in open waters , she wanted him to come up after work and not be downstairs watching tv. Yup he came up and the helmsman to chart a different course , one that could put the ship in rough seas

Last night he covered her in glory hugging her tight proud of the girl who came rebelling three months back against him standing her ground on his turf that is his wife today. Your honor, she was a brat then and she is a brat now. You got to just work with the the brat.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Last time it was him and her. This time the unpleasant emotions have the bhabhis as well in play. But I'm sure, vessels making noises shouldn't be all new happening for the first time. Those in charge must have seen rough seas before this as well. They will survive. It's not just the vaidyas , the Guptas are a joint family as well. Teeku is not new to the bickerings that happen in her maternal household and she needs to be develop a balance as well to put things in perspective here.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Can something be done about these ads please please? Good day and evening all.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Errantnomad

Can something be done about these ads please please? Good day and evening all.



No dear nothing can be done
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Like vaidya's gupta's are also joint family but their is so much difference in the approach and upbringing and thinking
They are much more open minded...
Teeku will take time to adjust to all the rules and restrictions and on the top of it Chandu is making the situation worst for her..

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