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Empathy and Grace are depleting values in the times we live. It's so easy to be lost for a period of time where one's own grief and unrest makes them loose perspective and not see things from the other person's angle.

If Mandira lost her spouse , Prakash lost his spouse. I somehow understood that Ashvin's dad's loss was because of an accident in air , given his love for flying one of his flying sujourns that turned unfortunate whereas Trisha's moms loss was because of the direct fallout of that diner incident . The air mishap for all conjectures could have been a technical snag as well.

Shouldn't Vijaya's death find an equal empathy or mention as that of Ashvin's dad or even Sanchet's absence ?

Mandira thinks , acceptance of Trisha would mean forgiving her husband's death. If only She could look at that loss of a spouse/ mother from shanbag's perspective , may be some day she will have a better head space towards Trisha .

When one has gone through a traumatic experience it leaves one initially very numb. One then grapples with the grief and denial and falters with guilt. There is gradual acceptance of reality and one regains ones balance though there can be innumerable triggers that throw you off balance temporarily.

Originally posted by: Errantnomad

Empathy and Grace are depleting values in the times we live. It's so easy to be lost for a period of time where one's own grief and unrest makes them loose perspective and not see things from the other person's angle.

If Mandira lost her spouse , Prakash lost his spouse. I somehow understood that Ashvin's dad's loss was because of an accident in air , given his love for flying one of his flying sujourns that turned unfortunate whereas Trisha's moms loss was because of the direct fallout of that diner incident . The air mishap for all conjectures could have been a technical snag as well.

Shouldn't Vijaya's death find an equal empathy or mention as that of Ashvin's dad or even Sanchet's absence ?

Mandira thinks , acceptance of Trisha would mean forgiving her husband's death. If only She could look at that loss of a spouse/ mother from shanbag's perspective , may be some day she will have a better head space towards Trisha .

That's my point also.. may be ashwins dad was flying in agony or anger or in disturbed state of mind which could have resulted in the accident but then also as I can see all started coz of a drunken and toned gang of boys who misbehave with a lady... and who so ever be in the aanu's Place have called the police.. I mean anybody would have done the same
And as Nisha said incident was not so big but it had extreme actions and reactions from both ends
It's fate and they have to except it
Like that only Mandira has to except the fact that Ashwin is happy and in love with with Trisha

No matter what the bottom line is this only
By thinking more and not expecting the situation and Trisha she is making things difficult for herself and for Ashwin also

Originally posted by: SWAN123

When issues are resolved and intimacy explored ofcourse people are a problem! That's so relatable. Nice one Nisha. Meeru kuda malli tonderaga randi.. ( that's Telugu for Nisha come back soon) 😉

Originally posted by: moonwearer

Pritee i think what Swa means is that it is understandable that Ashvin wants to make the crowded flat become his and Trishas alone. He wants more lone time with her and a house full of people does not go well with him.

Originally posted by: moonwearer

<font size="3">Pritee i think what Swa means is that it is understandable that Ashvin wants to make the crowded flat become his and Trishas alone. He wants more lone time with her and a house full of people does not go well with him.</font>

Thankyou!! Yes indeed that's what I meant 😊

Nisha

Hey everyone

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Hey everyone

I had no internet at home the last couple days

And had to call the field support for help

I have it back now, hopefully starting tomorrow I can immerse myself in my after work hobby

😊

Thank u Nisha 🤗