Software Symphony 66 Care & Neglect - Page 18

In my most stinging criticism... This guy still feels no connect with his dad... So you take II and Nivi out of the equation ... It's back to where he left off four years ago. So the developments of the last two years is only a mirage. ? !!. If it's that dude... Manage your problems with your wife on your own and stop using your dad or his resources...

It's always you, your likes, your comfort , your desires, your wife and now your daughter more than your wife ... But this is the cherry right? But more than your daughter it's your love for self...
You love yourself the most and your daughter comes a distant second ... That layer covering my eyes is also removed now after this fracas...

There are people who love others but who love themselves a bit more... R&B is in danger of falling into that territory and then there are some people like Ranjan Bhalla who live only for others and find themselves at the hospital being discarded to Hell...

Everyone who tries to mend him are given stay out of this NYOB looks and words...
May be earth then is only for mortals like us...

This guy will may be get back and mend stuff with his wife but then that will only be for his interests...
But what about people and their feelings that he uses and discards as he pleases...

I also liked that Munirkha and Bala are unaware of the status now with II ... Bala might show sympathy but in future he will definitely and slyly slip in a needle in the banana ...
Vandu so far has done a commendable job of keeping at away from Bala.

Mr. Iyer a broken man with his legs outside and cracking inside too now... As he finds himself thinking long and hard of what 'flying off the handle ' could do...
He fears his wife but if they have had a marriage so long that has stood the time then he owes it to his wife and daughter to let them know of the part he played in this whole mess ...
Disappointments and Bias needs to be handled with maturity that befits age and the experiences of life.

It's time for dude and II who have tied the knot to really tighten the knot!!

Originally posted by: sonalgupta2004

I knew this was coming
Ranjan was the one most effected .. Everyone else hav someone or the other whom they can call family but Ranjan don't hav anyone
And dude is out of grid really how insensitive can he be
He is ignoring his Angel in all this

Sonal ... So beautifully said... Everyone has someone or the other but Ranjan.

Asma... Your post of trekking teaching humility and bringing a value to relationships was beautiful and a different perspective for me... Well said

Originally posted by: VeeIyer

And I had posted a few months ago that SOSY was all about joy and it was a given that the protagonists could not exist without each other !!

How can both of them even believe that this silence would lead to any kind of resolution ??!! Though this time around, II has made all the moves and R&B has stonewalled her. She is unaware of the reason for his behaviour but has constantly reached out

I want someone to give him a kick where it hurts real hard😡

Any takers ???? unable to stop writing and ranting 😕

Takers Vani? There are more than one now !! And you know who's first in line. Ha ha 😆 ...
Kala is not far behind 😃

Originally posted by: taramira

Before happy days are truly here, there will be the Ranjan II Milan and sigh! II Manya confrontation, I am actually looking forward to that. I want her to call RB and badmouth II and it would be great to see RB let off on her! It's high time anyways that someone put manny in her place and it can only be RB. she will say all kinds of things and accuse her of stardom, hankering after wealth etc as she does and RB knowing in his heart that these things are not true and this time it's all him, might finally defend his wife.

Oooh the climax is building up...slowly and steadily and the volcano is about to burst. Wish MA was around to pull his ears and knock some sense into RB's head...but the silver lining in all of this is it truly shows how deeply possessive RB has become of II - unreasonably so. It shows his need for constant reaffirmation that she ain't going no where. Interesting isn't it, he wasn't jealous of subbu with whom she actually had a relationship, instead he's jealous of her singing! That's perhaps because she feels totally liberated with her singin, it's one thing that connects her to her inner soul and perhaps our dude wants to be that one thing in her life. But dear RB for that to happen you have work hard and open your mouth and your heart.

And THANK YOU dear LORD Nisha for so many long ones yesterday. I hope your Kripa remains on us today as well. BTW in all these weeks, did she hear back from the studio? Has the recording being finalized?

Truly The Lord ... Showered chappar Phad ke...
Nisha please... Continue ... We are greedy !! The roof be damned 😳 thank you so very much ... It's raining and may it continue to flood

Originally posted by: Errantnomad

In my most stinging criticism... This guy still feels no connect with his dad... So you take II and Nivi out of the equation ... It's back to where he left off four years ago. So the developments of the last two years is only a mirage. ? !!. If it's that dude... Manage your problems with your wife on your own and stop using your dad or his resources...

It's always you, your likes, your comfort , your desires, your wife and now your daughter more than your wife ... But this is the cherry right? But more than your daughter it's your love for self...
You love yourself the most and your daughter comes a distant second ... That layer covering my eyes is also removed now after this fracas...

There are people who love others but who love themselves a bit more... R&B is in danger of falling into that territory and then there are some people like Ranjan Bhalla who live only for others and find themselves at the hospital being discarded to Hell...

Everyone who tries to mend him are given stay out of this NYOB looks and words...
May be earth then is only for mortals like us...

Originally posted by: jyothi_cool

Kalpana its easy to call the dude selfish but think from his perspective for him to forget his mother or the betrayal that led to her death is really very difficult .

As far as II is concerned most of the making up after a fight and sacrifices have been made by him in the relationship II gets to live as per choices she was definetly aware of his business in Paris and the fact that he had come to Delhi only for the AGM but she decides to stay back for her doomed career and keeps the father away from his daughter

Now I don't understand how dude becomes selfish and II the victim

Dude has always cared for his sisters and their family which was shown very well when manya broke up with Vik

Even during vandus pregnancy he was the one who used his connections and did stuff for her even without being asked and his concern for amma we have witnessed it quite some times

So if some can be called self centered it has to be II

Jyo I find him extremely selfish !! If he feels his mom has been betrayed he just needs to stay off from MM!! I have no problems witn his resentment for Ranjan over his mom but I have huge problems of him messing up now ... It's between his wife and him ... He has to keep it out of MM then given that he doesn't care for his father !!

. This guy has no problems handing over Nivi to his dad when he feels horny to make out with his wife but still resents His dad for what he did to his mom!! What's that? Conveniently using him or not...

And what he does with his sisters is just not interfere which is a big thing in itself but sometimes one can do a bit more than silently watch or support.

Pulling connections for vandu is the only thing he has ever done out of the way for anyone !! She knew he worked in Paris !! She did not marry sree right!! Did they discuss stuff as to where their base would be!! No!! Did he or she discuss where their base would be after their marriage as that's what normal working people who are about to become a couple do!! Then it's not right for II or her doomed career only to take the slack for it!!
People keep writing what if she had married Sree !! Then she world hv home to US!! But then she did not get married to him or any other proposals abroad ...

Materially there's comfort for her in MM. Paris as a base somewhere haunts her ... Will she like to make a place like Paris the base which heightens her insecurities with dudes past affairs ?
Like wise dude if Mm brings bitter memories of his mom , he should convince his wife otherwise and not wallow in his misery expecting everyone around him to join him when he pleases and to be left alone when he pleases.

Originally posted by: Errantnomad

Jyo I find him extremely selfish !! If he feels his mom has been betrayed he just needs to stay off fro
MM!! I have no problems witn his resentment for Ranjan over his mom but I have huge problems of him messing up now ... It's between his wife and him ... He has to keep it out of MM then given that he doesn't care for his father !!

. This guy has no problems handing over Nivi to his dad when he feels horny to make out with his wife but still resents His dad for what he did to his mom!! What's that? Conveniently using him or not...

And what he does with his sisters is just not interfere which is a big thing in itself but sometimes one can do a bit more than silently watch or support.

Pulling connections for vandu is the only thing he has ever done out of the way for anyone !! She knew he worked in Paris !! She did not marry sree right!! Did they discuss stuff as to where their base would be!! No!! Did he or she discuss where their base would be after their marriage as that's what normal working people who are about to become a couple do!! Then it's not right for II or her doomed career only to take the slack for it!!
People keep writing what if she had married Sree !! Then she world hv home to US!! But then she did not get married to him or any other proposals abroad ...

Materially there's comfort for her in MM. Paris as a base somewhere haunts her ... Will she like to make a place like Paris the base which heightens her insecurities with dudes past affairs ?
Like wise dude if Mm brings better memories of his mom should convince his wife otherwise and not wallow in his misery..