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Hey all! Long time no see.
I read recent updates and let's just say I'm kind of baffled! Sisters & cousins know all of the couple's bedroom secrets, really? That just seems highly embarrassing, mortifying in fact. & while I understand that dude can't keep his hands off of the wife, but they have to do it even while they are at DII for diwali? With so many people & elders outside? I guess I'm just not able to wrap my head around it. But it's a fiction so these things can just happen, right?
Hope you are all well.
Best,
Aarti
PS: Because putti I know you will ask. Niyati is doing absolutely fine. My SIL got her a little lehnga for diwali & she looked adorable in it. Will see if I can post a picture if I have time later.
Hey Aarti , hello to you too and we get to read abt your cute Niyati after some time here. Pls do post a pic when you can.
You will hv to believe me when I say this. Sharing something here that happenned in my family.
This was in Mumbai and my uncle and aunt live in a three BHK with his nephews too living with him then. My uncle had recently then married off his daughter and I think I had been married for 5 yrs then.
One of the nephews who was living with him then , that's our cousin was getting married and so we all had to shack up in my uncle's place.
So my aunt and uncle decided to give some privacy to his newly wed daughter and Son in law and let them hv one of the rooms and us others like ( much like Lakshmi and venkat with children) had to huddle in rest of the rooms and the hall with foldable beddings on the floor. I remember a few cousins were peeved at that arrangement as to the spl treatment meted out to his daughter when they had a crowd at home .
I was meeting all these ppl after few yrs and our trip was to have fun and so that was ok my end. Anyways personally my stand was if me and my hubs needed privacy we ought to book a hotel near by. Bcos my uncle couldn't hv asked his own daughter and son in law to stay in a hotel room right?. It was up to my cousin who could hv said no to that arrangement with 25 ppl living under one roof then.
So my newly wed cousin with her hubs had her mehendi on , nicely dressed. It was before dinner . That hubs of hers cooly came in , pulled her in some pretext and the next we saw her was the next day morn 😃 😆 .
We ppl outside got something to chew and munch on. It was kind of embarrassing but this did happen.
And while some of the relatively young ones were decent abt the whole happennings, some of the mamis laid it bare and had some 'choice comments ' for her ,the morning after 😃. One of the comments was ' "so you hv your mehendi still on and you are coming out in pj's now. How we wish we had PA's to take care of the wardrobe or ward 'disrobe functioning' . "LoL. Needless to say she was mortified.
And heavens, living here, some of the things that just out of college grads , young junior execs in offices brag abt on sex , it's like having moong dal halwa in the weekends for them and they do exchange notes. 😆 .They are kind of in your face thing yaar,and I manage to keep a straight face and act not shocked by their 'notes'. But the best part is they are normal and not conscious abt it.
In fact I was also reading a romance fiction last wkend by Nora roberts and that book has four childhood friends now adults cum business partners running event management co, exchanging notes on their hanky panky stuff.
So my view, having been part of it, I guess it's not entirely out of the realm of real or fiction.
But yes this vandu is tooo much 😳 .
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