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Kjolovesbabies

@Kjolovesbabies

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#381

Originally posted by: Errantnomad

I loved Mumbai shopping too in the summers. We used to bring home clothes in our child hood at prices that's long gone now. Tops and skirts were available at 25 odd rupees. Mumbai is definetely better for the range of prices even now. Delhi markets are also ok, if you are not cheated.

Last winter I got a sweater top from sarojini at 50 😆 and another normal top at 60 😉

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Errantnomad

@Errantnomad

Inactive

Posted: 9 years ago

#382

Chandni chowk market scene kya hai ab ?. Still the same kya?

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Sunita

@avni_19

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

#383

Ohh Nisha! that was a beautiful updateee!❤️

II's unconditional love for her Periappa is simply beautiful. ❤️

Amma is a TRUE ⭐️ Like Seriously, She does all the work aur uff tak nahi karti..!👏 Amazing! How we all wish to become like her in REAL!?

Appa and RnB... Ohhh Lord!!! VISUAL TREAT...Starring, phir cursing from inside!🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Nisha0604

@Nisha0604

Sparkler

Posted: 9 years ago

#384

Originally posted by: shidin0117
Nisha when I posted about karma or fate I completely didn't get this thought about parents losing their kids or vice versa...I was feeling bad for Ranjan savvy R&B and was thinking about something else personally also...shows that I didn't think properly before posting...todate I can't think about anything happening to my parents kids hubs BIL or anyone from my family. Son is going on school trip to mysore GRS and I am already worrying and advising him until he reaches home safely I and for that matter all the other parents also won't have a peaceful mind. In fact I also think how losing one's child can be associated with karma. It's like I must have been the cause of someone losing their child in some past birth...that is if you believe in rebirth. ...😕
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Sorry if I have hurt anybody...it was unknowingly done. I am feeling bad that I didn't think about this...

NOT AT ALL Shilpa

You did not offend me at all, I am sorry if I spoke bluntly. Its just that, in my new found "awakening/maturity/harshly waking up from coma" I am strongly anti-Hindu on many things

The man Salman killed did NOT deserve to die, so is the case with the 140 killed on Friday.

Religions use various underhanded ways of brainwashing and manipulating people's minds, the karma theory is one such thing

Hinduism especially believes a lot in "Oh!! better do this, otherwise God will destroy you"

"Oh you better not enter a temple during periods, u get leprosy" "Oh! you better go bankrupt feeding 101 brahmins at your father's funeral, otherwise u will bring God's wrath upon yourself"

"Oh! you better donate to the priest instead of feeding the hungry, priest has God on speed dial, your life is screwed if you make him unhappy".

Most Iyer priests in Delhi are unscrupulous and corrupt and have amassed insane amounts of wealth, by conducting Ganapati Homam and Rudra Japam at Mayawati's and Lalu's houses.

NOT ONE of them pays any taxes. Hindu scriptures state, stealing from Raja/government is like stealing from God👏

Life is a matter of chance, Zindagi ek jua hai aur Luck by chance hai

I dont think Mark Zuckerberg or Bill Gates or Warren Buffet wear rings of Som Mangal Shani Shukra stones in their fingers, neither do they do havan everyday.. complete bullshit

No Mormom I know of does pooja to fertility goddesses, they all have 6 kids

I know of TENS of childless Hindus

I know 100s of meat eating Iyers, none of them dropped dead

If priests were true messengers of God then the Catholic priests wouldnt have committed s---- crimes against those young boys

Edited by Nisha0604 - 9 years ago

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Kjolovesbabies

@Kjolovesbabies

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#385

Nisha can we please have a future update on any of the babies birthday 😛 lasya nivi sahana koi bhi

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Sonal Gupta

@sonalgupta2004

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

#386

So true Nisha.. I can say this on my personal behalf!!
From birth only we Hindus r often told,, u do this u don't do this otherwise this will happen or this will not happen!!
In my case when I was not able to conceive for 8 years after my first daughter my MIL was like all the time u should do this u should fast on these days u should go to that temple etc etc
I was so irritated.. But wht yo do they believe wht they believe u cannot argue with them!
And then when I conceived through medical help then so many other things started for a baby boy... Uhh wht to do we all r broughtup that way only
Not to mention none of it worked as I hav my sweet little Arishka with me 😉

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Nisha0604

@Nisha0604

Sparkler

Posted: 9 years ago

#387

Sonal

WOMEN shunning the girl child and WOMEN shunning widows, two things I will never be able to understand about Hindu women in India

Its insanity of astounding proportions

Its quite embarrassing to me when my coworkers come upto me to ask about some widely publicized case of fetal murder or cruelty based on gender. We as a culture appear to them as savages

We are the only religion that celebrates "Goddesses" we have Navaratri and Varalakshmi and prayers and chants and odes and hymns to lady dieties

And NONE of us want to have a girl child, and believe women are worthy of no respect

You shouldnt let anyone, including your MIL tell you whats important in life. Love Arishka and celebrate her as much as you like

What your mother in law believes is HER punishment

You shouldnt share it

I read someplace recently that, because of systematic culling of the herd the gender ratio is so skewed towards the males, and continues to be distorted that in the next 25 years its going to be 60-40 or 75-25

Serves all the matronly mother in laws right... if all their sons marry aging menopausal 60 year old shrews like themselves because they forced their friends and family to get rid of the female fetus

Edited by Nisha0604 - 9 years ago

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Sonal Gupta

@sonalgupta2004

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 9 years ago

#388

Originally posted by: Nisha0604
Sonal
WOMEN shunning the girl child and WOMEN shunning widows, two things I will never be able to understand about Hindu women in India

Its insanity of astounding proportions

Its quite embarrassing to me when my coworkers come upto me to ask about some widely publicized case of fetal murder or cruelty based on gender. We as a culture appear to them as savages

We are the only religion that celebrates "Goddesses" we have Navaratri and Varalakshmi and prayers and chants and odes and hymns to lady dieties

And NONE of us want to have a girl child, and believe women are worthy of no respect

You shouldnt let anyone, including your MIL tell you whats important in life. Love Arishka and celebrate her as much as you like
What your mother in law believes is HER punishment

You shouldnt share it

I read someplace recently that, because of systematic culling of the herd the gender ratio is so skewed towards the males, and continues to be distorted that in the next 25 years its going to be 60-40 or 75-25

Serves all the matronly mother in laws right... if all their sons marry aging menopausal 60 year old shrews like themselves because they forced their friends and family to get rid of the female fetus

Yes male female ratio is getting imbalanced day by day!!
Well u see thinking and time is changing but on a very slow pace.. People r biased or two faced on the one hand they don't want there daughters to study and get them married at a certain age., then these people only wants lady gynaec for there DIL when they get pregnant. Things and people will Change hopefully for better!
And Arishka... She is my wonder child she came to life when I was least expecting after 10 years of marriage, two miscarriages so she is a miracle to me and my hubby
She is darling of the house as she is youngest and get pampered a lot
She is our life 😊

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taramira

@taramira

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#389

what a bloody busy weekend! went to a coupleof diwali galas. everyone was dressed as if tomorrow will never come.. the same people at two different parties. all puch puch and hello and hi.. Phew!

anyhow did my bit, dressed up, got pciture staken, stood first in line (LOL) for food and came home.

Monday was at a domestic violence conference all day, came back so drained. in alllof this am way behind in my household chores - maslan ghar ki weekly safai and laundry.

anyhow I belive there has been talk about karma and Hinduism.

hmmm! agree with nisha to a large extent, but i think the word karma is used very loosely these days. for everythign its karma.. tumhari ice cream gir gayi... hey dude its karma, you fall flat on your face - its Karma. just like they use the term depression. i have met so many who are clinically depressed and say they get extremly upset when people use the term so flippantly because depression is a horrible mental illness and by using it so casually you are actually taking away the gravity of the illness. similarly I think Karma, whcih has deep philosophical connotations cannot be understood mainly as a sum and reward or punishment of one's actions. if we believe that what we expereince, see, feel is real and place utmost importance to bondage and desire, karma will sound a nonsensical way of being judged or an easy convenient way to dismiss gross inequalities. but if you truly believe in the concept of rebirths and our souls being in bondage, until we are able to attain nirvana,moksha or whatever then it would certainly mean something. but since we are such a slave of our desires (BTW that is the clever nature of the mind - it is evil and we can very easily become its slave) we come to believe that we are ones who are directing the universe, it is us who are powerful and all mighty, therefore belief in what's not present, cant be seen or felt have no meaning. jo hai yahin hai, soul kisne dekhi, parmatma kya hai... it is me, my family and people around me, it is what i see and what i can feel... BUT Is it really the truth? who knows. therefore when we have to deal with an extremely sad or tragic incident such as losing our children, or a loved one we are unable to keep the grief aside and be aware that we are indeed a slave of our desires, at this time the easiest explantion to give would be "karmon ka fal, which to a greiving person who doesnt have the so-called higher awarness sounds so hollow. we can of course argue to say desires are a wonderful thing...who in their rights mind would want to renounce - now that's a whole different argument of course!

BTW i really dont know what i have written😉