ArShi Dark SS: Pride and Prejudice|COMPLETED! - Page 10

Originally posted by: -She-loSarun

hi darling,
Yes you are excused.
Who made it a big discussion here? Me or her. I just told my opinion. Did I ask her stop the story or did I say it is a total waste? All that I said is I feel it is not new. May be for you and few people here it is new.
Yes she is doing a good thing by writing such fics.
Didn't I accept it?
Whatever I said, was in a positive way. Why do you take negatively?
And who is forcing you to accept negative comments? Did you analyse my words so much that you go in depth into it and find out inner meanings?
Did I try to control yagya? If you think so, I can't do anything. And your telling if some people write mocking my work that I will be hurt. Yes I will be hurt if they really mock me. But I won't take it negatively for the comment similar or like the one I posted. Just because you feel am wrong and mean I can't do anything.
You are talking about many others who are praising, so if they praise I should also praise and if they are hurting and I should also do the same? Is it what you are trying to say?

If I answered you back following my duty, the rules I have been taught from an young age, why didn't you stop my darling? It is a fact that a clap cannot be produced without two hands and a discussion cannot take place without two person involved in it. People write contract marriage stories all the time, don't they? And still many become a hit. Then why make a huge ruckus out of a concept which had, but an intention to spread awareness. If I had made POV post, would YOU have read it? Things like this need a wider reach! Blockbuster hit, Maine Pyaar Kiya dealt with the difficulties of class differences! Damini dealt with marital rape and went on to become an unforgettable movie! If it is written so many times, then why people still lack the awareness? If there is still a lack of awareness, it means that we still need to explore it! Why someone else? Isn't it you who is taking everything in a totally different manner? Vani wanted to say that your opinion and opinions of others don't match here and you took out a wholly different meaning here! I repeat myself, I don't want a war here nor are my intentions to offend someone. Thank You!

Originally posted by: subhadra14

Hey!

However tarnished the concept may be, the way it is carried forward is what really matters...

I have not read many of your stories...joined IF recently and received your PMs juz a while back...

But I feel you will make good sense out of this issue!!!

As far as the continuation is concerned, you must be stronger, hon! I mean everyone has a different opinion, (ya some people are not able to express their opinion with humility and kindness) but if you get weak in this way then how will you get through? You cannot stop people, right? But would you let your own personal goals get blurred like this? If you decided on something, I don't feel that after receiving so many welcoming remarks you should be giving this choice away to others, should you?

See, if someone said something that you didn't like or were upset to know, you can always draw your own meaning out of it! Try not to go into too much depth of things that worry you (Specially if you believe that the aim of some people is that you get upset, why don't make their venture trivial?)

Anyways (sorry for the long comments...juz u know, its a problem with me...hard to stop)

All the very best for your new story!

Take things in stride and go ahead!

PS. I didn't mention about my POV
On this topic (which I agree is a bit common) I have seen almost EVRYONE possesses a DIFFERENT opinion...and being a social scientist, I love to know about how the psychology goes on these very grueling and pressing issues, so you can imagine my interest associated with it.

But, like I said in a previous PM, I can't promise if I would be able to follow it (given my tight schedule), but i'll try...you may continue to PM me if you don't mind a few posts left uncommented by me!

And DoublePS. (sorry, would take care of some self-set word limit for comments)

Whatever I said is for you own good...I know how horrible it can be to get a demotivating comment as your first (I know and I can really sympathize with you) But for your own very bright and stress-free future, you must not take "Un-constructive" negative remarks that seriously (yeah, those that really help you can be really nice but those that according to you are futile must be discarded)

Good luck, again!

Buh-bye!

Thanks a lot, darling! I understand that whatever you have said is just for me! And please continue with your long comments, because I LOVE THEM DAMMIT! I will continue to PM you! But the point is that this is my own experience, and we writers leave a part of us in the fictions we write so when we get criticism that it is common or something upright condescending, we feel it is for us. Thanks a lot again, darling! love you!

Do continue for us Dr...

Nice concept dear...
Really in this situation victom r depress n shattered becoz no one care or love them ...all r think n point out tht her mistakes bt noone understand her or stand fr her... All r think society name family bt noone think about her emotion, pain, humility, insecurity, lose of faith In life...
Continue the story dear ...
Love you

Originally posted by: .MereRangMein.

I am duty-bound being a Kshatriya by birth to answer every question hurled at me! You might not feel it is wrong but others will not see through your eyes, but their own eyes. Because we are at the receiving end. Name it my immaturity or the inability to accept criticism, but you yourself clearly mentioned that if I am able to take positive comments, then I should be able to take negative comments too.

thanks for your reply. I know people won't see from my eyes. If they see, then who am I here?
And that's why am stalking this thread and giving replies to you. And I again say it, whatever I said was purely in a positive way. Even when I clarify it, you just try to prove me wrong with discussion.
And how would I know that I am not allowed to post which you feel is negative here. When a fiction is read by many, each one have their own POV. How am I supposed to know we should voice out what we feel about it.
OK maybe you felt hurt, but didn't I mention in my post that I am purely saying what I mean and am not asking you to stop this fic or something.
Again why so much of discussion over one post.

I completely agree with you! Rape victims are always taunted and disgraced in front of the society! And this story u must continue! 'rape' has become a trend these days but none care about those poor innocent victims who suffer for life! Its a good story and its good to knw that the victim will survive against all odds and will be able to lead a normal life like any other normal person!

Just read the prologue and its really good!
I'm not sure if i've read something similar to this!
And even if this is common like someone is mentioning, i would say, i'm eager to see how you're gonna take over this concept! I haven't read all of your works but i know that your take will be different for sure!

Please continue yagya.. I love your writing dear.. If someone doesnt find ur writing or the storyline interesting, then its doesnt mean that you should mourn over that.. I am sure there are lots of readers here who loves you n your writing.. :)

Go girl ❤️

Nice start,,,, waiting fr more, ,,, and plzz make it a SS. ..

Keep writing. There will always be negative persons around you trying to bring you down but it's how you respond. If you feel as strongly about this topic as you say you do, then continue it. You have a following of persons eager to read what you write. I mean think about it. How long has this person been reading your stories in order to post 1st on a new story of yours?