SS56 - Page 53

Originally posted by: putti77

Madhu can have only girls
How real these lines are...
My Naani tells when she delivered four girls in a row had got this taunt... And she was worried for her daughters..
But for all my aunts including mom first babies are boys.. 😊

Originally posted by: putti77

Madhu can have only girls
How real these lines are...
My Naani tells when she delivered four girls in a row had got this taunt... And she was worried for her daughters..
But for all my aunts including mom first babies are boys.. 😊

Originally posted by: sonalgupta2004

It is... No matter wht al say times changing it is still there hoe some day people stop giving ashirwad to the couple to hav a boy who has girls before ...
They should instead treat their boys to improve their sperms!!!

Originally posted by: luvparis

Hi putti di. How's it going?

Originally posted by: kalviswes

Lovely updates Nisha---awesome future update!!!!

Lovely to see II worried about R&B---she is so wifey now!!!

Ranjan found his happiness in Nivi...so adorable...😃

The two boys who are coming next, II is going to have her hands full😆

I love the somewhat uncomfortable relationship between II and Manny. It is so realistic...not everyone gets along with everyone as soon as you get married. True life is not a Sooraj Barjatya movie!!! That would be too sickening to even consider🤢 Hell, I am a sister-in-law, there are some of my cousins's spouses where it is hard to find common ground even several years after their marriage. Personalities differ, interests differ, and each person's take or opinion on certain actions or behaviors differs. Life would be so dull if we all got along!!😆

Ooh...Amma's worry--totally like what my mother had to go thru!! She had 2 girls and then waited and tried again (for a boy of course) and had me!!!!

Originally posted by: dristi64

Education is so important. Anybody who's studied basic biology till 10th std in India would know about XY chromosomes leading to birth of a male child. Its only men who have XY chromosomes while we females only have XX. Its just an accident which determines the gender of a child. Nobody and nothing has any control over it.

Ppl do have preferences but this age old bias is unacceptable. We needn't idolize girl babies either to balance it out. I think a healthy, happy baby is all any person should wish for. Be it Lasya or Shubhang❤️

Dedicated to dristi and putti...who were ahead in posting on the same lines as my thoughts based on Amma II convo

XX, XY and the basics of biology

Arrival of babies cause for celebration

Gender of the baby determines extent of celebration

Though the mother or her body has no role to play in the gender of the baby

Dependent on the gender Blame is meted out to her and congratulations to the father

Amma had often faced the brunt but her girls turned out into remarkable gems

Paati rejoiced at yet another grandson little realising the difference in her sons and the gem Vandhu is

The Bhallas await a princess now, would be delighted if a dozen Dancing Princesses II for them can line up

Navarathri the time girls most adored in an iyer home

On the second day this year we read Amma voice her pain and desire

After II's admittance of the worship her expectant body craves her gushing over kick she awaits

We read her panic at the kicking duel and her dread of what it does to her

II's obsession with her dude Dad's obsession with the angel, The angel's obsession in her best friend AKA her Appa

The attention and details of the angels skills and antics they savor, undivided attention she gets

Castor and Pollox a tsunami will be attention divided and Amma's pets

When Sahana completes the family II will have a handful to manage and a collection of pets

Tubes worry her and her parents and her threats to have them tied worry the dude and his family

Celebrations all around manner and extent and perspectives vary