Originally posted by: dsgirl
Nisha...frankly I don't know how much openly you can share with ur partner...even if You know someone for 3-4 years doesn't the relation change with marriage...u can never be as open as ur with ur own family...I'm not even surprised II finds it difficult to share what's in her mind
I know a couple Marathis, both are in IT, both work for companies like Infosys and TCS etc in Blore.
LOVE MARRIAGE. They both are Program Managers responsible for large installation projects, husband manages a overseas client wife manages a Desi client. He works 80 hours a week when she has to work 60 he gets all upset...
She doesnt tell him 90% of her work troubles. ITS VERY COMMON
You have to be married to know that
She is a Gandhian in some ways, she was robbed at the Bellandur Tank bus stop, the crooks charged her card for Rs.80,000 in an hour, by the time she found out. The bank sent her the charges, she did not pay... since the store videos captured the crooks shopping... the bank sued her, she spent TWO YEARS attending court appointments and hearing dates WITHOUT HUBBY'S KNOWLEDGE in an attempt to prove herself and punish the bank for wrongful lawsuit
At the end the judge ordained in favor of the bank and she went to therapy to get over it
Her husband was sarcastic and dismissive and aloof about the whole thing from the moment she said the bank was at fault, he thought "she had lost it in wanting to take on a "big bank"